Hi! umm, can i kiss a guy first if he is just my friend but i like him?
Question Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 3:51 am
so, do i want to kiss my guy first? i mean, we have been friends for quite a while, and we went out a lot to movies, and to the water park together and stuff, and i like him, but we never really kissed. (hugs don't count for much lol)
and btw, i've never kissed a guy, so i dunno where to start off even.
THX! -Charlotte, 15
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sami143 answered Thursday July 9 2009, 8:23 pm: It seems like your in a tough spot. You might want to find out if your guy friend likes you before you decide to kiss him. Because if he just see's you as a friend then it could mess up the relationship between you two, and im betting you dont want that. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask how he feels. If he likes you then one day when your hangin out just look at him in the eyes like you care about him and it will just kinda come to you.
itdependsonyoux3 answered Wednesday July 8 2009, 7:57 pm: I say why not ?! go for it. If you like him and you think he likes you back, then kiss him :] It doesn't matter if you don't know what you're doing, it's kind of a natural thing, just go with the flow :] which is the best advice I've been told. But if he doesn't like you the way you like him and you DO wind up kissing him, don't make things awkward or let a kiss ruin the friendship.. all is fair in love and war .. yuh know? Sometimes you have to try kissing a person to know if you really like him/her, because if you do, there will be "sparks" and for the kissing part, honestly, don't be afraid, it'll just kinda happen, lean into him and look at his lips, he'll get the hint eventually. :]
hope I helped, good luck and have fun ! if you need anything else feel free to inbox me. xxo. [ itdependsonyoux3's advice column | Ask itdependsonyoux3 A Question ]
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