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this ones a doozy
alright. first of all ive been datin my boyfriend for almost 4 months, and im very happy. hes a really good guy, we hang out with my parents, hes hung out with my grandparents, hell pick me up if i have no where to go, plus hes a real gentleman and we get along great.
the problem is, my friends dont see it. they think that there is something fishy about it which i dont really understand because they dont hang out with him nearly as much as i do. i have a group of 4 best girl friends, but lately they dont seem like that at all.
my main best friend, 'Z', has a big party house. and her mom lets us do whatever basically, even hard drugs. ive done em a few times at her house and for the rest jus smoked and drank.
but the thing is, before z's house turned into a big party house, i chilled with her and our other friend and had fun with out that.
ive been growin up a lot this summer and i realized that i dont wanna spend my summer doin the same thing at that house everyday.
plus, her mom is very manipulative and possesive, and since me and z have been best friends for 3 years, shes like that over me.
so friday night, i got really drunk and went to a hookha lounge with my boyfriend to meet them there. then, we went to a party after that. they all left, and when my boyfriend drove me to catch up with him, 'P' (one of my best friends but i gotta watch out for her) yells 'yeah tricia, why dont you jus go give your boyfriend road head, we're goin to ihop'
sooo i was like 'fuck it lets just go back to the party'...and when i did, i made a horrible drunk decision to do morphine. i was feelin fine until my boyfriend found out and he went crazy! then it turned into a bad trip and i ended up sleepin on his floor freakin out that night. the only problem is i was supposed to sleep at Z's house...
so the next night i go over to Z's house to chill for a lil bit with my boyfriend (who they already dont like) and i told Z what i did the night before and thats why i didnt go pack, plus what P said. she acted cool about it so i thought everythin was fine. they wanted me to stay over and i was going to but then I DECIDED to go home so i did.
welllllllanyways.
z's mom calls my step-dad this mornin, and says that they have to get me away from my boyfriend. because im 'different' (i guess cuz im not goin over there 24/7) and that i did morphine BECAUSE of him (which isnt true & Z told all my friends) and that i was supposed to spend the night at her house saturday (not true)... and she said that im doing coke ! wtf
the first time and last time i did coke was WITH her.
i dont know. all my friends are turnin against me and theyve been my friends for so long.
i dont know what to do :/ help.
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She's obviously not 'Your Friend' and A BIG BITCH
Your friend or a friend in general has no right to judge your boyfriend, and start rumors or do something as fucked up.
I understand your problem with drugs; well you see long time ago i did have your lifestyle and yes my mother is so open minded and cool with it, but i start feeling like everyone is going against me and that my life sucks and suicide, i would drink and do LSD and blah ...
But then i realized that all my problems are from alcohol and drinking. But i didn't like the fact that I'd have to stop drinking and doing drugs.
So i kept doing it, till i broke down completely nothing compare to what happened to you.
You see, life was trying to give me a lesson but i didn't learn, then later i learned the hard way.
This isn't the last day of your life, worst stuff can happen trust me, this is nothing and your best friend is obviously not your friend, you need to change your life style and maybe ask your nice boyfriend to help you out.
Good Luck =]
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It's not your friends you need advice on.. It's the drugs you do!! Dude, you'll end up killing yourself!!!! Yeah Drugs = Death, Death = NO MORE, THE END, THAT'S IT!!!
Personally, I think you should ditch the drugs, you need to either ditch your friends because they are obviously the one's who influence you with the drugs OR help them too!!
First of all, you need to talk to 'Z' and explain that you like this guy and it's not something that she can control. This is YOUR boyfriend and it should have nothing to do with her.
Second, if they cannot get along and you want them all in your life.. then make time for all of them. Don't take your boyfriend to your friends house and vise versa. Mistake No 1.
Third, tell your friends that you are going to quit with the drugs and do something right for yourself. Your going to be the one who's laughing at the end of the day when they end up like junkies and your doing good for yourself.
There is NO EXCUSE!!!!
Goodluck
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Your friends are sicko's and very bad news. They are not really friends, but a bunch of back stabbing low lives.
You are a fool for continuing to drink and do drugs, too.
I have no idea how old you are, but judging from the decisions you've made, I'd say you're 14 because what you have done is from a 14 yr. old mentality.
Your boyfriend sounds like a decent guy and perhaps you should listen to him. He seems, (from what you've said) to have a level head.
Really, you've gotten yourself into a bind because of your disgusting friends. They are liars and have proven that they will even lie about you. So much for friendship.
Z's mother needs to go to jail, which is where you'll end up (or worse) if you continue with this criminal gang of creeps.
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