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I have a boyfriend that no one but me and a couple of really close friends know about. Ive made out with him, but never went "all the way". I kinda don't want to, but its all he talks about. What should I do? (link)
I'll give you the advice I wished I had heard before I did "it"
Even the slightest amount of doubt, can lead to a world of regret.


My girfriend and i are 16 weve been together over 7 months weve been talking about having sex we are both virgins and im still nervous my penis is not that big im worried that i wont be any good or will able to please her does it matter if im small? will i be able to satisfy her? (link)
If you and you're girlfriend are both sure, then go for it, use protection though.
It really doesn't matter if you're small.
It's not about the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean.
The first time for any guy isn't much, the first several times really. But I'm sure you can make it enjoyable for her, I've been with guys with small and large penises. Surprisingly the size didn't make much of a difference.


I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long! (link)
It's possible he made it private because there were private things about the two of you.
Honestly, sit him down and tell him you're being bothered. Talking it out really helps.
But everyone has things they keep to themselves and you shouldn't let it bother you too much. If things get more suspicious then you should worry.


Well, I love piercings. However, on the other hand, my mom isn't as open to the idea. I do have my ears pierced and have since I was very, very young. I really want to stretch my ears but when I brought up the idea to my mom it was a definite "no". I'm pretty sure I could convince my mom to let me get more piercings to my ears or possibly my naval, eyebrow, or nose, as well. But these aren't exactly what I would want. I'm liking hips, collarbones, tounges, and lip piercings. I do plan to bring this up with my mom, although she is contrarian, and see what her terms and conditions are.. So what are other piercing ideas that may stand a chance with my mom?

I'm not interested/ nor will my mom let me get septum, dimple, bridge, nape, or any piercings in my "private" area. Also, I think the biggest issue she has about piercings is that it might be difficult along the rode to get a job..

Also, I am a fifteen year old girl. Thanks in advance. (link)
Cheek piercings are really cool.
But if you want something less out there trying getting the tops of your ears pierced, i've always wanted under my collar bone pierced.
Monroes are also pretty cool.
There's tons of really cool piercings.



Hey sooo.. im going to be a freshman this year and a junior started talking to me on facebook.. so we started texting and when we finally hang out im really scared because im usually shy around people when i first meet them plus the fact that we have been texting for like a month makes it more awkward so if youguys could give me some advice on how to be myself and be more flirty around him id really appreciate it :) (link)
I know you'll be nervous.
I used to have that problem being shy and all that.
When I started dating guys I always got nervous, then one day I thought.
Why be shy? So I just shrugged off that feeling and was just myself.
It's hard to do but once you do it, it just makes everything easier.


At night, starting around 10:00 pm, I start getting really thirsty. I've been tested for diabetes and it doesn't matter how much I drink during the day. Plus it's mostly fruity or carbonated things that will quench my thirst for a bit.

What do you think it is? (link)
It's kind of weird, I night I'd get really thirsty and get cotton mouth.
I started keeping a bottle of water by my bed it helps a lot.
Wish I could help!


A few days ago i went to a party and a song came on. Didn't get all the words, but i got a nice chunk. You think you could help me out? It went like this:

There was police and flashing lights
The rain came down so hard that night
and the headlines read a lover died
No tell-tale heart was left to[something incoherent]when you...

[Then it goes to the chorus. It sounded something like this:]

...mourn the death of your...


And that's all i got. I like the song. Don't know the name. Do you? Also, do you know of any music that sounds similar?

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Good Charlotte
My Bloody Valentine
it's on the Young and the Hopeless album


I use the sock method to curl my hair because I don't like using heat when I don't have to. However, they seem to fall out pretty easy, even if they have hairspray AND gel. Any ideas? (link)
Too much product could weigh down your curls make them fall flat. Let up on the gel. After you wash your hair put in a small amount of leave in a conditioner from root to tip. before you curl your hair use a bit of hair spray, not a ton just a slight mist over your hair then brush it. After it's curled spray it lightly again unless you feel like you need a bit more. But don't over load on products.


So i really want my hair color to be like Rachele Brooke Smith's color. here are some pictures of her-

http://www.zombiehighmovie.com/Bios/rachele.jpg

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZlXHZrVPO-0/Stcz2Y8o0MI/AAAAAAAAAIc/HEEGXRWFoeU/s400/Rachele+Brooke+Smith.jpg

http://thumbs.filmstarts.de/wallpaper/GirlsUnited5_scene_01.jpg

Her color is a brown but with red too.. i've tried to dye my hair like that but it always ends up being more brown than red. I've tried using Loreal's Dark Soft Mahognay Brown. and Revlons Dark Aubrun Brown. But they seem to make my hair more brown than red. How do i get that tint of red??

Anybody have any brands or types of dye they would recommend?? Thank you! (link)
I have my hair a brownish red and it has a red glow in the light. My hair was already a dark brown so I bought like a dark red and put it in my hair.


Hello everyone!

I'm starting to buy a whole bunch of costume jewelry (specifically HOOP earrings) from places like Forever21. I was wondering, do any of you have jewelry boxes that hold all your earrings? Does anyone know where I can get cute jewelry boxes? I find the regular ones so plain and boring. How do you store all your earrings? Thanks in advance! (link)
I was at a thrift store with my mom and I found this japanese styled pagoda jewelry box. It has three drawers on on each level and it plays music when I open it. My point is, thrift stores have unique things that you can't find anywhere else. Find one by you and you might get lucky and find some really cool jewelry box.


A girl that is 5'4-5'5 too tall to wear heels? In middle school I was taller than most guys and I think ever since then I think of myself as "too tall" to wear heels. Im going away to college and I wanna dress a little bit more girly and I think wearing heels will be a big step up!.. Thanks!! (link)
That's actually kinda short. I'm sixteen and 5'8" and I wear heals occasionally, usually only to church or family parties. But nothing is wrong with adding an inch or two right?


So i really need a new pair of shoes to start off my senior year. I want to go for something comfortable, but I also want something that looks a little more grown up to match my wardrobe. My style is pretty girly, but I'm too tall for heels and I have enough flats and sandals. I'm just looking for a simple and versatile, but really cute everyday shoe. Thanks so much! :)♥ (link)
I usually stay with slip on shoes or flats, not very girly though. But a few months ago I was shopping and I bought these pink open toes flats. They wrapped around my foot and it was so cute and sophisticated at the same time. Open toed flats look really cute.


I naturally have very blonde hair. Its also soft and silky. But there are man different shade in it...the front is extremly blonde and the back is more of a dirty blonde.
How can i naturally lighten my hair without dying it at the hairdresser, and still keep it silky and soft? (link)
There are several ways, you can just sit out in the sun after swimming and it'll lighten slightly.

Lemon juice works.

Also so does vinegar.

I heard leaving oatmeal melted butter and cinnamon works too.


basically i want to fall back in love with my boyfriend but its hard, and do not judge me as you read this, but.. I like a guy thats a challenge to get you know, but my boyfriend never was like i kinda just went out with him cause i hadnt had a boyfriend inawhile, but anyways i fell in love with him.. but we broke up after i a dumb drunk fight. the mean time we were broken up i lost some feelings for him because i started to like someone else.. basically now me and my boyfriend are going back out but i dont feel a "spark" between us anymore like yeah i love him as a person but im not IN love with him anymore, but i want to bed.. we hang out everyday that might be a problem as well? when we hang out we go out as well, whether it be golfing or movies its not like we just stay inside all day yanno. helppp =/ how do i fall back in loveeeeee (link)
I've had this problem I dated a guy for a year, half of the time I loved him, but just everything changed and I realized I was slowly loosing feelings for him. I didn't love him at all anymore at one point. Then came a day where my best friend gave me some advice that made me realize I had to break up with him, he said If he still loves you and you don't feel the same, it may seem like you're being selfless, but it's selfish. The longer you wait to tell him the more it's going to hurt him.
Now I'm dating the guy that gave me that great advice :)


What does it mean for a guy to say you are naive when it comes to relationships? (link)
It just means you're not very smart or just not very educated when it comes to things. Like not stupid but just you don't know a whole lot about things kind of ignorant you could say? Like for instance. When I was with my ex boyfriend I was so in love with him I was naive to the fact he was a complete ass hole?


I have problem I don't last long when having sex. I get too excited when at the foreplay stage then when I actually come to the sex part I don't last long at all. Is there any advice people can give me please (link)
Once you get an erection just go for it. Don't wait around, even though foreplay is great just go straight for sex.
Also if you slow down or take breaks during sex. If you just go fast the whole time you won't last very long. Just try going fast until you feel like you're going to climax soon. Then stop or slow down a whole bunch. Slow down or just wait until the feeling of climaxing goes away or is less great. Repeat this as long as you can. My boyfriend does this three or four times during sex and he usually lasts about forty minutes to an hour


Ok here's. The question does size matter do women like a man to be well endowed or average and is it thickness or width iv herd that if a mans penis is small without an erection then when he has one its quite big verses a man with a big penis with no erection doesn't get that big .the question is what do women prefer ? That satisfy a womens pleasure . (link)
Size really doesn't matter :)
It's not a big deal honestly if you love them then they shouldn't care.
Also I think it matters more on how you use it. Because if you're awkward or just new at it. It probably won't feel to good.
I know this sounds stupid but I was once told.
"It's not about the size of the boat it's about the motion of the ocean"


My boyfriend bought a box of condoms that are marked as ultra thin or whatever. I told him I won't use them because I think they probably are more likely to break and I'm not on birth control pills so we don't have a back up protection thing or whatever. He says they aren't more likely to break than like regular condoms and doesn't want to go buy more condoms.

Are these thing condoms more likely to break or not?

Need to know (link)
Condoms labeled ultra thin can only be sold because they've tested them. Most the time it tells you they're tested. On the back or wherever there's information. My boyfriend and I use ultra thin condoms five or six times and they've never broken.


i am on my period and i am going swimming with my camp tommorow do i wear a pad or what. (link)
Wear a tampon, a pad will fall apart, and won't hold in all the blood.


we already know kids / teens of all ages are having sex. but how do you know youre physically, emotionally, and mentally ready to have sex? (link)
I remember when I lost my virginity I was fifteen, I was with this guy I was sure I loved, I wasn't ready for sex. I knew I wasn't deep down. He told me it'd make him happy if I did. I thought I loved him so I did. The whole time all I thought was stop no I shouldn't I'm not ready. Deep down I knew that I wasn't ready. I paid the price, I was not physically or emotionally ready. I wasn't with the right guy either. Losing your virginity can be very painful in both ways. I thought he was the right guy. But a few months later I looked at the big picture, something I should've done before I let him take my virginity when I knew I wasn't ready. So take a step back before you do this, look at the big picture, decide if this is the right person to be losing it to. Because if it isn't you'll regret. I still regret it. I wish I could've lost it to the guy I have now. He lost his to me and I wish I could've shared it with him as well. You should save it. It's a very special thing, and when you find the right person, they'll feel so honored that you waited and saved yourself for the person you loved and felt deserved to take your virginity. It's not all about feeling good, it's something very deep and connects two people on a very strong emotional level. Make sure it's the right person, make sure you're ready. Think about it, for a long time, don't let anyone push you and if you have any doubt at all you're not ready. Take you're time, and when you are ready. Use protection.
I really hope this helps.




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