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How do I fall back in love with my boyfriend?
basically i want to fall back in love with my boyfriend but its hard, and do not judge me as you read this, but.. I like a guy thats a challenge to get you know, but my boyfriend never was like i kinda just went out with him cause i hadnt had a boyfriend inawhile, but anyways i fell in love with him.. but we broke up after i a dumb drunk fight. the mean time we were broken up i lost some feelings for him because i started to like someone else.. basically now me and my boyfriend are going back out but i dont feel a "spark" between us anymore like yeah i love him as a person but im not IN love with him anymore, but i want to bed.. we hang out everyday that might be a problem as well? when we hang out we go out as well, whether it be golfing or movies its not like we just stay inside all day yanno. helppp =/ how do i fall back in loveeeeee
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I've had this problem I dated a guy for a year, half of the time I loved him, but just everything changed and I realized I was slowly loosing feelings for him. I didn't love him at all anymore at one point. Then came a day where my best friend gave me some advice that made me realize I had to break up with him, he said If he still loves you and you don't feel the same, it may seem like you're being selfless, but it's selfish. The longer you wait to tell him the more it's going to hurt him.
Now I'm dating the guy that gave me that great advice :)
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You can't force feelings that aren't there, no matter how hard you try. If you don't love him, then you don't love him, and if there's no spark, It's unlikely for you to find the spark again. Once you've hung out everyday, and lost the spark or never had it when you got back together with him, you won't get it again. It sounds like you just want to be with SOMEONE, not just him. i think that it would be fair to tell him that you love him, but that you're not in love with him, so you're better off being friends. After your friends again for a while and the pressures of dating are off, then you might feel a spark again later on. But it's only fair to him and yourself to tell him how you feel, and to become just friends. Good Luck
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There is no way to force yourself to fall in love with a person, it just happens....
If you are asking yourself how to make yourself be in love with him again, then that is a sign to let it end.
I'm assuming you are still young and have many years ahead of you to find that special someone...
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