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my brother's friend like me..
14/f going into high school
my older brother is a senior and he has this friend (named adam). adam has always been really nice. for example, i was trying on my dress for a dance and i asked "how do i look?" and he said "very pretty" when my brother was just standing there with his other friend. that was a few months ago. i saw him tonight again with me brother they were in the garage smoking weed (don't judge; i've done it a few times before) so adam offers me a bowl and i take it and smoke it with my friend away from them. i can tell he's into me and my friend agreed but i can't do that because he is my brother's friend. but honestly, if he wasn't my brother's friend i'd probably like him a lot..
hmmm, i'm not sure what my question is.. just advice please.
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You want advice? A guy doesn't like you just because he said you looked "very pretty" in your dress. A guy doesn't like you because he smoked weed with you.
Find someone your own age or don't date at all. I know "age is just a number" but not when you're 14 and he's probably an adult or close to it.
--Jack
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Your right, your brother probably would be upset. You're 14, his friend is or around the age of 18 correct? Not only is it not moral, its illegal. The age of consent is 16, so I would hang around awhile.You don't want a huge age gap like that anyway, or the awkwardness around your brother. I would find someone your own age, and if you're still in touch when you're older, then go for it. It's in your best interest to smile and talk to him, but nothing more. It is absolutely inappropriate, you're right. Try finding someone you like that's your age, that way it won't bother your brother, and it won't be illegal. Good luck
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