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Most of the boyz I have been with want to have sex with me but I say no because I THOUGHT I belived in abstanence. But now I have had a relationship with this boy for two months and I think he is the one. I am so in love with this boy. Everyday we talk he tells me he loves me, he wants to get married, he wants me to have his kids, and he wants to be with me for ever. I want to have sex with him but I am scared that he will say I am not doing it right. please help me. I am in desperate need of an answer. What should I do?
ok well one, only do this if you truly believe that your ready. two monts is a ok period of time, but things can still go very wrong. adn if your afriad hes gunna say your not "doing it right' then you might want to explain to him that your a virgin adn if he does care for you then he will undersatnd and go easy on ya
There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him.
ok if you actualy are in love you will be fine. but it is a,ot of work so be ready for it.
How can you usually tell if your in love?
I think its when ya still get butterflies wen your with them and you always want to be around them adn would do anythign for them
hello! i am 13. im having my second child (i had my first when i was 11, her name is Amy). For my first baby, i told my parents and they were so happy! They felt stupid because they are going to be GRANDparents at 26 but i told them its not a big deal! So when i had Amy, it was totally natural! I felt so good and proud. The two of us have been living at my parents house for 2 years now. The father of my Amy, is now the father of Tommy, my bun in the oven! ;) I love him so much and he loves me. My parents love him too. He doesnt have any parents really. Well he does, but he runs away and stays away for a really long time. He is 11 right now. I think he should come live with me, amy and tommy! i havent brought it up with my parents yet though.
i thought it was the coolest thing that amy and her dad were so close in age, because they would probably be really close. Amys 2 and she can talk really well. She LOVES her dad and me.
my problem is, will Amy feel left out? will tommy not like his daddy or me? tommy's due date is tomorrow so for moms out there, you kno that my stomach is rubbing agenst the keyboard right now. but it feels good, i love pregnancy!
anyway, me and my boyfriend are geting married in one year. im so excited!
so just please answer my questions. thank you. sorry for the lenght. oh, tommy says thank you as well (he just kicked. . .twice!). oh and amy says hi as well! ;)
thanks again, bye!
this isnt real, now way man your bf would of had to have been like 9 when he got ya knocked up the first time! most guys havent even begun peuberty! so this has to be a joke, convince me that its real! please i would love to know, now Im really curious.
hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help
umm well i would suggest thinking something like this through very thuroughly. you would deinetly want to find out how she feels and i have o ask how odl is she, becuase if shes really young like 13-sih then she will probaply be kind of immature when it comes to relationship things, and she might not even be ready for a realtionship. And I think that if you were to ask her out you must be very sure of your feelings. clearly you do like her
Okay so i'm 16 years old in the middle of my junior year in high school. I really want to move in with my mom who lives across the country from my dad. My mom wants me to move in with her too so she hired a lawyer and had to pay 5000 dollars for all the stuff. Since she had to pay all this money she has really been strapped for cash and might have to move into a smaller house, and maybe even to a new town, forcing my little sister to change schools. If i tell her i dont want to move then she can get some of the money back probably about half. My mom really wants me to move in with her but this financial stuff is really getting bad. Should i tell her i should just stay so she can get half the money back? Or should i just move anyways? Making her have really bad financial security
any advice would be great
well that is a horrible position to be put in, and i do agree that it would be best to wait untill she isnt so straped for cash, but im curisous as to why she would need soo much for lawyer fees, I had been told that if your over 13 or 16( probaply 16) and your parents are separated you can choose who to live with, the lawyers cant really argue. but i suppose there could be other situations, where that could change. best of luck
ok well I was the one who broke up with my bf, and its been three days and hes ready to ask out another girl! we went out for a month and a half! i mean im only 13/f but still... does anyone else think its weird? i mean im really hurt... what should i do?
ok well I think it does kinda suck for him to be askin out another but yea you are only 13. and hes probaply just on the rebound.
ok look it has been about 5 weeks now that i had sex.. well i didnt want to.. wat happended is that my brother had one of his friends coming up and im 13 and the guy was 17.. and wen i went in my room he was on the bed just sitting there and starring at me. he told me to come over and i did well he started to kiss me.. and wen he did all i said is that i just wanted to kiss.. but he started to touch me down there and i was scared i pullrd bak and said dont i just wanna kiss. and he said ok well we started kissing and he did it again he was kinda forcing himself on me well then it lead to ''''sex'''' i dont no if i should tell someody about it i mean i did it but i didny want to... help
well thats what i like to call rape. rape is bad. but you should talk to your parents and maybe even your brother to tell him his friend is a scum bag. and then if you wish you can report it to the police, and if a rape charge or what not wont stick then you should be able to get him for sexuall ahrassment. He shoud not be able to do such thin to any one, its just wrong. you also probaply should have fought hard to get him to stop if you really didnt want him to go any further. that guy should not be allowed in hour home any more, hell he shouldnt be allowed around any one with booobs. you really should do soething about it. in my opinion. something like that should never happen to anyone
I'm a 16 year old girl who's been dating this guy I'm fully in love with for around 7 - 8 months. We're both still virgins but we've talked about losing our virginity to each other. Neither one of us has EVER did anything sexually with another person, so I'm pretty sure neither of us have any STDS or AIDS. So far, we've experienced everything but sex with each other. We've considered all the risks & have thought long and hard about this, but mind you, we are prepared and we do have a brain unlike half the teenage population. We both know that we are fully ready to do this in our minds & hearts. But, I have a question. Even though, we aren't married & we're gonna lose our virginity to each other.. and though we've been together for a while & are planning on beging together for a long time after this (possibly even marriage later on, but you never know what may happen).. do you think this is okay? Like sometimes it worrys me because I know in my heart that it's a sin to have sex before marriage, but we've talked about it & with our friends as well, and we all figured out that if you ask God for his forgiveness, he will accept it. I just want opinions on this.. do you think it's okay to have sex at 16 if you're mature & ready enough? I mean, what's the point in waiting until you're married? I know one reason is because it can be a sin and then another is because there's a possibility of having a baby, but if you're sexually "safe" with condoms & birth control, then you're chances are very slim to none for having a child. So any opinions or thoughts is welcome on this.. don't be afraid to express how you feel, it won't bother me. Thank you all very much! :)
ok well 16 is a fine age to be having sex, if your ready. pre-marital sex in my mind is ok. If you feel that you do love the person and your comforatble enough with them to have sex then go do it. I honestly dont understand how something like premarital sex can be a sin,its a narutal thing wether it be before or after marriage. if you do decide to have sex, then just make sure you take all precautions, if your thinking on sex and your not on birth contorl you might want to consider it, as a just in case thing.
good luck
my frend brittany went out with this kid named james. when they broke up, james started talkin 2 me on da computer. he wood kall me sexy nd everythin even tho he neva saw me, he wood always talk 2 me so nice.then 1 day, he asked me out nd i sed yes-not knowin wat he looks like-. wen i DO see him, turns out he's asian. nd no offense but i dunt like asian boys, i like white ones. he's really nice, but he isn't that cute... i wood break up with him but i dunt wanna break his heart since he really loves me...nd i dunt hav da guts 2 break up with some1 cus its 2 sad.... i dunt no wat i shood do!!! heLp me pleeeeeeeeees!
are you serious? your opinion on the guy totally changed because you found out hes asian. thats so incredibly shallow, please break up with him, you dont deserve him. go find some one just as shallow and superfical as yourself. this guy donst deserve this I dont really care who he is. if you cant like some one because of personality, you arent going to have many good relationships.
and next time please spell in english, it took way too long to figure out what the hell you were saying.
Went out earlier tonight and stole as many flowers out of gardens as I posibly could, ended up with quite a lot of differant flowers.
Went to this girls house, who I have been out with at least 6 times, climbed over her apartment fence (questioning my sanity at being there in the middle of the night) scatered the flowers on her lawn and left.
I'm kinda scared that she will think I'm a weirdo stalker or something, but I really hope it makes her happy and special...
I have a idea that she likes me...kinda saw her being jeolous at another woman i was talking to one night (the woman was sweet, but happely married to someone else, and I REALLY like this girl)
anyway the real question for the modern age...would you consider this Romantic or Creepy?
thats really cute and romantic! you dont hear about people doin that much any more. but as to how she will react totaly depends on her personality, but chacnces are if shes gettin jealous over ya then she will probpaly find it cute :)
good luck 17/f
ok look its been about 5 weeks now.. how do you no if you are preganent wat are sighns.. i mean its been 5 weeks i figured i would like my belly getting to show or something
ok, if you think you might be pregnant, then take the test just to be sure, but the usually signs are nausea,missed periods and your boobs can get bigger, and no you probaply wont be showing, but you will start to put on weight.
Ok, so I'm pretty sure that I love my gf, and a friend told me she loved me. But I don't know if he was telling the truth. I want to bring it up but I don't know how I can tell if she does. If I say it and then she doesn't say it back, well I wouldn't know what to do, it would just be out there and then everything would be awkward. What
should I do? Do i just tell her or wait to see if she loves me, then tell her. Sorry I'm just confused.
Thanks, I'll rate high for good advice.
well fi your realy in love thats great! and i think thats someting that you can bring uo at the right momnet, ya know, when it just feels like the right time. and if sh doesnt feel the same, im sure she will be touched that you feel that way about her.
good luck!
13-f ok i was having sex and my dad walked in.. what do i do i havnt seen him since and i wa but naked head to toe and so was he no blankets and .. idn please help !! i rate HIGH
your guna have to talk to your dad, and it would probaply be best if you broughtit up. and hopefully you hvae leanred to never have sex at your house when the parents are home... or just do it some where in the house with a lock on the door;)
ok ive never been kissed before and im nervous that when i do get kissed that i wont know what im doin and ill be bad. any advice, thoughts, or tips about this?
dont worry! just go with it. you cant really learn kissing, but practice never hurts ;) lol. but yea the best thing to just go with it and see what happens!
sorry it's so long, and please look at this in an open-minded manner, and i'm not looking for answers that say you're waiting for marriage so i'm a slut. i'll rate high if you tried, and low if you're ignorant.
my ex-boyfriend broke up in august and aren't dating exclusively, but we still hook-up from time to time. hooking up meaning having sex. we had sex today, and then i went to the movies with one of my close guy friends. we went back to my guy friend's house and we had sex. i really want to forget it ever happened and not tell anybody, though. the guy promised he wouldn't tell, and i trust him. the thing is, if it gets out somehow, and my ex-boyfriend finds out, he'll hate me. should i tell him or just let it slide? by the way, i'm on birth control and i only have sex with a condom.
sounds like you still like you ex, but he is your ex so why should he care if you guys arn't going out! but it sounds like ya had a very good day!!!
Ever since I was a little girl I've always either been picked on or got laid off for jobs becuase I don't have very good enery/stamina.
Partly this is because of things that are out of my control, I have a slight heart murmur so I can't run for a long time and look funny when I run. The girls in highschool made fun of me behind my back and I was always picked last for teams during gym.
I have also lost jobs because of this. I got laid off last year after one shift as a chambermaid, and most recently at the superstore ( well I havent been laid off yet but I'm not getting any shifts.). I am also on a medication for a mental illness which I cannot control which tends to make me move slower. I've also lost potential bofriends because one time I went to play tennis on a date and he told me I had bad stamina. On the outside I look completely normal and healthy so I think people just think I"m a klutz and I am lozy. What would be a good job for me to apply for where there isnt a lot of psyichal stuff? I am a very friendly person and I'm honest and reliable. I may be a little slower but that doesnt mean I am not a good person
RMH! you sit down and answer the phone all day helping people fix their computer problems. they will trian you and everything!
Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice.
your opinions on sex are your own. personally i dont think pre-marital sex is a big deal. if you understnd the risks and feel that you are ready or it then you should be fine.
I have a friend that had a child 1 year ago, and she is recently haveing unpretected sex for the past 2 weeks. She said that milk is comeing out of her breast and she is geting morning sickness. Me being a mother, that was my frist sign for me that i was pregnet. Someone told me that it it normal for mothers that after a year of haveing your child for milk to come out your breast. We also took a pregnacey test, and it said that she was not pregnet, but we were thinking that maybe it is to soon to tell.
What do you think??? thanks for the help.she is 17 yrs old by the way.
k first, your friend shouldnt be havin unprotected sex. and if she thinks she might be pregnant again, the she should be makin some doctor appoinments. hte test can be wrong when it says that your not pregnant, so she might want to try takin a few more. and if she isnt pregnant then she should seriously consider birth control.
I have a halloween/costume party the 22nd and i have no clue what to go as. I want it to be sexy and clever, but not too sexy cuz im 14. uhmm..if it helps im 5'7'' blonde. PLEASE HELP!!! Scary stuffs ok too
k dude some of the hottest things you could be would be a nurse a cop or french maid ya know. short skirt, low shirts, it can be as sluty as you want or as concealing as ya want, like if you were to be the maid then ya could just wear the short poofy skirt with fisnets nad have the top be a bit higher up. things like that.