Question Posted Saturday October 29 2005, 12:07 am
13-f ok i was having sex and my dad walked in.. what do i do i havnt seen him since and i wa but naked head to toe and so was he no blankets and .. idn please help !! i rate HIGH
honestymatters answered Saturday October 29 2005, 8:40 am: Dear OMG,
First of all I do hope that you were responsible enough to where a condom. If not, then you have bigger problems than getting up the nerve to talk to your dad!
The first rule of having sex is never do it where you can get interrupted. The second rule is never do it in your parents house.
Your dad just saw his 13 year old daughter having sex. He is in shock, unless he's known about you being sexually active. (Then he is embarrassed for walking in on you.) He is probably dwelling over where he went wrong and trying to figure out how to talk to you about it. Break the ice by telling him that you are sorry he had to find out that way (if he didn't know about you being active) and that it won't happen again. Then ask him at what age he started having sex. Talking to your father you must be open and honest, but above all get his advice and even ask him which brand of condoms he recommends.
Sex is not a bad thing, on the contrary, it is a beautiful thing no matter who you are with. I am not going to criticize you for having sex at the age of thirteen. Some girls mature faster than others, just be responsible about it and stay protected.
haha answered Saturday October 29 2005, 8:29 am: You are thirteen damn years old that's why your dad got mad you dumbass. Who the fuck has sex at thirteen? That's right, only whores. Go to Las Vegas it's legal to cash sex there. [ haha's advice column | Ask haha A Question ]
bittersweet17 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 3:21 am: the prolbem is that you are thirteen and having sex. no thirteen year old should be having sex! at all. do you know the that you should only give yourself away when you are in love and it not just for "fun" chances are that you aren't going to be with him for the rest of your life. but you should sit down and talk to your dad and give him a real good explation. sorry that really all i can think of to say. [ bittersweet17's advice column | Ask bittersweet17 A Question ]
redninja answered Saturday October 29 2005, 2:52 am: your guna have to talk to your dad, and it would probaply be best if you broughtit up. and hopefully you hvae leanred to never have sex at your house when the parents are home... or just do it some where in the house with a lock on the door;) [ redninja's advice column | Ask redninja A Question ]
DaNcE_In_ThE_RaIn answered Saturday October 29 2005, 12:34 am: Okay, first of all, what were you thinking having sex when you're only 13?That's not very smart.I guess that's what you deserve for doing that in the first place, but all you can do is talk to your dad about the situation really,theres nothing else to do cuz its overwith.I know that dosent sound like good advice at all but its really all you can do..sorry
advicegodesses2 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 12:32 am: Sit down with your dad and tell him that you're sorrry and that you used protection. Tell him that it won't happen again. Just remeber next time you have sex do it at his house. [ advicegodesses2's advice column | Ask advicegodesses2 A Question ]
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