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Q: if a girl that u like is mad at you what should you do

Talk to her and tell her how you feel about her and try to be as nice as possible or buy her something.

-Katie

Q: i get really bad acne between my breasts, how do i get rid of it?

Use stuff to get rid of acne on your face!

-Katie

Q: This boy (lets call him Dan) asked me if i wanted to go out 2 dinner with him, i said yes, but i dont fancy him or anything. i dont really know him either, so what do i do if i didnt enjoy the date and dont want to go out again ( i hate hurting peoples feeling) whats the nicest way of putting it??? thanx

Just be honest to the guy "DAN" that is the nicest way really because if you lie and say you had a great time then that is letting he think something and then if he later finds out you didn't have a good time then he will hurt even more!

-Katie

Q: hey what does it mean to b fingered i believe its also called second base and what does to bone mean? thanx ur the best!!

To be fingered is not second base that is 3rd and it is when i guy puts his finger up in you. And to bone i think it means you give the guy head. i hope i helped you.

-Katie

Q: I was at the beach last week walking around bearfoot. Now my feet are pealing like crazy and look just awful. Is there anything I can do for them?

Just rub lotion on them! It is because they had been burnt from the hot sand!

-Katie

Q: i got these lil pimple thimgs on my legs? i'm a virgin.. i'm 13/f.. never even had my first kiss... so i no its not STD.. is that normal? i dunno.. help!!

you might have exama.

-Katie

Q: ok im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet... lately i have been really emotional like the other day i was at my friends and i called my mom to see when she was gonna pick me up and i just like broke down crying... and like my friend said how i curse alot and like idk why but i felt like i was gonna cry... is this a sign that im going ot get my period? and what are some other signs that im goin to get my period soon... thanx alot... i will rate!

Yeah it is a sign that your period is coming. Well at least it sounds like it. PMS Post Menstral Syndrum (i can't spell today) sorry! Well being moody which also emotional that is a sign so maybe you will get it in probably like a week or two. Good luck!

-Katie
....if you need anything else just ask me!

Q: if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut??

NO! Because i am not a slut!

-Katie

Q: ok heres the deal.my friend told me that ryan was back stabbing me that i shouldn't belive nething she says..well yesterday i was talkn to this boi n she started talkn to him n lied n said they started datn that got me pissed.. should i belive that she is a back stabber

Yes it sounds like she is and i don't think you can beleive her.

Q: Does anyone have any ideas on how i can lose 10 pounds? I don't have a gym membership, so I'll need ways to exercise at home and lose the weight. Thanks!!

Eat right and exercise and NEVER touch a single junk food or POP! Eat apples, bananas, fruits, veggies, and no chips or cheesecake!

-Katie

Q: im 13 and in 8th grade and im 5'3...but i like someone thats 12 in 7th grade and is 4'7. i think he's gonna ask me out, but idk what to say cuz hes so short and younger than me....help! (i like him too but...)

Just go out with the kid it won't hurt any. I went out with a boy that was shorter then me and after words i broke up with him and a year later he was 5'8 and taller then me! So he will grow and good luck!

-Katie

Q: Does anyone know of any side effects of the Birth Control Patch? The pill makes me sick, the shot made me gain 50 pounds and took away the urge, and I really want something that is low maintenance.

There is a birth control pill that shouldn't make you sick and it lets you have only 4 periods a year!! I know, well the patch shouldn't have side effects so try it.

-Katie

Q: Ok well i'm 13 and i was getting to know this girl. She just broke up with her bf. And she told me that she liked me. C the thing is i didn't know her that well and i started to try and talk to her more. I was starting to like her but i've only seen her once and only talk to her online. But i started to like her. Only i just started talkin to her 4 days ago. So i told her that i wasn't gonna ask her out until i got to know her better. The problem is now she's goin out with another guy. Is there somthin wrong with me should i have asked her out?

Plz Help

No you shouldn't of asked her out and i clap to you because you did the right thing because you shouldn't go out with someone if you don't know them. bravo!!

-Katie

Q: OK, I'm just a little lost here. This girl that I was POSITIVE liked me just went on a date with another guy. I know for a fact that they kissed which pretty much means nothing is going to happen between me and her anytime soon (ie. it was a real date). Now my whole system for determining if a girl likes me is down the drain. I mean I've been dating for about 3 years and I thought I had it down, this one just blew me away. How can I tell?

Well just if a girl flirts with you then you will know if she likes you or not. Or flirt with her and if she flirts back then you should know also that she likes you! Good luck

-Katie
.....If you need anymore help just ask me or email me at katelynmmardis@yahoo.com

Q: i've just put in a tampon for the first time about 2 hours ago . i tried to take it out , but it hurt to pull at the string . is this normal , and could this be because my tampon is still dry ? if not , how do i yank it out without it hurting ?

Okay well your tampon might not of soaked up enough blood yet so you will have to wait alittle longer for it to fully soak up and then it should be easy to pull out.

-Katie

Q: 0k im 13/f. i have bl0nde leg hair s0 i have put shaving 0ff f0r awhile. n0w i feel like i sh0uld start, s0 i need a little help. h0w d0 i shave¿ im afraid im g0nna cut myself! please give me a g00d 0utline 0f what i need t0 d0. als0, is it the same meth0d for the armpits 0r n0¿ thank y0u f0r n e help! i will rate :)

Well you put the shaving cream on your legs and just go from the bottom up NEVER sideways you can cut yourself. For your armpits just put shaving cream on and go up to down and up to down same NEVER sideways! Good luck!

-Katie
...if you need anything else just ask me!

Q: how do i know if i need a bra?

If your chest is growing and you have boobs then i think you should know if you need a bra.

Q: ok well I am Indian and my parents are like WAY over protective..and like they won't let me have a boyfriend until what? like I'm in colege or something!? I mean come on its on like old times anymore..Its like every Indian parent thinks that and it's just crazy...like I can't even have a guy come over...or like go to a guy's house just for FUN...even if they're my friends...HELP!

Just sit your mom or/and dad down and explain what you just told me to them. Make an agreement like you will do something for them if they let you have a boyfriend this year.

-Katie
....if you need anything else just ask me!

Q: do you think that it is weird that a 24 year old guy is dating a 16 yr old girl? i do but i need other opinions, the girl is my best friend and i dont like it. I need help on how i can be more open about the situation. please help!!!

Just talk to her and tell her this is for her on pretection they are almost 10 years apart and that isn't good. I don't think it is good either that they are dating. Be honest with your friend!

-Katie

Q: Me and my boyfriend were together everyday, it could be for only 5 minutes sum days but we were together. Tuesday he left on vacation with his friend and didnt tell me and hasnt called me at all. He's coming back on Sunday but I dont know if this was his way of ending it or not. Its not like him to just up and go away. Anyways of approaching him if he doesnt call on Sunday and I stop by his house to talk to him? What should I say because I odnt want to lose him. I'm 18 and hes 19. We have been together for 8 months

Just if he doesn't call on Sunday then call him and ask him "when were you going to tell me that you were leaving?" And just talk to him and straight things out.

-Katie
....if you need anything just ask me!

bio

I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.

ABC's about ME!

Age: 15
Birthday: 01/16
Color: Red and Pink
Dream Guy: Heath Ledger
Eyes: baby blue
Fears: being alone in the dark and heights
Greatest love: Victor
Hair Color: Blonde
Intrests: sexy boys, cheerleading, and PARTIES
Joys in Life: see above
Kisses or Hugs?: X's and O's
Love Life: Taken and happy
Music: country, rap, r&b and other
Name: ::*::*:Katelyn:*::*::
Obsession: skaters, music, fire, shopping (not in that order)
Preference: Guys
Question: Why label me when you dont have a label yourself?
Role Model: Paris Hilton
School: MP
Talent: erm...I'll get back to you on that one...
Uniqueness: I love to stand out in the crowd...so i'll try anything once
Very Best Friends: Madeline, Kelsey, Cassie, Meagan, Michel, Brittany, Jasmine, Kayla, Jessica, Heidi, and Amanda
Worst Thing I've Done: ...well, there was this one time...
Xtra Sturf 'Bout Me: I'm 5'4 I love to party and when your with me you will have a REALLL great time!
Yum-Yumz in Mah Tum-Tum: I love CHOCOLATE, smoothies, and strawberries! I really LOVE Chocoalte covered strawberries
Zodiac Sign: Capircorn