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last nite i was on the phone w/ my x crying. today he started sayng all of these mean things so me when i just asked him a REALLY SIMPLE question. hes like "yur not worth the pain" on his away message! i hate this!!! y??? (link)
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ok well its either
1. his a plain ol' jackass
2. he just dont want pain when you guys break up later
3. has big problem...
either way,.. you are way off with out him
you sound like a great person
and you will find great person who will care for you later!!!
so keep your heads up girl!!!
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What kind of makeup should I get and wear like tell me brand names and what kinds of colors and where I can get them. Okay I have brown eyes, really dark brown hair it almost looks as if it is black, I have pale skin, and freckles. Honestly I wouldn't like to have freckles but yeahh...Soo please tell me what kind of makeup I should get! (link)
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ok well for most of features on you, you sound like me. but i do have black hair but i guess it doesnt really matter, so here are some stuff
-----DOWN TO EARTH GIRL!-----
eye - silver eye liner just below your eyelid crease or you can use silver eyeshadow
foundation - your skin color
lips - coffee tone (to be specific you should go buy the Cover Girl Wetslicks i think it was Honey something ... but it starts with honey and its kida coffee tone.)
-----Girly Girl-----
eye - go buy any pink shimmery eyeshadow
lip - Vita Gloss (strawberry) or if you want to be more flashy go with Rimmel Vinyl Star pink tone
hope this helped =)
and PS
--------all gothic girl------
eyeliner BLACK
foundation REAL PALE
lip BLACK
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are there any foods or types of foods that would help me lose some wieght? (link)
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well by helping , you mean not much calories...
but there is no food on earth that can speed up your metabolism...
i know it sucks...
so here are some tips..
if your mouth is craving for little snack, ditch the chips and dips... but do eat fruits...
they dont have much calories but also good for you and best of all TASTY!!!
but that doesnt mean that you should pig out on it... everythings bad if you eat too much
hope this helped
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well my friend died when i was 12 years old, and he was like my life we did EVERYTHING together, he called me every morning i called him every night we were always at each others houses, etc. anyway, im now 23. and the other day i was moving out of my camper because i got into a fight with the people i lived with so iwas moving in to a house with my friend Derek, and i was clearing out my closet and i found a box with all my friends stuff in it, like stuff he gave me, and i went over to my bed and sat looking threw it, and i started bawling like crazy and i threw the box across the room and the baseball that he gave me that was inside the box cracked my mirror so my friend came running in and called my other friend and he came over and held me and talked me threw it.. and he said i do this every once in a while but i dont remember.. is there something wrong with me that i still throw fits like this 11 years later and i cant remember the fits? (link)
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aww first of all, i cried when i heard read that story... i am soo sorry to hear that... i mean i dont know what i'd do with out my bff.
well i dont know why you do that. but i think that you are having some kinda amesia so you should talk to the doctor.
and since you miss your friend so much, and i know you will never heal from that wound that was left when your friend was gone.
and well that throwing stuff, i am guessing (i think if you went to thearapy they will say )
the stuff you are throwing is indicated as painful memories and memories of your friend that you are trying to get it over with. i mean it doestnt mean that you dont want to miss your friend but by throwing it, the painful feeling will go away with it.
i know i am only 14 years old, and i hadnt told anyone about this, but i am quite interested in psychology, and had read many books about them, and i am quite good and sometimes even better than few adults, so few people that knows me consult me instead of adult...
so if you really need to know whats going on with you and if you want me to interprete what it means, and why you are doing it, please send me an email with the details. so i can know exactly whats going on
and hope this helped
PS. i know what is like to losing a friend. i am about to lose one of my friend because his on drugs and almost alchoholic, and he might even slit his wrist, but you have to hang on. i mean your friend dont want to see you be sad about it. i mean if you keep on doing that your friend will be sad too watching you from up there.
i know you dont want to do that, people do things that they dont know why they do it. so please let someone help you.
and i wish you the best
Sincerely Sydney
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ok im 15/f and i really like this guy but he's so shy!! he barely talks online to anyone even his friends! i want him to open up cause the only time he talked a lot was at school in class but schools out now so we never see eachother! he's never even had a gf before so that might be why he's so shy but i really want him to open up so how can i do that! (link)
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aww first let me say that you are really sweet giving this guy a chance to open up...
well i know what you mean. a typical shy type.
1. teachers thing that his goody too shoes or at least a silent type
2. he has friends of different age (such as year older) and friends in his neighborhood.
3. likes to play guitar. or some sort
4. listen to the Red Hot Chilli Peppers...
5. talks to you in class, usually, then when you see him out side of the class room such as emailing or phone call, he is so quiet..that its so awkward that you make up dum excuse to hang up or stop writing email.
and this might not apply to all the shy guys but it should match up pretty close.
i mean i know this because i had a crush on this shy guy. i got his phone number because his little sis knew my sis. so i called him then we talked for like 30 min or so...mostly me talking and he answering question i guess or something
and later it got so silent and awqward...i stopped calling. then i gave him some "space"
then called him again, and we talked for like 1 hour and something and that time we actually laughed and all that and he actually said i will talk to you tomorrow...
and well tomorrow didnt turned out good..because, first of all , his a jerk! and well only my buddy...he said he didnt care whether i liked him or not...
and anyways... you should try that... talking to him on phone i mean. it actually opens people up if you talk with right conversations.
i mean my crush didnt turn out good but he even told me that he wore Bat man Costume for halloween when he was 4...i mean how many guys will admit that to a girl =)
so talk to him but dont call like everyday, because he might feel "frighten" well frighten might be little exaageration but he will feel awkward. and if you call him once a week on same day, he will be like waiting and counting the days until you call him on that certain day =)
and he might call you if he cant wait =)
so get to know him. question him (not to personal but like fave food fave band)
and oh yea if you run out of things to talk about, ask him "hey do you listen to the Red Hot Chilli Peppers?"
and if you need more things to talk about, email me
and hope this heleped =)
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I want to really straighten my hair, I have a vidal Sassoon, and a black revlon straightener. I also have the Got2Be straightenin serum but I still cant get it all that straight.
Can some one please give me some step-by-step instructions on how to really straighten my hair?
I'll Rate BunChezZ! (link)
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ok i have never done it before but ive seen one of my Preppy friend doing it to other prep girl
and i am mentining prep because they are good at those stuff =)
ok fisrt i guess it depends on how curly your hair but this works for most people.
1.wet your hair a little ...dont soak it...
use one of those spray thing... and dampen it...
2. section your hair...
3. use the straigtner section by section
4. until it IS straight...
and trust me... its easier when you have someone do it for you... like friends or some sort...
and if you dont want to do that all day,,, then go to the salon and ask them to do it permanetly for you. my friend has curly hair and she said her parents will get it permanetly straightnen when she turns 15 and shes now 15 and im going to salon with her tomorrow =)
so you might want to try that
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My mind wonders during school. Mostly about my current bf and how I want to like talk to him or w/e. I used to be an A student now I'm a C student. It's not like I can avoid guys completley. What should I do about? (link)
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HOLY SNAP GIRL!
i know its hard not thinking about him...
i wouldnt know exactly about it because i never had a bf... but i think having a major is crush is just about same ...except crushing is only a fantasy =)
well, if you keep up those grades (Cs) your parents might not let you see him ...it had happened before,,, parents not lettin a girl see a boy because of bad grades, or vice versa.
SO here is what you do.
1. go get a new Planner or PDA (Personal Data Assisntant)
2. and write it down all you need to do in there...
3. after school and your rendavue with your BF, always check your planner/PDA.
4. Get the home work or whatever done since you reminded your self,
5. Check it off when you are done with it. so you dont have to do same thing twice (ive done that )
but i am not saying this will be easy, because gettin C to A is hard, but not for you because you were former A student, but even though you were, you gotta put some effort to it.
so get in habit of using PLanner/PDA.
its fun and technical when you use it =)
and remember, if you dont do this, where it might end up ...
and HECK NO you dont have to avoid guys.
Just do your work. and ooh yea,,,
make a daily schedule.
like wake up at certain time.
breakfast..
school
hangout time (lasts hour to 2 hours)
HOMEWORK TIME (lasts 2 hour to 3,unless you get done early or when it gets delayed)
Dinner
hangout time
Sleep
see that wasnt so hard. and get in habit of doing that too. so your life will be more organized and it seem like you have lots of time hanging out. and if you your homework done early, its more hanging out time for ya =)
so hope this helepd
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theirs about 2 weeks left of school and i told this boy i liked tht i liked him and he just told me he liked me 2 is it too late to hook up wit him? (link)
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wow your summer vac is kinda late...well i guess it depends on what state you live in...
well fist of all NO ITS NOT TOO LATE
and well its kinda good for ya... because if its summer, you have summer to look forward to... ya know hanging out with him all day... talking to him on the phone...sending emails all day...
Trust me i know this...because my sister has a boy friend, and they are going to different high school next year (they just graduated middle school) and they were all sad about it, but its not bad because they talk on the phone all day and emails and hanging out ...
so hope this helped and you GO GIRL! =)
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Does coffee speed up your metabolism? or anything with a lot of caffeine actually (link)
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ok this might be devastating (i thought it was)
THERE IS NO FOOD ON EARTH OR UNIVERSE THAT CAN FAST UP YOUR METABOLISM!!!
no spicy food or anything
and it had been proven by science and all that
and i saw that from health section on my magazine (ya know teen ones... seventeen and cosmo)
only exercising can fast up your metabolism for temperirly ...
so i gave up on looking for food that speed up the metabolism and went back to exercising
and its working great...
except i gotta quit snacking =)
hope this helped~
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I'm actually underweight for my age and height. I need to gain weight, and i want to gain HEALTHY and SAFE weight. any suggestions?
thanks! -i rate- (link)
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oh yea there is a way you can do that...
just eat more calories... i dont mean PIG out
but just eat 500 cal more per day
so you will gradually gain weight...
so it will be healthy and you wont get those
grossy looking stretchy marks =)
hope it helped
(and that does work, it was in the magazine in health section,,., i didnt make it up)
and if you need more help, then you should go to those teen magazine websites
such as seventeen.com or cosmogirl.com
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Hey 16/f, theres this guy that i like but he has a girl. There were times that i told him that i had a b/f but it didnt stop him from kissin me and tellin me he loved me. He even told my cousins that he loved me and that he wanted me badly and that he would do anythin 4 me. I want to play hard to get and tease him and do things to make him want me more. What could i do....plz help! I rate HIGH! (link)
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oh yea... hard to get types are more attractive. but hey what do i know... i hadnt had a boyfriend yet but i do have lots of guy friends...
and anyways...( i kinda try that with my crush and it kinda worked... i mean i told him i liked him a lot and he didnt care a crap but when i ignored him, he started talking to me and stuff)
so when you go talk to him next time, and when you guys are done talking and about to go to seperate ways just do kinda one of those cat walk and whisper something in to his ear but dont let him hug you or anything.
just soft whisper
and the most important thing is
DONT PLAY TOOOOO HARD TO GET
because some guys may thing you dont care about them so if you do that for long and really hard to get, you will be the one whos not going to be happy ! k?
so keep that in mind and hope this helped =)
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how can i brake a bone a mean break it not sprain it ireally want to know and plese only comment back if you are going to help me i rate high for advice that is useful dont give me advice like why would you want to do it i need something that is garenteed to work.
i appreticate it
it could be any bone but fingers (link)
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ha ok i wont bug you askin why you wanna do it because i know why! =) trust me... i've seen people do worse than breakin. they end up cutting it off...anyways
breakin can be done in lot of different way.
painfully and not so much painfully
twist it and jam on it
but it hurts most of the time unless you take pain killer thing on your finger whole bunch of times... (the person who cut it, took it so much it didnt hurt him when he cutted with dull scissors ... i know how weird)
so you can go with classic way
just slam it with a hammer
but lots of people chicken out on that...
and you can hit like metal poll but most of
times you break your knuckles doing that
so hope this helped and i may suggest you
breakin your finger is not the only way to
what ever you are doing (and i know what you are up to because ive seen it )
i am just not trying to tell the public so if you need someone to talk to i am here for ya so
hope you change your mind and if you dont then hope i helped =)
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ok so.. last week my parents chucked me out and told me to never come back. the next day mum went ringing me saying come back or i'll call the police and say u ran away, so i came home... my dad was like sorry it was a spare of the moment thing i just went thanks. now everytime i do something wrong i go oopsy spare of the moment to like rub it in his face..
i dont normally tell my parents anything well not to do with my life.. which is pretty hard as i had a miscarrige 2 months ago.. and hid it all from my parents they didnt seem to care when i went round crying for 3 days.. then i found my best mate had taken an over dose in the holiday i didnt know what to think and just told her i would always be here.. i have taken an over dose before and slit my wrists many a times..
The day i was chucked out 2 of my closest friends had run away together but not to be together they just couldnt cope i had to do a police interview and everything.. i just feel like it's the end again i feel like i cant cope and how i feel now is exactly how i was feeling that day i took the over dose before.. BUT i'm telling you now theres no way im going to do it again but what can i do?? i have a councelor i've been seeing her on and off the last 3 years and going to see her on thursday as a family but i know for a fact my parents wil lie like they do all the time and there going to tell her i ran away.. my sister (16) has already told her friends that i ran out when i was chucked out,
my dad said he hates me he didnt care about me or where i went as long as i was out the house because he couldn't "control" me.
now i dont know what to do someone please help me! (link)
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wow that is really some story and i am sorry to hear that. but hey ! you gotta get your life back on the track! i mean think about this
1. if you get back on your life, and think positive and be your best, then you can get a job that you will enjoy and make tons of money and live large.
2. and if you do become rich then think about the INDEPENDENCE !!! the world is YOURS!
and do not i repeat do not cut your self, its no good but scars and all that crap load. Trust me i know because ive done it my self.
and i even went further and threatned to suicide.
but i realized, that world isnt so bad and if i DO kill my self, all of my friends and people who care for me would be in a hurt too...
and if you still need someone to talk to then go talk to an trustworthy adult, like such as school counselor, your favorite teacher, and so on.
and if you still cant find anyone then i am willing to hear your story and help you in and out.
so feel free to email me anytime...
and reply is gurenteed...
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I have been in deep depression hating every day wishing it would end. I got out of it with LOTS of help. I wanan help ppl too. Likes Teens. What school subjects should I study SUPER hard in? (link)
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ok i am really glad to hear that you got help and want to help other people. because it was kinda same for me. i mean i didnt get any special help but i was like cutting (only once) and threatning to kill my self to my friends then they were all like noo and all that so i stopped so sorry about my boring life story anyways so i decided to help out people too but didnt know where to start, i mean its not like people to go and say "hey i need help!" i mean some people actually denyies that they need help. so i decided to answer questions on here. you know really answer them not like " your life got screwed up so there is nothing we can do" but i mean really sincerely helping. and they really do appricate you. some people might not. but most will. so do that and if you get the hang of doing this and if you are quite good at it, then go talk to your school counselor or newspaper editor at your school. show them the question you answered with people's feedback to your question. and ask them that you really want to help out people and ask them if you can start or be an advice columnist.
and if they do say yes then its all working out good
and if you are starting to do the advice column, make it anonomyous. so people wont be all afraid to ask question and biased and stuff. trust me, i know its good to get props and all that in social pool but its good to be secertive about it
and i am hoping that you go to school (i mean hoping that you are a student, not an adult and if you are, sorry for my sucky advice)
and hope this helepd =)
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okay well im a teenager and i live in Tampa florida.
my friends and i use to go to the mall every friday. pretty lame huh? yeah thats why we stopped going.
well since we stopped going there isnt really much to do around here.
does anyone have any ideas of what to do on a friday or saturday night? thanks alot. (link)
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i know... but hey at least you live in TAMPA
i live in Dunnellon Florida ( well i guess most part of florida is boring , unless you live close to orlando or gainsville or jacksonville)
so feel sorry for me , i cant even go to the mall once a week... Just kidding about feelin sorry for me.
but there is NOTHING to do in DUnnellon
but you should try this. its fun since you are going to be hanging out with your friends and earn money...
host a car wash. have an adult call the local place or do it at your own neighborhood if its big enough.
bring a boombox and poster and other car washing equipment and all that. and invite over some close friends( and if you are a girl which i assumed you were , then call up some guys that you like or just guy friends =) or if you are a guy then call up some girls to join ya)
and just have fun and you will be earning big bucks from it...
just make sure you do it when its sunny outside
since florida wether is so weird.
and hope this helped =)
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Hey,
My friend *Chrissy* and has been lying to her parents about her boyfriend *Jack*. See Chrissy is 12 and gonna be 13 in December. So when i was at Chrissy's house she told her cousin that she had a boyfriend and they were making out. Chrissy trusted her cousin so she didnt feel like her cousin was gonna tell. Of course her cousin told her parents and her parents had a fit, not because she was seeing someone, but because she's been making out with Jack. So they told her to stop kissing or she cant go out with Jack. I just recently talked to Chrissy and she said that she's gonna complain to her shrink about it cause kissing is a normal thing in life, it's just her parents think she's too young to date. She's fed up on being called little and young so she has been lying to her parents and making out with Jack all she wants. Should i stop Chrissy? or should i encourage Chrissy to tell her shrink to tell her parents that she needs to learn her own lessons in life? But the hard part is Chrissy wont listen if people tell her no in this situation cause she REALLY loves Jack- nothing could keep them apart. What should i do for Chrissy?! help!!
*Jill* (link)
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wow this is hard... for you and her and for jack and for crissy's parents.
well if she keeps on doing that, it will spread eventually. that she lied. i dont know how but it always does. so tell her to go talk to her ELECTORORALLY not having a childish fit about she can do whatever she wants. just calmly tell her what position she's in and such. and WHAT posision YOU are in! and if she needs you , then go with her while she's tellin them the truth.
and jack too...
hope this helped =)
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When I was younger I used to be really skinny because I stayed with my cousins a lot and we were always swimming, running around, or riding bikes. Since then I've gained a lot of weight cause I haven't exercised much. My stomach is flabby and my thighs are kind of big. I want to tone down before school starts up again in August.. so does anyone know any exercises I could do? I'm not saying I'm fat or anything but I've gained about 20 pounds in the past year and I just wanted to tone down some. Thanks. :)
I also have another question about this. I love to dance & I have about four movies that have dancing in them. Does dancing help tone you down any? (link)
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yes it does help, unless it doesnt have lots of movements...but just do what you used to do. not much of exercising but just go for a bike ride with your CD player or ipod. or if you must exercise, just do the video exercise for 30 min everyday. and stuff like that. and if you got mini stepper or treadmill just do that for 30 min everyday while watching movie or TV so time will pass by faster.
hope this helped =)
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ok...there is this guy i like n he likes me...i need 2 prove 2 him i like him...so im going 2 kiss him...what are different ways 2 pull someone in for a kiss so it will be aggresive but also romantic and sweet...i have thought of like...pulling him towards me by his shirt and then gently touching his cheek n softly kissing him. trust me that he wants me 2 be aggressive and romantic n sweet...all i want advice on are as many different ways u can come up with 2 pull him in for a kiss...thanx luv yaz bye (link)
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ok and if my advice cant help you then you should go like to the teen magazine website because i subscribe seventeen and cosmo girl and they tell you how to do different fun romantic kisses =) except being pathetic i am i never had a boy to do it on =) well here's one you can do
at the couch, when you are watching movie, and there is a kissing scene(watch NOTEBOOK they have major sexy kissing scene =)
and when the movie is turning kissing scene look at him and he will look at you too and if his not then BE AGRESSIVE and pull him but if his lookin then kinda jump on him well not squash him to death but like you know ...uh...sandwitch position? well and start making out =)
hope this helped =)
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ohk well im 13 and colombian (spic) woot woot yeah i know lol. anyways my mom and my dad asked me what i want to have a sweet 15 or a sweet 16.. its kinda early but they wanna start saving up since they wanna have my party at the hilton ... but the thing is that most if my friends that im going to invite are white or black and like 6 are spanish ... and i think that they will enjoy a sweet 16 better , but i mean its a tradition for a spanish girl to have a sweet 15 ? im confused help me out (link)
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Hey ! you dont got no Asian Friend!!!
its kinda offending because im asian and idont see you mentioning them!!!
JK sorry i kid around a lot (but i am asian and no i am not offended ...and sorry if i offended you because i joke around like real lot and i guess you noticed that)
well anyways... THERE Is NO tradition. You are In America Girl! Country of Liberty! so you do what ever you wanna do! you wanna do sweet 16? go for it! you CANT wait another year? go for sweet 15!
because i have lots of variety ethnic friends. and lots of my Hispanic friends just do like sweet 16. because then they get more joy out of getting car
and you know! if you play your roll right, they might get you a car for your sweet 16 =)
so do whatever you want to. even if you have to throw a coin. and if you really cant decide... personally i think you should go for sweet 16.
i dont really know why but i like the sound of it.
lol i mean its Sweet Sixteen =)
but if you are still confused, and you want to please your friend? then just plainly ask them
they wont get all pissed about it or anything
infact they will be GLAD that their opinion matters to you lol
hope this helped =)
and if you live in florida can i come to your party? Just kidding again...=) sorry
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i want to teach myself to play guitar. i have a guitar and a couple song books. i can play chords and a few simple songs. but when i download tabs from the internet, they're always wrong. whats a sight where i can find accurate tabs? (link)
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oh cool because i just started learning guitar like 4 months ago (although i only learned it for about like 2 months and ive been off the lesson because that guy only teached basics...)
well you know you have to have patients because playing guitar adds pain to your finger tips lol but you should really stick to it because when you are bored or have like talent show at your school or meeting new people? they would come in HANDY! and of course... all the tabs are all freakin wrong and i get soo mad. and even though people say tabs are easier, that is not true. CHORDS are wayyyy easier...(it might just be me but think about it)
just putting your finger on certain position and strumming it down (chords) or changing your finger like every 2 seconds (tabs)?
well do you like Red Hot Chilli Peppers?
if not, you should consider listening to them, i didnt like them either well never bothered to listen to it but my guy friend suggested me and he was totally right. they rock!
and if you are girl, you will make lots of cute guy friend like that lol and if you are a guy then you will meet some cool dudes through that.
and if you get the chords for the Red Hot Chilli Peppers, they are always right. and if you cant find one for the red hot chilli peps? email me and i will give you the chords for few songs and they are all in the right keys so they will sound great if you are playing with the CD on .
i was just doing that few min ago..
well hope this helped and let me know if you still want to ask me something
=)
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