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Hey! My name is Kenzie, and I am your average 14 year old girl! I have lots of friends and enjoy helping people. I like listening to music and playing my guitar and volunteering at my Local Humaine Society to get animals new homes. Hope you e-mail me and if you have any problems. Don't be shy.
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ok long story short>>>i got caught shopliftin.....(my friends had nothin to do wit it)......**dont tell me anythin about the shopliftin like its bad or anythin bc i undastand everythin that happened**....but my friends mom is pissed at her bc she is the one i was stealin shit 4....but i still dont want her to take anypart of it ....and im only aloud over her house if i talk to her parents but how would i start up a convo wit her parents?
if you dont mention anything about shopliftin is bad or anythin like that ill rate high...thanx
Just tell them the truth about what happened and that if they don't know what to think, you understand because things like this can be hard for the parents to soak in.
Ok i really realy really really really love this guy............ but he lives kinda far away! And the other day this guy that i've had a crush on since i was 8 asked me out .... i told him i dunno but i dunno! lol i mean im so confused! i love them both and i cant decide ............. im so confused! I wanna be with em both but we all know that's not possible! i just wanna be able to know ..... but i also dont wanna hurt ANYONES feelings! i mean .... do i really have to do what i think i have to do? and if so i just cant! it'll break his heart and i think im the only one that's here for him ..... i love him but there's just a few miles keeping us apart........ also my mom says if he comes down here she'll kill him! (and i dont doubt my mom) And the other guy she's known since i've known him and she likes him and (dur) so do i but what am i supposed to do? I cant hurt anyone i just cant but what if that's what i have to do? even if i dont want to? Which guy should i be with? and (also the guy that lives miles away lives in a whole another state away and he's ugly but the sweetest ever) thanks!
LOSTdazedANDconfuzzled
Do what you think is right!
i think my brother smokes with his friends cuz when he gets home he smmells like cigarettes but im not sure if its him i know for sure his friends smoke but im not sure if he does i dont want to tell my parents because my parents will just tell him that i think he smokes my parents warn him alot but i dunno if smokes or not what should i do
confused...
Just tell him you think something is going on but be sure to tell him you don't suspect him of anything. He might not smoke, but when he hangs around his friends, the smell lingers so he may not smoke
I have a friend. I met her in September and she was really nice for about a month and then she started hitting me for no apparent reason. Supposedly her dad "abuses her" but no physically, and whenever she hits me she blames it on that and her insomnia. Her insomnia is cured, and if she's smart enough to blame her problems on her dad, I think she's smart enough not to do it. So it's been months now, and she's bruised me a lot, in the face once. She threatens people and blames it on me when I get beaten and whenever I get a bruise she says "It prolly just something stupid you did to yourself to blame on me." So she started talking about killing people, one of them happens to be my major crush who I would do anything for, but I can't tell her or she'll kill me. (different problem) So I went to my principal because she'll end up killing someone, and we got into a fight. The principal said she's not worth it and to stop talking to her. She said she's sorry but I don't believe it, but I'm scared she's going the beat me if I tell her. I can't ignore her forever. What should I do?
If your "friend" hits you for no apparent reason, she is either not a true friend, or is trying to get a rise out of you. Tell her how it makes you feel and ask her why she keeps hitting you. Tell trusted adults about what has been happening and that it is getting worse and try to get her help on what to do about it
Ok i really realy really really really love this guy............ but he lives kind of far away! And the other day this guy that i've had a crush on since i was 8 asked me out .... i told him i dunno but i dunno! lol i mean im so confused! i love them both and i cant decide ............. im so confused! I wanna be with them both but we all know that's not possible! i just wanna be able to know ..... but i also dont wanna hurt ANYONES feelings! i mean .... do i really have to do what i think i have to do? and if so i just cant! it'll break his heart and i think i'm the only one that's here for him ..... i love him but there's just a few miles keeping us apart........ also my mom says if he comes down here she'll kill him! (and i dont doubt my mom) And the other guy she's known since i've known him and she likes him and (duh) so do i but what am i supposed to do? I cant hurt anyone i just cant but what if that's what i have to do? even if i dont want to? Which guy should i be with? and (also the guy that lives miles away lives in a whole another state away and he's ugly but the sweetest ever
You should be with the one that you think is right for you. I can't decide for you but if I had a choice, I would go out with the one nearest to you because that gives you advantages but plus you can date the guy that lives in another state but only if dating him feels right to you. Take the time to look at them both. You don't need to consider who is better and why. Just think about what can happen with whoever feels right for you.
see i really like two guys...one was my ex boyfriend but i never stopped liking me and he likes me. Then theres another guy who i went on a date w/ but it never went farther but i like him a lot and he told me cared about me. He proved it to wen he asked about me wen talkin to my sister. i talk to them both about the same and idk which one i like more...And im not for sure about the one that talked to my sister cuz i keep getting mixed signals...does he like me? what should i do about both of them?
Well, ge straight up and ask him if he really has feelings for you. As for your sister, ask her what she thinks and ask her if it feels right. COnsider how you feel and remember what goes on
ok here it goes... me and my boyfriend we will came him jake went out for 8months and then he broke up with me for no reason he asked me back out and i said yes...but then a couple weeks later i cheated on him...i felt horrible so i broke up wit him and the next day i told him why and he got really mad but we were still REALLY GOOD FRIENDS and i love it...but i still had feelings for him and he still had feelings for me, but we continued to see other people and one day he i.med me and told me that he didnt like his g.f that he still loved me and was crazy about me...and i was like i still like you too, so he broke up wit his g.f and i broke up wit my b.f who i also liked...but i am now over him, but we only went out 1hr when i decided it wasnt worth losing our friendship over...he went back out with his ex and i meet a new boy named lets say chris and me and him have been very close and me and gani were still good friends...but gani once again told me he still liked me so this time i was like ohk so i went out wit him but he is still so immature and he is very shy he goes to a different school and we talk alot on the computer but we only see eachother once a week and sometimes not even cause he is always in trouble for his grades...and i dont want to hurt him again cuz i am afraid this time he wont 4give me 4 brakin up wit him and i could not bare to lose him as a friend he means alot to me but i guess i lost feeligs for him because of his immaturity and i like chris and he goes to my school and we have alot in common....i am soo very sorry that this is long but any good advice on what to do...ill rate but it cant be mean advice cause i still want his friendship anything would be very very very much appreciated !!
Thanks
-confused in love*
You should do what you feel is best. If you really have feelings for this boy, stay with him and see where it goes but if you have other feelings, then you need to tell him how you are feeling and you two should sit down and talk about your feelings and what you think is going on.
ok i started cuttin myself like 3 mouths ago because my friends they have been getting mad at me for nothing and theres the hole family thing. and it seems like everything is falling apart and i dont no what to do... and i cant stop.i dont no how to stop
Tell your family or abother trusted adult whats been going on. They will help you any way they can. Believe me.
hey i have 2 questions for you the first one is well ive been going out with this boy for about a year and 2 months and i really love him and everything but everyone always tells me i deserve so much better than him and im too good for him but thats not what i think hes kinda my everything you would say and well i dont know what to do should i listen to people or not? and second is one of my bestfriends used to live with her mom and then moved to my city and just yesterday moved back with her mom because of family problems over here and every one is really broken up about it and i was thinking of throwing a party for her to go to so we could all hang out one last time what do you think i should do for the party like what kind of theme thanx i rate high!
Do what you think is best for you and him. If you love him as much as you say you do, you will stay with him and see what happens between you.
For the party theme, you should do something that she really likes. That may cheer her up.
i have been broken up with my boyfriend since september and we have both pretty much moved on .. i feel like im not ready to start another serious relationship.. i have always liked this kid matt & he is perfect for me but i dont think he knows how i feel .. but there is this kid dave that has always liked me and he treats me like a goddess but for some reason i cant ever like him enough to go out with him... what should i do? be single and go with the flow.. or try to committ to dave?
Go at your own pace and hook up with somwone when it feels right to you. Don't force yourself into a relationship. Going at your own speed gives you a chance to know more people too so then you can decide.
Me and my boyfriend are going to see a scary movie and some of my friends and some of his friends are going too. I wanna cuddle with him at least a little bit, but I think he is kinda shy and might not wanna if his friends are there. Someone please help me!!
Just cuddle up with him and if it looks like he is too shy, then just hold on his hand
ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 months and on sunday im going to his house for a couple of hours... ok well we kiss all the time and i want to be able to kiss him in other places. please give me ideas of where guys like to be kissed nothing like head or anything cuz we've both said were not ready for that. thanks bunches
My opinion is that you kiss on his neck. Guys really like that!
i think im really feeling my friend right now. we dont know each other like so so much but we know some things about each other. we talk, but hardly about us. he smiles a lot and sometimes he flirts, but i dont no. somethings are movin kinda slow. i mean school will be over in two and a half months. what do i do because he talks to me sometimes and sometimes he doesnt. not unless i say something first. i dont no if he really likes me like that, but i want him to. and i just feel right around him, ya know. so what do i do?
When he flirts with you, be sure to flirt back! Talk about your interests and what your hobbies are. Who knows, maybe you two might have something in common.
okay. my bestest friend EVER is having a birthday soon. i want to write a poem and have it framed. the poem has to say how good a friend she is. can anyone help me out??? PLEASE!!!
Do a poem where each line begins with the letter of her name. For example: My names Kenzie so you can do something like this:
Example: I'll use my name and you can see how it can be done
K Kind to others
E Excepts people for who they are
N Nice to everyone
Z (I can't think)
I Intelligent
E Exceeds in everything she can
You can do somthing like that for you friend!
Well, I am a sports freak, but I have started to get out and try new things. I tried color/winter guard, but when my grandfather passed away, I got behind and couldnt catch because I couldnt get anyone to teach me the things that I had missed. So now I am the manager of the track team and I love it... except for one thing. When Im at practice the coach is late, I try and tell them what they should be doing and stuff until the coach gets there. Then one of the girls tried to tell me off and say that you cant have practice unless the coach was there and one of the guys was telling me that he had been there longer and that "we strech as a team", but the rest of the team except maybe two or three, including him, were running. If they strech as a team, shouldnt they run as a team? So, how do I get them to respect me and not be smart ellic to me when I tell something to do, both in a nice way and a mean way? I have talked to the coach about the two times they have disrespected me.
They should run as a team, BE a team and act like a team too. You can get them to respect you by teaching them new things, maybe talking with them about why they have to be so difficult when it is really simple to do what they are supposed to do.
My boyfriend always got love notes from his gfs and we were talking yesterday and he said I was the only girl who never wrote him any love notes so I was wondering what do you write in love notes other then I love you because I tired to write one but I dont think it turned out to be anything like a love note soif you can please help me out thx ill rate if ud like
Tell him how you feel about him and what a good time you guys have together.
14/m 8th grade
im one of the most outgoing pppl in my school except when it comes to asking girls out. theres this one girl that i really like and i want to ask her before its too late but i dont know how to say it or lead her in to it. plz help
Don't be shy. Go right up to her and tell her how you feel. This may not be easy but tell it to her slowly. Don't come on too fast. Hang out with her a little bit and talk to her. Or you can write her a letter telling her how you feel. It is a really good way to start friendships and to get relationships started. You will feel much better once you do this.
ok i have a problem also.. but first of all im in 7th grade.. so its about a boy nd like not many ppl go out with ppl.. cuz its a catholic school..just to let you know.
well i liked this guy since like november.. and my frend thought that he liked me too.. but hes like super popular.. and im like 1 step away from being a total loser.. but theres only 3 groups and im in the 2nd.. so i got 2 shy 2 ask him if he likes me or sumthin.. and i have a major crush.. like HUGE.. and now i just found out that he is starting to go out with this girl.. and im just really mad.. i dont know how 2 like feel better.. im misrable.. and im always really hyper in school and i'm always smiling and laffing.. no one has seen me sad.. except for like once.. but only a couple of people saw me.. so today and yesterday i was happy as usual.. so no one knows that i like him.. except for my frends..but no one could really tell.. so today i was really misrable.. and i was soo sad.. and now i hate the girl that hes goin out with.. and idont know what 2 do.. please help me!!
Don't hate anyone but just remember there are other fish in the sea. It may not be that easy to tell him how you feel and after you do, it will feel like it isn't really a big deal if you like him all that much. Talking to a boy you like can seem like it's the last thing you want to do but actually talking to him can be a good way to start a friendship and even more!
As my title says, my friends tend to be really mean to me. We had a free Spanish period today because there was a substitute, and they ignored me the whole time. They were making plans to go shopping for bathing suits, and go snowboarding with each other, and didn't ask me to join them. One of my friends just randomly tells me to shut up, and she thinks it's just a joke. They tell each other stuff and don't tell me, and then they talk about it right in front me. Basically, they treat me horribly, and I really don't need it from them. What am I supposed to do??
Ask then why they are treating you so badly. You need to ask then why they keep making plans without you especially right in front of your face. Ask them if they are mad at you about something or if they need to get something off their chest.
ok i have this friend and well he rlly wants to loose his virginity cause he feels weird at his age...(peer presure) and so he asked me if i would do it with him...im scared of wht ppl wouldthink (ive alraeady lost mine)...but i dnt wanna sound like a slut or anything
pleasee help me!! thnks!!
You need to let him know how you feel. He can't force you to do something you don't want to do.