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oh brother... i think my brother smokes with his friends cuz when he gets home he smmells like cigarettes but im not sure if its him i know for sure his friends smoke but im not sure if he does i dont want to tell my parents because my parents will just tell him that i think he smokes my parents warn him alot but i dunno if smokes or not what should i do
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you've got a bad situation here. Ok? If you care bout your bro. so much, ask him if he's smoking or if hiz friends are convensing him to. If You love your bro. alot, you need to tell your parents wat iz going on. You are supposed to be brave. Not scared of wat others think about you. At least you know deep down in your heart, that you love him alot. He may be a pain sometimes, but you gotta tell someone about it.
I HOPE YOU TAKE MY ADVICE!!!!!!!!!
Thanx: Lacey ]
I think u should either ask your brother or ask his friends hope i helped! ]
this may make you sound nosey but you could always check out his room.. lol but if you want a better suggestion i would say something to your parents ,and make them promis not to tell your brother that you said anything. also i would tell you parents to descreatly ask him and not to bluntly some out, but then again i dint know how your parent are so well i ope i helped
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smoking can kill, so don't just sit around. tell your parents of your suspicions, then wait till you find evidence. you'll trap your brother, and then when he is 'caught', he can get some help and quit this killing habit. just remember it's a very complicated issue, and it's not totally your business.
sry if it's harsh.
~mandy ]
Just tell him you think something is going on but be sure to tell him you don't suspect him of anything. He might not smoke, but when he hangs around his friends, the smell lingers so he may not smoke ]
i thought my sister smoked to, which i no she did.she smelled like smoke all the time when she came home from her friends. so one day when she came home im like do you smell smoke and shes like no and says its hot in here and opens the windows and then after she comes out with pants on.then awhen she was in the shower i went through her purse and found a box of ciggerets(sp)and i just put them back in there and then i slept on it for a few days and then i told my sister and she didnt believe me and she goes to my mom and says mom i found these in _____ purse. and she just puts it upstairs and tell my sister when she got home are these yours and she like no and stuff like that and she didnt even get in trouble.then another day when i smelled smoke again i went through her purse and found a used ciggeret(sp) and then i flushed it down the toilet..yes i no weird..anywho maybe telling your parents is a good idea for looking out for your brother but you might lose his trust.maybe talk to him one on one ]
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