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Question Posted Thursday March 10 2005, 7:32 pm

Ok i really realy really really really love this guy............ but he lives kind of far away! And the other day this guy that i've had a crush on since i was 8 asked me out .... i told him i dunno but i dunno! lol i mean im so confused! i love them both and i cant decide ............. im so confused! I wanna be with them both but we all know that's not possible! i just wanna be able to know ..... but i also dont wanna hurt ANYONES feelings! i mean .... do i really have to do what i think i have to do? and if so i just cant! it'll break his heart and i think i'm the only one that's here for him ..... i love him but there's just a few miles keeping us apart........ also my mom says if he comes down here she'll kill him! (and i dont doubt my mom) And the other guy she's known since i've known him and she likes him and (duh) so do i but what am i supposed to do? I cant hurt anyone i just cant but what if that's what i have to do? even if i dont want to? Which guy should i be with? and (also the guy that lives miles away lives in a whole another state away and he's ugly but the sweetest ever



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JohnLennonChick answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:34 pm:
Well first off, I'd say don't say you love him, say you like him. Love takes forever to find, and if you loved this guy, you wouldn't have to think twice about dating him.

Okay, so here we are. I think if you shouldn't do anything if you are confused. Go with your gut instinct. If you have to think about something, then it's not meant to be.

Oh, and, I'm assuming it would be incredibly difficult to date someone in another state.

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lilrocksta13 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 9:56 pm:
You should be with the one that you think is right for you. I can't decide for you but if I had a choice, I would go out with the one nearest to you because that gives you advantages but plus you can date the guy that lives in another state but only if dating him feels right to you. Take the time to look at them both. You don't need to consider who is better and why. Just think about what can happen with whoever feels right for you.

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CaitBait208 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 9:17 pm:
well that has happened to me. Except the guy lived an ocean away. Yea not cool. but still, i think you should go out with the guy whom uve liked since u were 8. I mean u will most likely not see the other guy. Also, i think if you turn down him (the one who uve liked since 8) , every time you see him it will be sad. But taht is just my advice.

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