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i have been broken up with my boyfriend since september and we have both pretty much moved on .. i feel like im not ready to start another serious relationship.. i have always liked this kid matt & he is perfect for me but i dont think he knows how i feel .. but there is this kid dave that has always liked me and he treats me like a goddess but for some reason i cant ever like him enough to go out with him... what should i do? be single and go with the flow.. or try to committ to dave?
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Well, the guy who likes you Dave, the chances of him hurting you are real slim because you know he really likes you and has really like you for a while.But chances are you just dont see him that way if you have never liked him enough to go out with him , so just stay friends with him and dont try to make yourself like him. But that Matt guy let him know you like him,see where that goes. Just dont get serious another guy for a long time, that way you wont get hurt.
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Don't go out with someone just because they make you feel better. That's cruel to them because you are not as committed as they are. If you don't like him enough to go out with him, then don't. It's not fair to lead him along.
Cheers.
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Go at your own pace and hook up with somwone when it feels right to you. Don't force yourself into a relationship. Going at your own speed gives you a chance to know more people too so then you can decide.
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well... it depends who do you feel more comfortable with? Do you like Matt or Dave more? Do like a skittle test to see which one you like more? I know confusing, just have your friend [ a good friend ] ask u a question about the 2 of them. For example, like who is more cuter? Then for Matt you put skittles in a bowl, if you choose Dave, then put the skittles in the other bowl. Serious relationships, can be hard and fun. The more fun you have the more you know which guy you can pick. Hope you pick the right 1!
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time will heal all. just wait it out, see what happens
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