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i'm 16 and been with my boyfriend for 8 months, we havn't had sex but we mess around alot, he's fingered me and i've done stuff to him. one day a few months ago we was messing around and his penis was close to my hole. it was my first month of being on the pill and i've had my periods since. but i've also read symptons that i think i've been experiencing. i've felt "fluttering, sick, i've put on weight and my boobs have got bigger. he's told me i'm worrying over nothing and do to a test if i'm really worried. but couls i be pregnant?

His sperm HAS to enter your vagina to become pregnant. No questions about it. Take a test if you think it will ease your mind a bit, but I highly doubt you are pregnant judging by the fact that you still have your period. The symptoms you have could be from the pill.

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16/f

in july like the 26th or something my family went to florida for vacation. my dad said each of us could invite a friend (me and my brother) but they would each have to pay $300 for like the plane ticket and the hotel. well i invited one of my good friends amanda. and so im like will u be able to get the money? her parents are divorced and lets say amanda and neither of her parents get along. her mom is usually always drunk and he dad has a bad temper. she said she would be able to and then 2 days before we are about to leave her mom calls me and says amanda is grounded and cant come. well i tell my parents and they are like they cant do that we bought the tickets and everything already. amandas family doesnt have alot of money so we knew that they were just trying to make up some excuse because they couldnt come up with the money. well my parents feel bad for amanda because she never gets to go anywhere and her parents arent that nice. so my dad talks to her parents and is like is the money thing an issue? and hes like if it is then you guys can pay me back when we get home or whatever or when you have the money. and so then we all come back and whatever and now its been almost a month and still no money! she only brought like 70$ with her down there so we even paid for some of her souvineers she bought. my parents are always on me about getting the money because we arent exactly rich and we need this $300. i keep asking amanda about it and shes like well my dad is getting money for selling our cabin so he said he will give it to me when he gets it. my dad said he doesnt even care how he gets it..i told her that she could give us a $100 one time and like $200 the next and she is like okay! and still NO MONEY. i feel really bad for my parents because that is $300. i mean i keep asking amanda about the money but i feel bad always bringing it up and i know its probably annoying her but im just trying to help my parents out you know! any suggestions on how i can get this money and be done with it? all my parents were trying to do was be nice..thats just how they are and they always get screwed over =(

What a predicament your in! I can understand where your friend is coming from more so, that I was poor growing up. Asking her all the time for the money isn't going to get it..mark my words. You know, it's not like she has a job. Your parents are simply going to have to talk to hers. I know you want to help, and it's good that your trying but I'm sure your friend is askin her parents all the time for the money and it's alot easier for her parents to look at her and say NO! then it would be if your parents actually called them.

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me and my boyfriend had sex last sunday. we used a spermacidical condom and he pulled out right when he started to cum. 3 days later i started having a lot of dicharge. it smells and looks the same as it normally does there is just a lot more. i also am experiencing headaches and cramps. what does this mean?

More discharge than normal and cramping is a sign that your ovulating.

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what are some other ways to get rid of spyware/adware ..i use ad-aware personal and its not working that well.. and my computer is very messed up and its even alerting me that my computer is in danger because of the spyware/adware infection.. please help!!

Here's the website for you. Should solve all your problems...Getting rid of spy/ad ware and taking the "infection" off of your computer. This is a highly trusted website.
http://norton.authenticdownloads.com/

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Im about to start school soon and im going to a new school.How do i deal with bullies?please answer this question.

Believe in yourself. Have confidence that you can deal with bullies in a peaceful manner.
If a bully is in your class, try to pick a time when you ask for their help in doing school work, Remember, most bullies don't feel very good about themselves.
If you are concerned about a bully at recess time at school, play close to the teacher on yard duty.
Inviting a bully to join a game that you and your friends are playing is a good idea.
If the bully's harmful behaviour continues, tell your parent, teacher, principal or another adult that you trust. They are there to help!

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How could I build up my immune system without getting exposed to germs? I'm germ-phobic, and I want to stay really healty and not get sick. Thanks. :]

I think the best way would be to take a multi-vitamin like Women's 1-a-day. They give your body ALL the vitamins it needs badly.

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So recently i got my hair cut. um its about to my shoulder, its layered, no bangs and its really thin..does anyone know any cute hairstyles i could do?!

www.1001hairstyles.com

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I was in the shower today I noticed a small ball, very tiny, a bit smaller then a pea on the egde of my vagina. Its under the skin, but when I push on it I can feel the tiny ball. Its not on my labia, but its right at the begining where the my crotch splits in half on the part where the skin is. ( I hope that makes sense)

Is this serious? Is it some type of cancer? Please help, I'm really scared!

I'm 13, female, not sexually active.

It's completely normal!! When a female becomes aroused (horney) that tiny ball can swell to the size of a pearl!

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How much does a Divorce cost?

Say... no children, no going for the throat, a mutual separation, and splitting everything straight down the middle - as smooth and simple as something so tragic and complicated, could be.. A couple in their mid-twenties, both with white-collar jobs, if that matters?

Court cost are $130.00 and you have to pay a lawyer $500.00 to do your paperwork OR you can do it yourself. I still have my paperwork from my previous marriage if you want it. It's very simple just put you and your "husbands" correct info in the blanks.

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okay, well, im sooo against abortions. the reasons most people have abortions are because they are:
-retarted
-the parent's too young
-they cant support the baby
all of which are NOT the babies fault in any way, so why kill it? its like killing any other human being!! what can i do to get this to stop?

I am against abortions to. BUT if a situation arrises that the mother's life is in danger, then I think a abortion on those terms would be ok. As far as sayin it could ruin a person's life...that's a selfish answer. If a person is so concerned with a baby ruining your life then keep your damn legs closed ya know? And all these ppl that will hate on me for saying this, dont say I don't know what I'm talking about because I do. I've had an abortion.

http://www.petitiononline.com/MAA/petition-sign.html

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/takeaction/910795923?ltl=1155695516

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What does one do to be conceited?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=conceited

adjective- Used to describe any person whose self portrait adorns every wall in their own abode. A legend in their own mind...

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I just bought SunSilk, Hydra TLC Shampoo/Conditioner. Can anyone *whose actually used it* please let me know if it's good.

I have wavy hair, medium length. Its rather damaged and dried out from straightning it, so should I expect some good results from this?

I've used the Anti-poof and the Straighten up ones from SunSilk and I loved em'!!

You can go here and get free shampoo, conditioner && creme samples.
http://www.gethairapy.com/

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ok i'm 16/f & i haven't been to the gyno yet. my period has been regular since i was 11 [when i first got it] & i haven't had sexual intercourse or anything. i haven't had a UTI or anything either & i was wondering when would be the best time to go?? i know everyone says you should go juss to be careful, but since i haven't really had a problem in that area, i don't know when to start. would 18 be ok or what??

thanks!!

If you havent had sex like you stated or had any other problems then I wouldn't bother going till I was 18. Don't put it off long after 18 though because even though your still a virgin (Props to you :) the test's they run on you are still important. Such as checking your Iron, Checking for abnormal lumps in your breast, Ovarian Cancer, and your white and red blood cell count.

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This is something I've wondered for a while so I'd like to see what some parents on here say.


Well I'm 16 and my parents act like they were perfect little teenagers. They say that they didn't party, drink, spend random nights out, etc. But I know it's not true because I've heard many many things from their parents and siblings about all kinds of things like that.


So my question is, why don't parents let their kids make their own mistakes? I mean I know they just want to keep us safe and such but they did all those things and they turned out fine.


And on some level, I know that most parents know that their kids lie to them. Like when they say they're going somewhere but go somewhere else. So why can't they just skip the lying part?


When people are kids they always say things like *I'm never going to treat my children this way* or *When I have kids I'm going to let them do that* so why does that change when you actually DO have kids?

I'm not a mother, but I have grown up alot and I remember trying to be more of a friend to my sister than being her acutal sister. Yea It didn't work. I set rules for her, things I told her she wasnt allowed to do because some actions, really can ruin your life. Others, I did because I wanted to spare her from any hurt. I never like to see my sister cry, and if I can do something to prevent that, then I will. She's 17 now... and last year she hated me for it but this year, she thanked me for putting my foot down.

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I have some pictures taken with 2 or 3 different digital cameras uploaded and saved onto my computer that I would like to have "developed" or whatever. What kind of disk should I burn them onto to take them to Walgreens to develop them or what are some other ways to get them printed? Thanks.

The easiest thing to do would be to upload them from your computer to the website of the place that you want them done. I do mine at Wal-Mart's website. It's only 12cents a copy and you get 10 free 4*6 size pictures. Also, you don't have to pay for them till you pick them up from the store.

https://www.walmart.com/photo-center

http://photo.walgreens.com/

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alright, so, we all make mistakes, just, some worse then others

well, yesterday I went to go trim my hair, the lady ended up taking an inch & 1/2 off
so, it didn't look good & I wasn't too happy
so, I went to go get it dyed to maybe make it look better, I tried to dye it dark brown, but it came out black (I'm naturally a blonde, so, imagine how that looks with my skin)

so, what I'm asking is, how do I grow my hair out faster?
& how do I fade the color A TON?

thanks!

Any haircolor will fade in the first couple weeks of it being done. The more you wash it, the more it will fade. Your best bet would be to re-dye it. choose DARK BLONDE as the hair color and you will end up with a light/medium brown.

{FYI} Most hair color will darken your hair darker than the color that is on the box. So If your a blonde and want to be a medium brunette than get a light brown hair color.

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i'm 13, i don't plan on losing my virginity ANYTIME SOON, i'm going to keep it until i'm married. Most of my friends aren't virgins [ages; 13-16] and they don't regret it, but i know in the future they will . but can you guys just give me an amazing reason on why being a virgin is a precious thing and that giving up your body to some guy that just wants to get in and out makes you seem like a hoe. i really need good reasons so that when the other 1/4 of my friends are going to have a sex i can give them great reasons on why not to [other than STD's and all stuff i need other advice]

Sex and making love is a physical expression of love, and the excitement of the pleasure is best shared when two people are pure to each other.

In a relationship, it is difficult when you've had multiple sex partners. When you have sex with another person you take those memories, thoughts, and feelings with you to your marriage. There is a lot of emotional ties as well as lustful ties that get in the way of a marriage when their has been infidelity outside of marriage.

There are also the obvious issues such as diseases and pregnancy. With both of those issues arise many other issues which can and will affect your whole life.

If you've had sex outside of marriage then you will never really understand or know the benefits of staying a virgin until marriage. You can never understand the purity and joy of it. When you remain pure and marry someone out of genuine friendship and love then the sexual experience is something to be treasured as well as freely enjoyed.

Not everyone has the blessing of coming to this awareness nor does life treat everyone gently. So, some may not be able to come to the marriage relationship a virgin. Still, we can choose to remain celebate until marriage. If you start off a relationship without sexual intimacy then you don't bring baggage to a new relationship. It is best to get to know your potential spouse first, and save the physical after you've tied the knot.

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how do you put eyeliner on your top lid?

http://www.wikihow.com/Apply-Eyeliner-Correctly

THAT WEBSITE GIVES YOU STEP BY STEP INSTRUCTIONS.
GOOD LUCK!

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My parents have been smoking since they were teenagers. I'm just curious if everyone who smokes has a really high risk of getting lung cancer? It's not common in my family and I'm worried that my parents will get it.

Every ciggarette takes 11 minutes off of your life. And I'm not saying that because I think smokers are nasty. It's a true fact, and I am a smoker.
Here are some websites for you than can give you true accurate information on lung cancer being linked to ciggarettes.

http://www.txtwriter.com/Onscience/Articles/smokingcancer2.html

http://dccps.nci.nih.gov/tcrb/Smoking_Facts/about.html

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killing animals, then skinning them for furs/coats/jackets etc. is wrong. is it still considered wrong if you keep the animal until it grows old and dies and then you skin the animal to make a new jacket/coat/etc. ? i'm really curious.

I don't see it as no different than a person dying and donating and useable inner organs.

You sound like you have a good heart to be curious about such a thing. Here is a good website you might like..

http://www.aspca.org/site/PageServer?pagename=cruelty_home

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