i am 22, i love helping people. I have been through alot even though i am still young. I know alot about friend problems, dating, meeting people online, seriouse realtionships, sex, computers, and even parenting. i dont know anything about music that would be one thing i am not good at. I am more than happy to help any one who needs it.
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Location: UK
Occupation: at home mom kind of
Age: 22
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I have been hanging out with this guys since Late February. At first, I thought it was just going to be a one night stand or random hook up type thing. Well this turned out to last longer than just one night and he took me out a few times, paid for dinner and what not. However, we continued to have sex. He let me stay at his place for a few nights and didn't try to have sex with me or anything, introduced me to his friends and even heard from a few of them that he liked me. Now the last time I saw him was this past weekend and he said he would text me. I have not heard form him since then. Normally he would text me throughout the week just to ask how I am or something like that. But this week, nothing. I understand I was probably just the flavor of the week or whatever. I guess this would explain why re just completely stopped talking and left me hanging. Am I right? A guys opinion would be nice, too. If it helps, we're both 20. (link)
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I would try to text him and see if he writes back. maybe something is going on his life and he is stressed and right now he hasnt had time to think about it. dont always go to the fact he may not want you any more maybe life has thrown him a curve ball, family problems, work, school or something like that. If he is in school it could be finals week and really busy. But text him and check in on him allow him to know you are thinking about him, if it happens to be the flavor of the week thing then thats fine to. you are young and sound like pretty confident so just move on.
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ok so this is the problem a month ago tommorow i started dating this guy. he treats me like a saint. he says he loves me and his brother and father tell me how good i am for him.in fact that after his life went downhill, im the only thing to make him happy, but im unhappy. im not physically attracted to him. and i kno thats shallow, but he likes to be very physical. today this guy i really like asked me out, i said yes w/o thinking. i really dont want ot hurt the guy im with now. and i refuse to cheat. im so confused and hurting inside like u would not believe. he did nothing to deserve this, its just i felt like i was smothering. maybe im wrong. i kno i am, that i should be able to make myself love him the way he does me, but i cant... i just cant. god please help me, and tell me what to do. im soo confused (link)
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if you are with him and not happy it will never work. why not now let him go and allow him to move on before its to late and he is to far head over heels for you. Plus if you already said yes to the othere guy then it shows your not commited. which is ok if you dont want to be but break it off now before its to hard on him and you feel to stuck.
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About two years ago, a friend and i made up a fake facebook acoount as a joke. We are girls. We were junoirs in high school and now I realize it was dumb. It was made solely to creep on ex boyfriends. This one guy messaged the fake account and gave her his number. We started texting. I wasn't interested in him at all. I didn't even think he was cute!
Slowly, we started to like each other. I broke it off because I knew we could never meet. But, I cried so much because I missed him. We were in love or atleast thought we were. He messaged me again and told me he wanted me in his life still. I don't want to keep this lie going.
I have self-esteem issues because my older sister is so beautiful. I'm not ugly or fat. I'm 19 now and he is 21. I know I should tell him the truth. But I don't know how to. Please help me.
I'm sorry this is so long, but I feel that all these details are necessary. (link)
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maybe just tell him the reason the account has fake info was for your privacy. Tell him you still wanted to make friends and have fun but for your safety you didnt put an real info it so easy to track some one down these days. In my opionon it is diffrent online and texting some one thinking you like them. in person things could be total diffrent. If he gets mad and never wants to talk to you again then thats fine cause it could be totaly diffrent face to face. Just tell him that and then see where if goes. BUT PLEASE BE SAFE meeting people online is very dangourse. i have done it tons of times and thank goodness nothing has ever happen, but it awlays could so be safe about it.
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Ive been dateing this guy for three yrs and One month, Im 19/f weve always knew were gonna get married and all that stuff,but I wanna propose to him, is that wrong or somewhat stupid?
Thanks (link)
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nothing wrong with it. but its hard to do because the guy may feel akward becuase supposley its suppose to be his job.
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so i have a feeling i am going to get my period this friday and that is my high school prom. would it be awkward if i wore a pad under my dress.. if i was grinding with a guy would he be able to tell would it be weird? im not sure if im comfortable enough with tampons to wear it this week what should i do? (link)
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depends on how poofy ur dress is. i would try a tampon and a pad incase it leaks. pads are bad about slipping some times and leaking.
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i have a crush in school, and at one point he liked. me. then i made the stupid mistake by not liking him. i really really really like him now, and his birthday is next week, and i dont know what to do. what do i get him?!?!? do i tell him i like him again? he knows i really like him, and he acted annoyed by me, but im not annoying :( help. what do i do for his birthday?! (link)
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if he acts like your annoying then dont get him any thing. if he cant be mature and treat u right then find some one better. maybe he isnt the right one for you
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okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (link)
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go to your local health dept and get on birth contol. if u cant do that or are to scared to then you not ready for sex. Growing up means being careful good luck
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why do people want to have sex so badly????????? (link)
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1 if feels good
2 it can make some think they will be closer to some one
3 they have no reason and want to be cool
4 they are in love
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...being with them hurts you deep inside, because in the relationship you never get what you want or need... but you know that the pain of letting them go or them breaking up with you would outnumber the pain of not getting what you want a millionfold? (link)
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you have to see what you want for the rest of your life. try and think about how happy you could be. you cant just stay with someone and be upset so that you wont loose them, you worth more then that. allow your life to be wonderful and move on. just think of how the future will be both ways. either be horrible or wonderful your pick.. you will only hurt for awhile if you dump him but if you stay you will be foreever.
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I dont think ive ever had an orgasm during sex. Oral sex included. I don't tell my boyfriend this because i love having sex with him, and im a really good faker. Is there any position i can try that will make me have an orgasm? (link)
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being on top you have all control try that. if he is small try sitting on top of him legs together side ways. go to cosmo.com and they have alot of great advice
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okay i like this guy awhole lot! and hes been on vaca for awhile now.. and EVERYDAY he calls or texts messages me. his text messages are like "you just ran through my mind. i just wanted to say hey." and junk like that.. does this mean he likes me back? (link)
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sounds like he does maybe you should straight up ask him how do you like me. you will never know for sure being shy
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I'm trying to get pregnant, I skipped my last period but all pregnancy tests i've taken (3) have been negative...if I'm not pregnant, could I still be fertile this month even though I didn't have a period? Basically I'm wanting to know if I should keep "trying" this month even though I didn't get my period last month (and I'm pretty sure I'm not pregnant) (link)
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i dont know about trying but i think you should go to the doctor and see why you missed your last one. It could mean you are pregant or it could be something that wont allow you to get pregant.
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Ok i'm going to be 18 on July 10th and there is this dude named Jason who I like and he likes me too...he says that I have all the qualities he wants and in a girl and he just makes me feel real good...but there's a huge problem...He is 27!!!! ahhh I don't know wut to do!! I think when ur 18 ur legal, but still is it bad gettin involved w/him? I'm real confused! (link)
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i have always dated older guys. usaly they are great but dont rush make sure he likes you for you and not for just sex or something. Sometimes they know you are young and thing maybe not as exsperinced so they can get what they want from you and youll never see it coming. So if you go for him dont rush into sex and see if he likes you for you. but age is just a number
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im a virgin, and i want to know does it HURT alot the first time when u have sex???? how does it feel??? (link)
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it doesnt hurt but your not totaly relaxed the 1st time so it probley wont feel good
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Is there a condition when you can't controll your emotions? Like maybe one time you feel happier than ever and then fell really pissed off and go running off and killing someone or something like that? (link)
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Bipolar
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My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months now,and she wants me to take her virginity.I want to do it but i keep telling myself to wait till im about 17.....but on the other hand i don't want to get drunk at a party sometime and lose my virginity the wrong way.What should i do? (link)
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you can control the future just make sure you always make the choices you want to. Dont allow your self to get in the sisuation where you dont want to be. Dont loose it now cause you dont want to future to be like that. just take your time and make life turn out how you want it to.
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My toes are hairy.. what should i do about that? (im a chick) (link)
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nair it off or shave which would be alittle tricky. waxing i dont think will work good luck. or leave it cuase i have always heard that when removing hair it grows in thicker and more noticable
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I am looking for Godly advice please. My husband got violent today, threatening both me and my daughter, breaking things and hurting us... I went to the police, which I have never done with him, and now he is in jail. I dont know that he will even try to come back, it may be that he just lashes out, or never contacts me again. But what if he does, what do I do if he wants to get help and come home? How do I handle this? Im scared, and trying not to fall apart. I dont think that what he did is ok at all, but does anyone know if the Bible says anything about how to handle this? (link)
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I would get a restraining order and never give him a second chance. There is no reason to put your life and your childs in danger ever again.
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Well there's is this girl, I really love so much & adore with all my heart and care bout' so dearly. She lost her grandma, someone who was so so special to her like a mother. Now she's suffering and crying due to her loss & as a guy I feel worthless and ashamed that I don't know waht to do to help her. Waht shud I do ? :\ I don't like seeing her like this. Any advice I can give her ? (link)
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maybe send her something sweet or try to take her out to get her mind of it. or just be a sholder to cry on
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Hi im 18 years old and im sexually active with my boyfriend for over 6 months, we've been doing it everyday and he cummed inside me almost a month ago, after that I got like some spotting and I thought I was getting my period but it was a false alarm also my breats have been hurting a lot. Im suppose to get me period in the end of April and its now May.11th! Could I be pregnant? Is it too soon?
Please help, thanks! (link)
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dont freak out go get a test. but those are early signs good luck
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