I dont think ive ever had an orgasm during sex. Oral sex included. I don't tell my boyfriend this because i love having sex with him, and im a really good faker. Is there any position i can try that will make me have an orgasm?
chusmaleidy12 answered Monday May 10 2010, 2:19 pm: Well i had the same problem when i first started so is ok. but take him to a pool or the beach there you'll defetnetly have one. you will just get one top of him ion the beach n you will feel it way better n for sure you will have one. cause what happen is that the dick of the guy touches your wall and defetnetly ur G spot.. so have have funn lol [ chusmaleidy12's advice column | Ask chusmaleidy12 A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Tuesday May 4 2010, 4:15 pm: You're not going to start having them until you stop faking them!
You see, if what your boyfriend is doing isn't quite floating your boat, he won't know, because your actions tell him he's doing everything right. You've got to stop faking orgasms, because he's not going to learn how to give them to you for real until you do. Be honest with him, let him know that what he does makes you feel great but just isn't taking you all the way. Tell him you want to work on it... I can guarantee he'll be up for the challenge!
It's really hard to orgasm from just penetration. Generally, you'll need to have clitoral stimulation at the same time in order to get there, so you need to figure out what positions give you that. Sitting up, face to face as well as girl on top tend to be best for that.
One way to help with extra stimulation is to try using a vibe or your hand. There's an excellent product called the WeVibe that can be used during sex, hands-free. You know best what makes you tick, so you can get that extra push over the edge.
As for oral, don't be afraid to get instructional with him. Tell him what he needs to do. Have him try a few things, and tell him what works for you and what doesn't. When you want something tell him! Don't be shy, because being shy doesn't get you anywhere. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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