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How to be with somebody when...
...being with them hurts you deep inside, because in the relationship you never get what you want or need... but you know that the pain of letting them go or them breaking up with you would outnumber the pain of not getting what you want a millionfold?
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you have to see what you want for the rest of your life. try and think about how happy you could be. you cant just stay with someone and be upset so that you wont loose them, you worth more then that. allow your life to be wonderful and move on. just think of how the future will be both ways. either be horrible or wonderful your pick.. you will only hurt for awhile if you dump him but if you stay you will be foreever.
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I think that you should talk to your partner about how you feel if things dont change and you still feel like it is making you unhappy than you should'nt be with them anymore why would you want to be with someone when they are causing you pain and probably stress. Letting go is always the hardest part but just think to yourself you will get through it go out with your friends keep yourself occupied whatever you have to do to keep you from thinking about them. In the end no matter what you will survive there are plenty of people in this world who can make yoou happy just be strong.
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Do you really believe that you'll be in more pain if you break up with this person than you are in right now? I have been in a relationship with somebody before where we were in love with each other, but I was never satisfied with the way things were. There were things that I wanted--that I needed, that he couldn't give me. And it was hard to leave the relationship when you love someone that deeply. But I did what I had to do.
I would talk to your significant other and be honest with them. Tell them what you want from the relationship and ask them what they want. If you two don't want the same things, then it might be time to start looking for those things elsewhere. I know it may be hard to imagine yourself with someone else, but they're is someone out there who can give you what you want. You just have to take that chance.
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