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Q: Have you tried any of the remedies that remove/ lighten your freckles? If yes, did they work?

I have tried avons,i forget what it was,it was a cream and i used it for about oh id say,3-4 months until it ran out and it actually made them lighter on my face and about 4 years later,their still alot lighter then they were before i used the cream.But not all of them work that way.When i went looking on avon i found this one product that was reviewed by alot of people and it seems to work very well. http://reviews.avon.com/5588/29249/reviews.htm

i actually think i might order this myself lol

♥ danielle

Q: how do i get them???

Im sorry hun,but the only way you can get them is through genetics :/

♥ danielle

Q: what do you all do at the lakes?

other then the usual (tan,eat,drink,walk,swim)

I'm actually going to lake erie in 2 weeks :)

you can go bike riding if there's a path,go fishing,rent a boat,go canoeing,try looking up the lake your going to on google and see what's there to do around the lake :) if you have anymore questions just leave one in my inbox ;)

♥ danielle

Q: Is there any way to stop the kids or teens from going to school in Sims 2?

well no,i mean you can but if they miss too much school the social service worker could come and take them away,but if they miss like one or two days they should be okay.When the school bus comes just click on the "go the school" icon on the upper left hand side and click it so the big red "X" is on the box so they won't have to go too school,i used to be OBSESSED with this game.I hated when the kids had to go off to college lol

♥ danielle

Q: okay so I've had sex 3 times with 2 different guys. both times with both guys his penis kept coming out. is that something that I'm doing wrong or does it just happen?

it can happen,it could be because it's kind of, er,"slippery" in your vagina and it just slides out you know what i mean? if that's what your referring too.I doubt your doing anything wrong ;) if oyu have anymore questions just leave one in my inbox.

♥ danielle

Q: So I decided that I want to get a different hairstyle. Right now I have long golden/brown hair with golden blonde highlights (but it looks natural) and in the front its layered, but in the back it's one length. I was thinking of getting it a certain style in the back, where your hair ends in two different lenghts (someone told me its called razored or it's another form of layering). A lot of blondes have this hairstyle, and the only celebrity who I saw that kind of resembles what I'm talking about is Mariah Carey in her one video Shake It Off. So my question is what type of hairstyle is it called in that video between 1:11- 1:43? (1:42 is the example of what I'm talking about for the back of her hair) And do you think it would look good on me, or weird because my hair is highlighted, would it look weird because my hair would end on two different lengths?

http://youtube.com/watch?v=_eLy9p14ntc

Thanks so much!

i think it would be cute.I love that hairstyle.Especially with your highlights,it will really bring them out.When you go to a hairdresser,bring in a picture of mariah carey's hair from the back and front so she has an idea of what you want.I always bring in pictures of celebs to my hairdresser lol

♥ danielle

http://www.thehairstyler.com/celebrity_hairstyle.asp?name=Mariah+Carey

that wavy one i think is the haircut,but it's just in curls,i could'nt find any from the back im sorry :(

Q: i have these red things right bellow my butt..they hurt like pimples and i'm pretty sure they are.

how do you get those? and how can you make them go away!? i don't want to pop them because that would be pretty hard..they're right below my butt!

try going to a dermatologist and they can prescribe something to get rid of them.You could also go to a drugstore and get a body wash that specializes in getting rid of acne,but they take time to get rid of so don't expect fast results.Anything with salicylic acid,get's rid of them.

♥ danielle

Q: when i shave under my arms, you can still see the little bumps of hair so i tried shaving with the razor down and it kinda helps better but it gives me razor burn. what can i do to make it compltetly clear with out razor burn?

ah i HATE razor burn! it's the worst.Put a lotion

Use shaving gel,and change your razor regulary,after about 5-6 shaves get rid of it.You could also try waxing,or a hair removel gel.After showering,put a moisterizer or lotion on your underarms right away so it won't irratate the skin as much and will heal it.If you need anymore help,i have a few more ideas just leave one in the inbox :)

♥ danielle

Q: I'm looking for suggestions of a good college to go to. I don't know what exactly I want to do, but I may want to get a double major: one in music and one in art- perhaps animation. I want to be able to also take other classes, like dancing or acting, so that I can find what I love. So I'm asking for some good, reputable schools that offer these things. I live in the US and don't want to go overseas for school... Thank you in advance!

i want to do something artsy myself,im trying to get into the art institute of philadelphia :) that school has what your looking for,actually,they have a bunch all over the country.

it would help to know how far you want to be,or where you live but i found a website that asks you what state you want to go to college and what colleges,universities,and institutes have what your looking for http://a2zcolleges.com/Majors/Music_Education.html
hope that helps :) if you have anymore questions,leave one in my inbox ;)

♥ danielle

Q: So me and my fwb (friend with benefits) have been hooking up since last week. Sorry, this question might be a little long :/

He's 17/m and I'm 16/f.

We used to hookup earlier (around january) but I really messed that up by getting with someone else and just recently he's forgiven me. His close guy friend tells me the reason he got so angry was because he liked me (During then I couldn't establish between him liking me or just wanting some) I was pretty stupid because he would come down every weekend for me and I still couldn't tell that he liked me. After the whole thing I asked if he wanted anything and he said no. (I meant like hooking up, but I did want a relationship with him) Now every since we've started hooking up again I've had to make all the effort to hangout with him. I'm really falling for him now and I know he's not getting with anyone else, but I'm not sure if he wants a relationship and I'm afraid he's just keeping me around to mess with. He's sending so many mixed signals, for example:

- We usually text every day and since my phone is messed up, I somtimes don't get his texts. So after a day or two he'll usually write me something like "Hey, way to respond to me" (joking)

- When we see each other we usually don't talk for awhile. His guy friend says he's really shy.

- I always have to make the plans to hangout. I don't know if it's just that he wants me to come to him or he's too shy to ask.

- Whenever we start kissing, it's always me that leans in.

- When we hangout, we usually only do something for a little bit. Eventually, we end up having sex or messing around. This is mainly why I feel somewhat used, but to be honest I don't mind it because I like him so badly. We only see each other maybe once a week which is why when we do see each other, we want to do stuff.

His shyness yet willingness to do stuff just has me so confused. I feel like it's too early to ask him if he likes me since we've only hooked up once since the whole ordeal. But at the same time, I don't want to continue on doing this If I'm only going to end up hurt. Does he seem like he likes me or am I just wasting my time? And what should I do? Thanks :)

i just recently ended a "fling" with a guy who i thought was going to ask me to be his girlfriend.We went to prom together,and like went on sort of dates,i guess you could call them? he was a shy kid too,and i thought he would'nt be like all the other jerks i was with and actually take me places and then eventually ask me to be his girlfriend,That wasent the case.We were "together" for about 2 months then in his truck he said let's just be friends,he was a a**hole,i cried that entire night.So truth is i should've ended it before i got any further because i really liked him.I felt like a piece of trash.I always had to make plans to hang out,and had to lean in to kiss him( which i never do).So i'm sorry to say this but i don't want you to get hurt like i did,i would end it now with him if your having sex with the guy and your not even together,i highly doubt he's going to ask you to be with him.He's playing you.Go for a guy who will make you feel special,will go out of his way to do anything for you,and treats you with respect.Dont worry,your going to find him.And when you do,don't let him get away :)

♥ danielle

Q: whats the best site for downloading free music to an mp3?

there's alot lol

limewire
bearshare
elbows
spiralfrog
ruckus
ilike
we7
seeqpod
Pandora
slacker
deezer
yourmp3.net
ez-tracks
artistserver
freeplaymusic
MyKazaaGold

i have a few more,if you don't find any you like from that list,leave one in my inbox and let me know :)

♥ danielle

Q: ok to start that i have a boyfirend im 15/f and my boy firend ive been going out with him scence april and hes in europe rite now and he hasnt called or anything i mean he probally cant or whatever but hes been there a week and what not but ok theres this other kid who i totally dont have feelings for at least i dont think so but he asked if u want to hang out and i just said ya sure but would this be cheating? should i say well we need more people so its not like a date so that its not cheating and to make it clear that i have a boyfriend or do u think that like my boyfriend probally cheated on me like dont know that i dont think he would i dont have the feeling he did but still w.e what do i do?!!!

my friend has been going out with her boyfriend for over a year now,and she was worried at first if her boyfriend would get mad if she hung out with her guy friends.He dosen't actually mind tohught because he trusts her and knows nothing will happen.So i would say,you could hang out with the guy by yourself but make it clear that you have a boyfriend and you'll 100% loyal to him.If your still uncomfortable,ask him too invite some of his friends,and you invite some of yours so it's less awkward and less of that "date" feeling.Even if you have a boyfriend,that should'nt mean you have to shut out your guy friends out of your life.As long as you know nothing will go on,and your loyal to your boyfriend then you have nothing to worry about :)

♥ danielle

Q: does anyone know how well the morning after pill works (to prevent pregnancy)? what is the chance that it will work?

if you take it within the first 24 hours,it has a 95% chance of working.If you take it after say 72 hours,it's effectivness goes down to only about 89% chance of working.

♥ danielle

Q: I'm 18 but alot of people say that I look 15 years old which gets me down. Any ways to look older or my age?

Try a different more stylish haricut.Go to your hairdresser and ask her what are the trends for hair.You could also pick up a magazine that showcases all the trends in hair for the length you want (short,medium,long).I would'nt shop in the "juniors" section all that much.You want to look a bit more sophisticated and more appropriate clothing since your about too enter adulthood soon.Show skin,appropriately.Don't buy alot of name brand clothing that shows the name brand on them like(hollister,or abercrombie).Focus on accessories,like a cute bag, or some bangles.You can keep up with the latest fashions by reading magazines like lucky or elle.Go to a makeup artist at a store like macy's or Jcpenny they can do your makeup for free,and show you how to do your make-up so it looks natural(not saying you might be doing your make-up bad or anything but they can give you pointers).Watch how you talk to people,use less "umm" and "a huh" you want to sound more mature then that.If you would like anymore ideas,just leave one in my inbox :)

♥ danielle

Q: O.k. so for guitar hero, obviously it comes with a guitar. I put the batteries in the guitar which is all good. However, the little button on the guiatar directly next to (on the right of) the control pannel (the arrows that go up down left and right) has to search for connection to the x-box if that makes sense. I have hit the button on the x-box in which it has to search for the guitar, so that's fine, but when I hit it on the guitar it just keeps flashing green instead of staying green in only one quarter of the little button. So my question is, why isn't it connecting to the x-box and just keeps flashing instead of staying green in one area. And the x-box button just keeps having the green go around the button in a circle, if that makes sense. I've played it before, and I tried several different batteries, but I don't think it's that because if the button on the guitar is flashing, the batteries have to be working. It's just not staying still. I've also taken the batteries out of the controlers, which can sometimes cause a problem. Does anyone know what else I can be doing wrong or what else is wrong? Help would be very much appreciated :].

guitar hero best game ever :)

i found these websites that had similar problems that you had.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080612220522AAFj2y2

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070624000113AAE1ObK

if none of those work,i would suggest calling guitar hero i'm pretty sure this is the number 1-310-255-2000 and tell that about the problem your having and they can talk you through it and see what the problem is :)

♥ danielle

Q: Does anybody know the phone number to the wayne county health department?

go on google and type in "wayne county health department" i found a few numbers from a wayne county,but there was more then one,find the one in your state and call the number they put on the website :)

♥ danielle

Q: her eyes were open,but she could not see
her mouth would move,but she could not speak
she was not crippled,yet she couldn't move
she had a brain,yet she couldn't think
she had a bed,but she couldn't sleep
she had space,but no room to breath

ide like to hear your thoughts on what you think

aww did you write this? it's good.

Poems take alot of thought,and you have to process everything.Hmm is she too shy to talk to a guy? or she has anxiety,she can't speak up for herself?

could you tell me the meaning because it's bugging me now! lol

♥ danielle

Q: how do u shrink a shirt

google works wonders :)

http://www.wikihow.com/Shrink-a-Cotton-T-Shirt

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060909125504AAAxLtC

http://www.eaforums.com/forums/domestic-policy/27748-shrink-shirt-quickly.html

http://www.t-shirtforums.com/general-t-shirt-buying-discussion/t4717.html

if you need anymore sites just let me know.

♥ danielle

Q: hey i have a qouestion what are (EMO) people? I'm just curious..because all i know is that they wear black hair or w.e well thx!! bye

Emo their [EMO]tional people.

wikepedia :)

Emo is also oftenly associated with a certain fashion. The term "emo" is sometimes stereotyped with tight jeans on males and females alike, long fringe (bangs) brushed to one side of the face or over one or both eyes, dyed black, straight hair, tight t-shirts (sometimes with short-sleves) which often bear the names of rock bands (or other designed shirts), studded belts, belt buckles, canvas sneakers or skate shoes or other black shoes (often old and beaten up) and thick, black horn-rimmed glasses. Emo fashion has changed with time. Early trends included straight, unparted hair (similar to that of Romulans and Vulcans in Star Trek), tightly fitting sweaters, button-down shirts, and work jackets. This fashion has at times been characterized as a fad.

Another example of hair characteristic of emoIn recent years the popular media has associated emo with a stereotype that includes being emotional, sensitive, shy, introverted, or angsty. It is also associated with depression, self-injury, and suicide.

♥ danielle

Q: I've heard that many vegetarians become sick after not eating meat for a long period of time.
What sicknesses do they get and what are the symptoms.?

Thankyou.

Im a on again off again "vegetarian" i guess you could say,i don't eat meat very often but when i do i get sick,like my stomach will hurt but it eventually goes away.It varies for different people though some get nausea,hheadaches,constipation,or er gas issues(if you know what i mean) It's kind of like getting a short flu.I found some websites on it:

http://www.veggieboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=45451

http://ask.metafilter.com/90313/Why-does-meat-make-vegetarians-vomit

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080125005145AAPGLxw

hope i could help :)

♥ danielle