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huge dellama
ok to start that i have a boyfirend im 15/f and my boy firend ive been going out with him scence april and hes in europe rite now and he hasnt called or anything i mean he probally cant or whatever but hes been there a week and what not but ok theres this other kid who i totally dont have feelings for at least i dont think so but he asked if u want to hang out and i just said ya sure but would this be cheating? should i say well we need more people so its not like a date so that its not cheating and to make it clear that i have a boyfriend or do u think that like my boyfriend probally cheated on me like dont know that i dont think he would i dont have the feeling he did but still w.e what do i do?!!!
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to be totally honest with you, if your bf is in Europe, and ahsn't called in a week, then that means that something's going on. You shouls defenitly hang out with this boy.. just you and him, and see what happens, if your bf asks just be like, uhm yeah, It's just friend's, but first find out what he's up to..
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well yea that could be a problem that he hasnt called i mean its not hard to go out and get a calling card so yea go for it go hang out with this kid ur 15 you shouldnt have to be tied down go out and have fun cuz i no he is in europe..
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my friend has been going out with her boyfriend for over a year now,and she was worried at first if her boyfriend would get mad if she hung out with her guy friends.He dosen't actually mind tohught because he trusts her and knows nothing will happen.So i would say,you could hang out with the guy by yourself but make it clear that you have a boyfriend and you'll 100% loyal to him.If your still uncomfortable,ask him too invite some of his friends,and you invite some of yours so it's less awkward and less of that "date" feeling.Even if you have a boyfriend,that should'nt mean you have to shut out your guy friends out of your life.As long as you know nothing will go on,and your loyal to your boyfriend then you have nothing to worry about :)
♥ danielle
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Don't freak out thinking that your boyfriend has cheated. Being in another country makes it difficult to keep in touch (with roaming charges and stuff). Just because you haven't talked to him doesn't mean he has cheated. Don't become paranoid and don't interrogate him when he returns. Just ask if he had a nice time, what he saw/did while he was there, etc. Ask about the trip, NOT who he met.
To your question: If you want to make sure he knows it's not a date, TELL HIM! Tell him you have a boyfriend and that you're cool hanging out as just friends, but nothing more. If it's true, tell him you'd be more comfortable hanging out in a group (and make sure that it's not a group of couples - that would put pressure on you &/or him, and it would give the false impression of a date).
Basically, what I'm saying is not to jump to conclusions - don't think your boyfriend is cheating unless he has given you a reason to. It's okay for him to hang out with girls as much as it's okay for you to hang out with guys. Just make sure that the guy you hang with knows you have a boyfriend and that NOTHING will happen between the two of you. As long as he knows it's just a friendship thing, there is NO reason you can't go with him.
Have fun :)
S_C 17/f
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