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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

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just wondering ive seen a guy cum , but when a girl cums is it just the same like in what it looks like?, im female btw and nearly 14:L

its not exactly the same..
every girl is different though.
usually, its just really wet and looks like a clear thin liquid.
hope i helped, if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.

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What's a third world country? Does that just mean like reallllly poor?

http://www.information-entertainment.com/Politics/polterms.html

... check that site out :] its very helpful ! but anyways, a third world country is basically poor. you could say. the country just doesnt have what other, more successful countries have whether they dont have money, or updated technology [or any technolofy at all] .. third world countries are places where the government [or, should i say, lack of one] does not have the tools to help make their community more enriched.
its very sad :[
if you want to go more in depth on third world countries, take a look at this website also:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_World_country
hope i helped ! xxo.

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Is it normal for me to be jealous? My GF broke up with me a month ago. I've been getting over it, but lately i've been seeing her with guys and I see her pics on Facebook with guys and she is hugging them and having fun and smiling, and i'm just sitting her pissing and moaning about it. Is it normal for me to be jealous like this? I mean, its been a whole month. Shouldnt i be over it? And when i see her at school, it kills me inside when she is hugging other guys. How do i deal with this?

Yeah, its totally normal.
even though youre a guy and its pretty sterotypical that "all guys move on super fast" .. its not true. you have feelings too.
theres no specific time period when you should be over someone or something that happened, its different for everyone and in your situation, it also depends on how much you liked her and all of that.
i know its hard. but with time, youll move on. but let her hugging guys and hanging out with them be your motivation to get a move on with your own life too.
dealing with it, you need to hang out with your friends. occupy yourself and be around people. start talking to girls and go places where your oppurtunity to meet girls is pretty good.. like an amusement park, mall, park.. something like that. you could also put your frustrations into athletics, and go running or even play a sport like basketball with your friends, maybe even hit the gym.
eat LOTS of chocolate [if youre not allergic, it seriously helps. comfort food is awesome] you could also listen to music, but nothing depressing.. something that will empower you.
also. if you see her, look away. dont watch her. dont try to find out what shes doing, im not saying that youre doing this, but dont because youll just be torturing yourself some more.
if you pretend youre okay, itll make her crazy. and the more you pretend, the quicker youll feel okay and finally be okay.
theres plenty of fish in the sea, as cliche as that sounds and you will find someone else. you seem like an awesome person, dont let one girl ruin that, show her how much better you are without her.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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i have a 10 inch penis and i was wondering if it is too big or if it was avaerage and if it will please my girlfriend?

uhm. i think you're fine.
xxo.

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sometimes i get the feeling where im attracted to other girls even though i have a girlfriend. like i tihnk i want to sleep with them or something. is that bad? do normal people get that feeling? what should i do?

a lot of people fantasize about celebrities or people like that, but as long as you dont act upon what youre thinking about, then theres nothing really wrong with it.
morally, however, thats a different subject. because if you feel like its wrong, then it is. and if you EVER feel like these thoughts make you lose feelings for your girlfriend, then yes, it is bad and you should then talk to your girlfriend about it.
some people have thoughts like this, but usually, its just fantasies. im not going to say normal people get that feeling, because really.. everyone has a different definiton of normal. but the average person has these thoughts a lot when they dont have that strong of feelings for their significant other or look at porn or some other thing that they may need help with.
unless its taking over your life and its all you think about, then youre fine. as long as you are still attracted to your girlfriend and you still feel the same way about her and you dont act on your thoughts, then you should just go on with your life until/unless it becomes a problem.. then you should seek help from a therapist or even a close friend. you might even, at that point, want to tell your girlfriend and just talk to her about it because maybe youre not happy in your relationship.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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Heyy I'm 15 years old and I'm female.
I start falling in love with one of my friends but our friendship is kinda weak but I really like him . I don't know if he does the same , sometimes he shows that he likes me but sometimes not. I really need to know his real feeling toward me . I need something to do to know his exact feeling. I don't know what to do so I really need your advise :D

why dont you just try talking to him about it ?
you could ask him if hes interested in any girls and then you could ask who..
you could even straight up tell him that you like him, and see how he responds.
but if you really just want to know how he feels, ask him if he likes you as more than a friend.
thats the only way.
you need to hear it from him, so all i can advise you to do is to talk to him and ask him questions like the ones i supplied you with above.
just be calm and make sure he knows that however he answers, you wont be mad. [even though, in all honesty, you probably will be mad.. just tell him you wont.]
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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My girlfriend and i have been togther 7 months and the other day she told me she wants to have sex i dont think i'm ready i told her i wanted to wait she seemed a little surprised and i think she may want to wait i like her a lot but we are only 16 i don't want to have sex yet i think i'm too young that may sound strange
but i want to wait till i'm a bit older at 16 i don't think i'm ready there's nothing wrong with that? What do i do?

that doesnt sound strange at all ! im 18, im still a virgin, and my 6 month with my boyfriend is coming up.. and i still feel like im too young.
unless you know you can handle having a baby, you shouldnt have sex. the consequences can be life changing and so stressful, even if youre safe and use contraceptives such as condoms or birth control.
all you have to do is just tell her that when youre both ready, youll have sex. you need to tell her that its not her, its just how you feel and that you want to wait until youre both older.
communication is key with these situations, and she will understand. youre a gentleman, which is very rare.. be proud :]
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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What other type of gum will make your breast grow

this is impossible. there is no such thing.
sorry to burst your bubble. [no pun intended]
xxo.

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At parties when i'm a bit tipsy i always feel like i make a fool of myself, but i've always portrayed an 'i don't give a fuck what you think of me' attitude. Secretly though i do, am i just being self consious?

everyone has insecurities.
everyone masks those insecurities.
everyone.
so its totally normal for you to act one way, but feel another. like with your attitude at parties and secretly feeling like you actually do care what people think of you.
i wouldnt say youre being self consious, just being human.
good luck ! keep up the confidence, because you have it. dont doubt yourself :] hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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Hey :)
okay. I have been with my wonderful boyfriend for 2 months now. We are very close but i am still a virgin as i don't want to rush things. He has admitted to me that he wants to go further but is very caring and patient :) recently we got into a conversation about what would happen if i ever got pregnant,and when i asked him if he would stand by me, i was shocked at how hesitant he was to reply. He came out with things like, 'i'd probably jump off a cliff' and 'i don't know'.
I think it's an honourable thing for a man to stick by his baby's mama and even though i'm not planning on losing my virginity or getting pregnant any time soon, it still bums me out to hear him say that :( should i let it pass as a joke or doubt his character?

nonono, my boyfriend says that too ! and im still a virgin.. proud of it :] haha.
its normal to ask that question, but sometimes, when you catch your guy off guard, he doesnt know how to react.
its perfectly normal that he said i dont know and id probably jump off a cliff because they arent thinking that it will happen. if hes caring with you and treats you the way you deserve to be treated, then that shows his character, not by some question he answers.
most boys dont think about stuff like that, and us girls, we tend to overthink things. boys are more rational and im completely certain that he didnt mean he wouldnt stick by you if you got pregnant, its just not something hes ever really put thought into.
its like this: when i ask my boyfriend what he would want to name his kids if he ever had any and he replies with, "i dont know." ... it doesnt mean he never wants kids, yuh know ? it just means he hasnt really put any thought into it.
and im sure if you asked your boyfriend again, and you were like, "seriously. would you stay with me?" .. hed give you an honest answer :]
but dont worry ! im sure hes a good guy, just let it pass for now.. then bring it up again sometime in the future. and remember, how he treats you is how he would most likely treat his kids, if he ever had any.
good luck ! hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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is kissing like hugging?
you automatically know what to do?

well, it BECOMES pretty natural.
I'm not gonna lie to you.. my first kiss was nothing like hugging, i didnt automatically know what to do and it was actually pretty embarassing, but you just have to laugh at yourself sometimes.
but once you start doing it, you'll know what feels right. you dont go straight into french kissing [lots of tongue] first its just lips closed, but you'll know. i promise.
good luck ! hope i helped, if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! :] xxo.

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hey i asked u the question about party songs..can u give me some more? or leave your screen name or something i can im you on? thanks =]

i dont have a screen name that i go on, haha. i just go on here, mostly :] so you can keep inboxing me if youd like ! here are some more, enjoy, xxo:

- britney spears: til the world ends
- mike posner/lil wayne: bow chicka wow wow
- hot chelle rae: i like to dance
- hot chelle rae: tonight tonight
- good charlotte: last night
- jay sean/lil wayne: hit the lights
- the ready set: young forever
- cataracs/dev: top of the world
- taio cruz/kylie minogue: higher
- the black eyed peas: i gotta feeling
- the black eyes peas: time [dirty bit]
- the black eyed peas: just cant get enough
- kanye west/rhianna: all of the lights
- all time low: a party song [the walk of shame]
- all time low: weightless
- pink: raise your glass
- cee-lo green: forget you
- katy perry: firework
- katy perry: teenage dream
- katy perry: california girls
- katy perry/kanye west: ET
- kylie minogue: get outta my way
- edward maya/vika jigulina: stereo love
- jeremiah/50 cent: down on me
- wiz khalifa: roll up
- enrique iglesias/usher/lil wayner: dirty dancer
- lady gaga: born this way
- lady gaga: judas
- jessie jay/B.o.B: price tag
- jessie jay: do it like a dude
- david guetta/flo rida/nicki minj: where them girls at
- avril lavigne: what the hell
- my chemical romance: sing
- big time rush: 'till i forget about you
- big time rush: boyfriend
- adele: rolling in the deep
- tinie tempah/eric turner: written in the stars
- pitbull/tpain: hey baby [drop it to the floor]
- diddy dirty money/skylar grey: coming home
- usher: more
- fabolous: you be killin 'em

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hey i need a list of good songs to play at my graduation party..kinda like what would be played at prom..like hotel motel..dougie..stuff like that not too old and good.thanks!

here are some:

- david guetta: sexy chick
- enrique iglesias: i like it
- enrique iglesias: tonight
- usher: dj got us falling in love
- jennifer lopez: on the floor
- flo rida: club cant handle me
- trey songz/nicki minaj: bottoms up
- shakira: waka waka
- afrojack/eva simmons: take over control
- kesha: blow
- kesha: we r who we r
- kesha: tik tok
- pitbull/akon: shut it down.
- pitbull/ne-yo/afrojack: give me everything
- lmfao: party rock anthem
- new boyz/the cataracs and dev: backseat
- wiz khalifa: blck and yellow
- jay sean/nicki minaj: 2012
- will.i.am/nicki minaj: check it out
- kelly rowland/lil wayne: motivation
- far east movement: like a G6
- far east movement: rocketeer
- taio cruz: dynamite
- waka floka flame: no hands
- Auburn: la la la
- baby bash: fantasy girl
- yolanda be cool/DCUP - we no speak americano
- chris brown: yea 3x
- Rhianna: S&M

if you want anymore, i have tons, just send me an inbox :] good luck ! hope i helped, have fun at your grad party ! xxo.

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me and my girlfriend got into a fight ans she wont talk to me at all.. ive tried texting her but i all get is fuck off and bad answers. prom is this week and i dont know what to dooo!

hi eric.
maybe you should own up to everything youre hiding. i think thats what you should do.
xxo.

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Me and my friend had a sleepover last night and he wanted to cuddle with me and we started kissing and we had sex ! He's my best friend and were not even dating we were just playing with each other. But I do have a boyfriend. How do I tell him i slept with another guy ? What should I do ?

you cheated.
its something you need to come to terms with.

and you now you need to tell your boyfriend what happened. if you dont tell him and he finds out later on from you or someone else, it will end very badly.. it always does.
and yes, when you tell him, he MIGHT break up with you, but he will be hurt, especially if he loves you. if he doesnt love you, he'll just shrug it off.. because he wont care.
but you need to do this in person.. over tex, or the phone will make it worse. you have to have the courage to say it to his face or he'll think you dont respect him even more. you just need to ask him to hang out, somewhere private like your house or his or something.. maybe even a secluded park, because he might freak out.. i know i would. but be gentle, and own up to EXACTLY what you did.. never ever try to make it sound less than what it actually was.

the fact of the matter is still that you made a mistake. people make mistakes, youre only human, but remember to put yourself in his shoes and ask yourself what you would want him to say/do if he did this to you.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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me and my bofriend going into a fight and he wont talk to me and tells me that he doesnt want me in his life anymore. im not sleeping or eating and i dont know what i should do. i love him alot and i just dont know what to do. we have junior prom this week and i dont know if he even wants me to go. because he wont talk to me. i dont know what i should dooooo :(

boys are complicated ! haha. its true.
just dont get yourself down. everyone fights. its normal. and when people get mad, they can say things they dont really mean and i know, words cant be taken back.. like, okay. heres an example:
when i broke up with my boyfriend for like a week, he told me that he "thought" he loved me and he actually didnt. afterwards, he told me he was just hurt that i broke up with him.
your boyfriend telling you that he doesnt want you in his life anymore is probably just because hes hurt... for whatever reason you both are fighting.
im sure it will all get resolved before your prom. he has to at least tell you at some point if you both are going with eachother, and he will. but let him do it on his time. dont try to get him to tell you, and dont bother him. just relax and eat something ! just because this fighting is going on doesnt mean you have to become unhealthy ! eating gives you energy. try having a warm cup of milk with some cinnamon on top, that always gets me to sleep :] .. well usually, always haha. and also.. if you did something wrong to make him so mad at you, just own up to it.. if youve done ANYTHING wrong at all, even if you think he doesnt know about it. its always better to be honest and truthful because if youre not, and they find out sooner or later, it will make matters worth. but either way, honesty is always the best policy.. people think that it will make the person more mad if they tell the truth, but that is not the case at all. trust me.
just give it some time. he has to talk to you at some point, so dont worry :] ! good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
[by the way.. chocolate makes people happier ! so why dont you eat some :] ?]

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my bf is lyin 2 me all da time i dont no how to handle it cus then he gives me an xcuse like, nah gurl dat was mah family who visited me and im like your lying cuz my friend saw you or he will b all like, i dont no wat ur talkin bout.
wat do i do?!?!?!!?! shud i break up wit him?

i know how you feel. im going through this right now too.
it all depends on how YOU feel. do you want to try to make it work? do you think you can trust him.. if you dont trust him right now? can you handle him lying? can you ge thim to understand how you feel? can you talk to him about this?
you have to ask yourself these questions and come up with answers. maybe even make a pros and cons list. if youre seriously not happy, and you dont think you ever will be with him.. then yes, you probably shoul break up with him.
if hes constanly lying, not telling you things, hiding stuff and all of that, then you really need to think this over. there are other guys out there, he's not the only one. so maybe you should take a break from him or even break up with him to get him to change his ways and own up to what hes done. he's gonna see what a great girl he is missing ! you should be treated the same way you treat him, and if youre not getting that, then its time to take some time for yourself and think about everything.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.

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i am in a long distance relationship and i wanted to know how can i spice up our talks. we know so much about eachother and talk about the same stuff it seem like. what are some things i can say or ask him to start or keep a conversation going. please help me

well, first off, props to you for having a long distance relationship, they are NOT easy.
anyways, heres some things you can talk about/do to spice up your conversations:

- play the 20 questions game. [i think i kinda just made this one up, but im not really sure] but you both take turns asking eachother 20 questions, and sometimes you dont even get to the 20th question because a conversation could start about another question. for example, you could as: "what have you always wanted to do, but you dont think will happen?" and he could say a number of things, like bunjee jump or sky dive, and you could comment on that and it could start a cool conversation.

- play the whole, "would you rather" game thingy. hahaa. its honestly so much fun to come up with things and it starts some pretty weird/fun conversations. trust me. :] for exapmle: "would you rather be locked in a room full of spiders or centipedes?"

- you can always be random ! if youre waching TV or anything and something funny happens or interesting, just say it. like, "omg ! did you hear what happened with..." or "hahaa, i just saw the FUNNIEST commercial."

- you could just suggest doing fun things like when youre texting, see how long you two can go without saying a word, and if you dont.. the other one loses and they get to pick a word. or a word you HAVE to use in every sentence. [but make it funny] yuh know ? stuff like that.

good luck ! i hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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i wanted to know, what should i know about my boyfriend by our three month anniversary.

theres no specific amount of suff you should know about your boyfriend by any amount of days. when youre with someone, youre usually learning new things about them everyday. it also depends on how much you both tell eachother and what comes up in your comversations.
however, you should definetly know the basics by now.. like:
- his full name.
- where he lives.
- if he has any siblings [general family stuff]
- if he has any pets.
- what his favorite color is.
- his age.
- his morals.
- his beliefs.
- what types of music he likes.
- what he likes to do for fun.
- if hes allergic to anything.

just general stuff. youll keep getting to know him as the months roll by :] good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.

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im 10 yr old girl & have been having discarge come out of my vagina for 2 years. does this mean i will have my period soon? another question: is sex when a man puts his penis in a vagina & squirts sperm?
i think it might be

no, discharge is normal. its your body's way of cleaning your vagina out. totally healthy, unless its discolored, like its not clear or white, then you might want to go get checked out by a doctor. but youre probably not going to get your period just yet, until youre a little older, closer to being a teenager.
for your second question.. you could put it that way. it's how you were made. but you'll learn more about that when you NEED to know about that, or you could always ask your parents. im sure they could help you with those kind of questions :]
good luck ! hope i helped, xxo.

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