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how to deal with jealousy
Is it normal for me to be jealous? My GF broke up with me a month ago. I've been getting over it, but lately i've been seeing her with guys and I see her pics on Facebook with guys and she is hugging them and having fun and smiling, and i'm just sitting her pissing and moaning about it. Is it normal for me to be jealous like this? I mean, its been a whole month. Shouldnt i be over it? And when i see her at school, it kills me inside when she is hugging other guys. How do i deal with this?
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Go date other girls. That will do the job nicely. Look at it as being released from relationship prison and now being given more choices.
Also, try to have no contact with her at all. That helps you move on faster.
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Yeah, its totally normal.
even though youre a guy and its pretty sterotypical that "all guys move on super fast" .. its not true. you have feelings too.
theres no specific time period when you should be over someone or something that happened, its different for everyone and in your situation, it also depends on how much you liked her and all of that.
i know its hard. but with time, youll move on. but let her hugging guys and hanging out with them be your motivation to get a move on with your own life too.
dealing with it, you need to hang out with your friends. occupy yourself and be around people. start talking to girls and go places where your oppurtunity to meet girls is pretty good.. like an amusement park, mall, park.. something like that. you could also put your frustrations into athletics, and go running or even play a sport like basketball with your friends, maybe even hit the gym.
eat LOTS of chocolate [if youre not allergic, it seriously helps. comfort food is awesome] you could also listen to music, but nothing depressing.. something that will empower you.
also. if you see her, look away. dont watch her. dont try to find out what shes doing, im not saying that youre doing this, but dont because youll just be torturing yourself some more.
if you pretend youre okay, itll make her crazy. and the more you pretend, the quicker youll feel okay and finally be okay.
theres plenty of fish in the sea, as cliche as that sounds and you will find someone else. you seem like an awesome person, dont let one girl ruin that, show her how much better you are without her.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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It's still new and you just need some time to get over it.
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Normal
Everyone is different, Different people get over things faster than others. Breakups take time to accept and get over too.
How do you deal with it? You keep yourself busy. The first step towards moving on from anything is learning to accept it. Although it has been an entire month for you for all you know it could take another month you cannot rush a grieving process. However, As much as it sucks ass at this point in time it does and will get easier.
Spend time with friends, Family and keep doing what you love to do. The more social and busy you keep yourself the more easier and faster it will be to move on. Try to go out and meet new people and have a good time if you need too but if you aren't ready then that's fine too.
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