My girlfriend and i have been togther 7 months and the other day she told me she wants to have sex i dont think i'm ready i told her i wanted to wait she seemed a little surprised and i think she may want to wait i like her a lot but we are only 16 i don't want to have sex yet i think i'm too young that may sound strange
but i want to wait till i'm a bit older at 16 i don't think i'm ready there's nothing wrong with that? What do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? itdependsonyoux3 answered Monday May 30 2011, 10:15 pm: that doesnt sound strange at all ! im 18, im still a virgin, and my 6 month with my boyfriend is coming up.. and i still feel like im too young.
unless you know you can handle having a baby, you shouldnt have sex. the consequences can be life changing and so stressful, even if youre safe and use contraceptives such as condoms or birth control.
all you have to do is just tell her that when youre both ready, youll have sex. you need to tell her that its not her, its just how you feel and that you want to wait until youre both older.
communication is key with these situations, and she will understand. youre a gentleman, which is very rare.. be proud :]
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo. [ itdependsonyoux3's advice column | Ask itdependsonyoux3 A Question ]
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