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what should i do.
sometimes i get the feeling where im attracted to other girls even though i have a girlfriend. like i tihnk i want to sleep with them or something. is that bad? do normal people get that feeling? what should i do?
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a lot of people fantasize about celebrities or people like that, but as long as you dont act upon what youre thinking about, then theres nothing really wrong with it.
morally, however, thats a different subject. because if you feel like its wrong, then it is. and if you EVER feel like these thoughts make you lose feelings for your girlfriend, then yes, it is bad and you should then talk to your girlfriend about it.
some people have thoughts like this, but usually, its just fantasies. im not going to say normal people get that feeling, because really.. everyone has a different definiton of normal. but the average person has these thoughts a lot when they dont have that strong of feelings for their significant other or look at porn or some other thing that they may need help with.
unless its taking over your life and its all you think about, then youre fine. as long as you are still attracted to your girlfriend and you still feel the same way about her and you dont act on your thoughts, then you should just go on with your life until/unless it becomes a problem.. then you should seek help from a therapist or even a close friend. you might even, at that point, want to tell your girlfriend and just talk to her about it because maybe youre not happy in your relationship.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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