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I care too much about what people think of me!
At parties when i'm a bit tipsy i always feel like i make a fool of myself, but i've always portrayed an 'i don't give a fuck what you think of me' attitude. Secretly though i do, am i just being self consious?
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I don't think you're being self conscious, but it's completely normal to feel that way. Everyone has insecurities about themselves and things they wish they could change. It's a normal feeling to have. I know some people portray that attitude that they don't care about what anyone says or thinks of them, but that's impossible. We as humans have feelings and that's why we care. You're not making a fool of yourself, but just have fun and enjoy life. Don't care what strangers think of you or the people who have absolutely no meaning in your life. It's a waste of time trying to get everyone's approval.
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everyone has insecurities.
everyone masks those insecurities.
everyone.
so its totally normal for you to act one way, but feel another. like with your attitude at parties and secretly feeling like you actually do care what people think of you.
i wouldnt say youre being self consious, just being human.
good luck ! keep up the confidence, because you have it. dont doubt yourself :] hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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