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It was my birthday a couple of days ago. I was at work when I checked my voice mail messgages. I male friend of mine left a really sweet message. He was singing happy birthday in a really romantic voice. Then he said he would be sending me a small gift in the mail ( he lives out of town). None of my other male friends have done that for me? Do you think it sounds like he may like me as more than a friend?
Well all guys are different. Maybe he always goes all out or does something creative for all his friends on their birthdays. I kind of think its too early to tell if he wants to be more than friends or not. I suggest you waiting it out for a little bit and see where everything goes.
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where can i find a list on new songs that just came out? i want to get some for my ipod but i cant think of any and i hate listening to the radio.
Even though you hate listening to the radio, I'm sure you have one or two radio stations you know of and can bare. Go to the radio station's website and look to say at what they've just played, etc.
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Hey, I have a picture phone and I was wondering if I can upload pictures from the phone itself onto my computer. I have a plug for it and everything but I don't have software. Do I need a disk or something to get those pics on? I already tried but I'm no computer genius.
Thanks guys, I need this more than you think.
You can e-mail it to yourself and then open the e-mail and save it onto your computer. Thats what I always have to do.
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I really like this guy but there is one problem, he has a girlfriend. I want to go out with him, but I don't want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend. That's just not what I do. He is really easy to talk to and he is really cute. The other guys who I have had crushes on were really cute but shallow. But this guy is different. What should I do?
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confused
Well... he has a girlfriend so theres not much you can do. You can always try and build a friendship with him.
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how do you download a video from your camera? and then upload it on myspace or something?
Thanks ill rate 5s!
Is it your digital camera? If so, it should've came with a certain cord to hook up your camera to the computer (otherwise theres a a drive on your computer that you can put your memory card in) upload the picture and then get a http://www.youtube.com account. Upload your video and then theres a code. Copy and paste the code onto your myspace main page or in a comment, etc.
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hey does anyone on here know how to make your myspace private. i have been looking everywhere. thanks!
Set your age to 14 years old and then in settings you can change it to make private.
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would you consider "to hell with it" to be vulgar? as in cursing?
Well, there are certain times where its inappropriate just like curse words.
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i have a myspace issue. i always find layouts but the thing is, i change them like ever 5 seconds. literally! i can't seem to find the right one. i've probably gone through 10 different myspace layout sites in 2 days. plus the song i change everday too because i like so many songs, i can't choose just one. can anybode recommend a bunch of myspace layout sites that are really good, not crappy layouts? also, good myspace songs to use that are like alternative/pop. no rap/country/hard-heavy metal.
thanks to whoever will answer!
i will rate highhhh!
Haha, I'm like you--I'm always changing my layout haha.
http://www.xanga.com/x_____jamiesmyspacelayouts
also, you can go to the xanga blogrings and type in myspace layouts or something and I'm sure you can get a few xangas that carry layouts.
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Hey, the past few days (about 3-4 days) whenever i eat i feel really sick and like thowing up. and the thought of eating makes me sick. but do eat, could this be a sing of early balemic or anorexia? or what could it be.
thanx alot to anyone that helps
-Me
Anorexia and bulimia are eating disorders that start with people being unhappy about their weight. It doesn't seem as if you're unhappy with your weight, you just don't have much of an appetite. And that happens sometimes for a few days, maybe you have something on your mind thats distracting you, etc. & bulimia is eating a lot and then throwing it up afterwords and it doesn't sound like you're doing that either so no--its not bulimia.
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hey im 15/f. so theres this guy i have liked for a really long time. we'll call him george we always seem to flirt and have a good time. i had one of my guy friends see if he liked me because i really want to go out with him. he does like me which i was totally thrilled by. he hasn't had a girlfriend like at all this year, and he said the reason why is because he doesn't know how to "treat" a girl right, and he like doesn't know what to do. he just doesn't want one. i dont want to pressure him into going out with me but we both like each other so why cant we be together?? i can teach him.. haha plezz give me some advice on how to show him like that i care more, and i really like him i try to flirt, but is there any way i can like really "real" him in. make him want me...? i'll rate 5 for good answers!! thanks
If he doesn't want a girlfriend don't make him do or start anything he doesn't want to do at the moment. I'd say that you should just make sure your friendship grows strong and in the meantime show him how to treat a girl. YOU maybe be ready for a boyfriend, but he's not and you have to respect that. Just wait it out, love. I'm sure he'll ask you when he's ready.
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hey im 15/f. I was wondering if there is anything to help with like energy boost. I know that there are energy drinks but those dont really work for me. See im always like falling asleep during school or whatever im doing. I'm always tired i have no energy and i just dont want to do anything. I dont eat breakfast because i never really have time. I get enough sleep. I'm just always tired like i can sleep an entire day. But still be tired. And i have no motivation to do anything. Even sometimes when i eat breakfast it doesn't help. Is there anything i can do to help me increase my energy level and not be so tired? Plezz help thanks.
~ Ashley ~
One of the things that causes anemia is a poor diet. And one of the symptoms of anemia is weekness that can possibly make you tired. Could it be possible that you're anemic? In order to find this out you should go to the doctor.
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Well, i'm gonna get right to the point...question..ok nevermind that but older guys think i am attractive but younger guys and the guys the same age as me dont? what's up with that?
Haha, usually people want older guys to be attracted to them. Not TOO old, but you know. When you're a sophmore & you have your eyes on that senior and you want him to like you... that type of thing. Not the 35 year old creepy guys haha.
Well... not much advice I can give you. If you have your eye on someone your age/younger that you would like to get to know, I suggest you make the first move.
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Okay here it is. Im the popular girl in school, and alot of guys think im hot. Oh yah,and please dont answer this if you are just going to say im a bitch or something.Yes,i am hot and pretty and im pretty much use to all the boys wanting me. But there is this girl in my school,a wannabe me. She got the exact same haircut as mine the other day!Can you say:BITCH!!! i know! Anyway,theres this HOTT guy and he barley knows her but he thinks she is hot.GRRR. This is a major problem if you are me! I dont share! Does any one know what i can do to you know well...get him away from her?Im so mad! Shes ugly but im not going to lie,has a nice body.I know people say you dont like someone because of there looks but,i mean come on! One thing i dont do is lie,and beleive me im not lieing SHES UGLY. Sad to day,for her anyway,a few people think so too. Im going to get this guy no matter how much it takes no matter how much clevage because people!, I had a dream that one day ugly people and pretty people(*Me*) do not mix! And i need your help. Maybe you think im concieded so what,if you are too you will probably be able to help! Thanks!I Rate!!!HIGH! ANSWER FAST! Time is wasting :/
Honestly, who let this question get into the pool?
First of all, you're never going to get anywhere in life with the attitude you have. Second of all this boy doesn't like you, get over it.
Lol, time is wasting? Okay...
Once HIGH SCHOOL comes around, you'll understand how it is...
17/f. My mom is vehemently against my going to college in the fall of this year, she wants me to wait a year. I applied to various schools without her knowledge or consent because I'm not willing to wait a year before going. I sent off my enrollment deposit to the school I'm going to and I've been working with my principal and my Gifted and Talented coordinator, trying to get my mom in to a meeting to discuss the prospects of me going in fall. Well, she's refused to go to the meeting, thinks I'm still waiting a year. I have to send in the tuition and housing deposit and forms to my school, and they have to be signed by a parent since I'm under 18, but I called the school and explained my situation and they agreed that I could sign it myself. So now where I'm at is, I could just leave in fall, go off to my college, and my mom wouldn't have to know until shortly before I do it. I'll only be 17 1/2 by August and I made sure that if she called the police or social services they wouldn't be able to take me back...but now I'm kind of stuck. I have people that are willing to help me move up there and I have a good-paying summer job so I'm set financially, but I don't want to cause a family rift. I'm sick of my mom controlling me, but as much as I want to rub this in her face because of the way she's treated me over the years, I don't know if I can. Do you think I should?
Thanks
Wow, this is incredible. You've done all that without your mom knowing? I could never do that, haha.
Why does she want you to wait a year? I was thinking about it and the only thing I can think of is that she doesn't want you to leave or "grow up" so quickly. If thats the case then she should have spent more time with you during the school year knowing that most kids leave next fall. See, most parents don't encourage their kids to wait a year because once they take that year off they might be unmotivated to enroll the next year so its surprising that your mom is doing this.
But if you really want to go to college and you've already gone through everything, then yea you should totally do it. This is your opportunity for higher education and you should take it.
If I was in your situation and I got that far, I'd go for it ;)
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i have known my this girl ashley since like 1st grade we were like best friends up until the summer going into eigth grade we had so much fun together we never stopped laughing and with my other friends we grew apart but nothing wood ruin are friendship or atleast thats what i thought during the summer going into 8th grade we had a HUGE fight like it was crazy but the weird thing is i dont remember what its about or who started it but it was big so big that its almost then end of 8th grade and even when i walk by her in the hall there is anger in are eyes we havent even talked since the fight and were going to high school next year and i really wanna just be friends again but i dont no what to do i refuse to talk 2 her because then it would be to acword so i need to no what to to 2 be friends with her again other then some cheesey answer like talk it out should i even try to be her friend anymore idk please help!!!
You say you don't want to talk to her but you want to be friends with her? Honestly how is that going to work? I know what you're going through, I've gotten into a fight with my best friend. We yelled at eachother & she said I wasn't a good best friend, or even a friend at all. We were mad at eachother for about two weeks. I totally missed her just like you missed your friend. Yeah I know, how can I miss her after she called me that? But I did. I'm not usually the one to go up to people in this situation and apologize first. But I did. I went up to her and I told her that I never wanted us to stop talking. And both of us opened up about the whole thing and well... we were friends again. Then last year, some other stuff happened and again, another fight. Only this time we never really made up or talked about it we just... let the whole thing go. If I see her walking down the hall I'll smile at her or whatever. Honestly I miss her but I really don't want to be her best friend again, things were just too difficult. But I don't recommend holding grudges especially if they're from 8th grade. You want to enter high school as fresh as possible.
I'm sorry but the only thing you can do is just go up to her and say "Hey, listen. We're starting high school next year and I really don't want to hold any grudges. I miss you, you were a great friend and if you want to do this whole high school thing together we can, if not hey... at least I'm over this fight." Then stand there for a second to see if she has anything to say. If its something bitchy, just ignore it and walk away. At least you made the attempt and you'll feel better. I doubt that she'll keep hating you if you don't hate her anymore.
And seriously, walking down the halls with anger in your eyes is really immature. Don't bring that to high school. Talk to her.
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I seem to be fading apart with many people I was once close friends with. I do not know why. Whenever I talk to them, it just isn't the same. I've tried talking to some of them about it before, but it just gets...awkward. Does anyone have any advice about how to become better friends again.
Just don't say that I should hang out with them more. That doesn't seem to help at all.
Ohh boy I cannot even tell you how many times I've gone through this. It seems like every year I'm growing apart with someone but you know what? I'm always making new friends. Thats just part of life. If you have trouble talking to your old ones, talk about things that you guys have done in the past. Bring up old memories. Tell them that you were looking through your pictures the other day and you found an old one of you two doing whatever it was you two were doing. Ask how they're doing, whats new, hows their parents/brother/sister, whatever. I go to school with the girl I was best friends with in 2nd grade but we NEVER talk anymore. We just basically grew apart. She used to go to church with me, spend the night, she was close with my mom but once again we're not really friends anymore. The other day I was walking in the direction she was walking in and she asked about my mom, I asked her what school she was going to next year for college, etc. We made conversation just like that, like a mini-catch up. Don't try to hang onto them, keep those memories you had with them treasured forever but see it as an opportunity to open the door and make new friendships. There are SO many great people out there and you want to be able to meet as many as possible. I'm not going to say you guys are going to become "better friends" again because people do change, gain different interests and commit to different things. But you can always stop and ask how they're doing and look back. In about 3 months I'm getting shipped off for the Navy. I'm still in high school and I'm still close with my friends but I know right now that these friendships aren't always going to be like this forever. If you're in a situation like this ever, you spend as much time with them as possible because it'll end too quickly. But you know what? I wouldn't stay here just for them as sad as it sounds. I'm TOTALLY excited for all the new people and things I get to experience in the next 4+ years.
I may have gone off topic a little, but I guess you can just call it giving extra advice :) Sorry this was long but I hope I helped. I know what you're going though.
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Does anyone know ways to start a conversation with someone? A way that doesn't make you seem like a rambling idiot. Lately there have been many of those "awkward silences" in conversations I have with people.
Some of the ones I use:
--"So?!...:smile:... whats up?". I can pull that off because people think I'm totally random, so it works. Try it.
--"So, how was your *thursday?". Basically the day before the current one.
--"So tell me about yourself." I often use that one with eh-kind-of-good friends. They'll think its semi funny and they'll probably say something.
I don't know if these would work for you, but they're the ones that I use.
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My boyfriend is the best person I have ever met he loves church, Me, and his family and I love is personalitiy but he is not all that cut i mean he's cute but not sexy the thing i hate most about him is his eyes and lips there big big but i dont want to break up with him because his mom just died and he need someone to talk to more than ever now cause he is goin through a lot what should I do signed CONFUSED.
Looks aren't everything and he does seem like a great guy. Concentrate on his inside, not just his outside.
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I was in class today and these guys that I know were taking stupid pictures with their cell phones. Like, doing things that looked sexual (like taking a pic with 2 fingers together).
Well anyways, two of them came over and sat with me and my friend. We didn't think anything of it because we're all okay friends and they always come over to talk to us.
One of them pretended to be texting and the other one had his finger up to the camera and he took the picture. I didn't even know they had taken one until someone else said something about it to me.
I asked to see this picture and it looked like my mouth was open (because I was talking) and about to give oral (the guy's finger).
That really pissed me off because I was like ummm wtf, ya know? So I told they guy to delete it because it was such an asshole move. He said no, it's his cell and he can do whatever he wants.
So my real question, if I go to my AP and tell him what happened can my AP look through the guy's phone and get him in trouble becuase it's such an inappropriate picture?
Oh godddd, guys are so immature sometimes. But totally. You should go to the councelor or, you said the AP and explain your situation and most likely they'll deal with it by looking through his phone and deleting the picture.
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okay, so my mom hates everything about me so, I make up things that happen at school, like I tell my mom that the boy I like has said I'm sry about a billion times to me b/c of something that really happened but he only told me once, should I stop telling her lies to make her happy with my school life( which is better than my home life)or no???
So you're telling your mom that the boy you like keeps apologizing over something when he's really only apologized once and for this, your mom is starting to like you more? I'm really confused. But regardless, you should stop the lies. Even lying about little things like that can lead you to big lies & thats not good nor healthy.
I'm sorry but if I'm not any help because I'm not understanding this question, you can revise it and leave it in my inbox and I'll be happy to answer it--its up to you.
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