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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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Do you think it is okay for a young person to have plastic surgery? I really don't like my nose but I don't know if I should say something to my mom now or just wait until I'm older. What do you guys think?

I think you should be atleast 17...because getting nose jobs has major consequences that "teens" have a tough time dealing with but if you're okay with the pain and wont "die" if it doesn't come out how you expected...its fine

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Do you think its okay to teach your child to hit someone back if they hit him first?

violence is never the answer but every school has bullies so just teach them how to defend themselves...rather than fighting back*

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My parents are helping me buy a car. I found one thats in our price range but it isn't an automatic. Thats the only thing wrong with it! Is it hard to learn to shift gears? I really want this car!

no its not that hard and if half the world can do it...so can you* and then when you get a car thats automatic...you can still tell ppl.."i know how to drive stickshift" lol

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I want to make dinner for my boyfriend. I'm an ok cook but not really great or anything. Does anyone have any ideas of a nice meal I could cook that would be pretty easy to do? I'm not looking to make frozen pizza or anything, I really want to do this right.

spaghetti is always easy and good. try lasagna but the basic kind, with only sauce & meat inside. or you could try ordering from olive gardens & pretend you made it lol jk

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I am babysitting for this wild kid on Friday evening. He is a good boy age 7. BUT, he is everywhere at once! Any ideas on what kind of calming things I can do to entertain him so he isn't running through the house like a little maniac? I can just see him falling into sharp corners and things!

play a game like monopoly or uno with him...try getting a movie you know he'll be really into....get him to play games on the computer

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Ok,you see, there is this guy thatI really like
and he knows it and he told me that he liked me...he is really sweet to me and if i'm having
a bad day then hr will try anything to make me feel better.But the problem is that he has a
girlfriend and i'm like madly in love with this guy and i dont no wat 2 do!?!?!?

well think of how you would feel if you were in his girlfriend's position and had another girl trying to get your boyfriend. so just back off for now & be friends with him...and if you think you'll do something to jeopordize his relationship with her gf, then just stay away from him.

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Our school has banned Abercrombie from our school. They say that the shirts are too sexual and distract the "learning environment." Today a friend of mine was wearing and Abercrombie shirt that said "Will work forehand jobs" and was given a saturday detention and they made him take it off. The same thing happened to a guy wearing a shirt that had a video game controler and said "wanna play?" Yes I get that those shirts can get you in trouble but what's wronge with regular Abercrombie shirts that don't have anything to do with sex? And not to mention pants. Well, us students want to get them to let us wear Abercrombie to school again becasue not ALL their shirts are like that. WE have no idea wear to start. Any ideas?

abercrombie is tight....the jeans, well atleast the ones i have, dont say abercrombie on the outside, just the inside label so i figure you can still wear those and even some other collar shirts i have dont say abercrombie newhere, so just wear the ones you can...then wear the other ones outside of school*

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What are excersizes for stomach, arms, and thighs?
I need really quick results. Even if they're minor.
thanks!
dont say squats or running. B/c i'll be running soon but not yet b/c i dont have a tredmill yet.

pushups for arms....curlups for stomach.....chair exercise for thighs(when you stand against pretending you're sitting in a chair)

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its my first time ever getting my period...but it comes one day & then the next it doesn't come then the next day it does..so basically its a every other day thing...is that normal??? please help asappppp

thats fine because you're just started out..it'll take couple years for it become a real schedule

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Even though I am currently dating my boyfriend, would it still be right for him to properly ask me to Home Comming? Or is it just an obligation and we both know it so there for he doesn't need to ask.

if hes your boyfriend,and you both are going ot homecoming..then its pretty much set that he's going 2 be your date

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where is a good site where i can get some good codes for my xanga that has some christian music and country.thikans a million

search on your windows media player

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Over the summer I've lost like 10 pounds. But my arms are like fat and it really bugs me. I lift weights once and a while (10lbs,my parents won't get anything more). What are some other excersices and stuff I can do to make them smaller? Thanks in advance. i'll rate

try pushups...even though those are for really toning your arms...

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okay i know this may be a stupid question, but on myspace one of the choices for your relationship status is "swinger", what does that mean? i rate 5's for REAL answers.

when you're seeing other ppl while being attached

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the eye docotr gave me lubricant drops for ym eye and I am out whats something I can get like at wal-mart thats the same?

Renu eye solution I think

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okay so my friends going out with this guy and i started talking to him, ya kno bein nice and stuff and then we started to talk more and he is saying all this weird stuff that i should like come over cas hes lonely and he thinks his gf is going to break up with him.. but i was like no i wouldnt do that to her and yeah he keeps saying all of this stuff that is like flirting with me and im trying not to back but hes always like your being wierd and texting me and stuff... i dont wanna hurt my friend by telling her this, i just wish he would stop... what should i do please help

Well if you dont want to hurt your friend by telling her...you're just letting HIM hurt her instead...so I would tell my friend whats up and if she doesnt listen, then theres nothing you can do.

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I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.

Should I wait?

Do what you feel is right for you...and if you're scared you won't know what to do...read cosmopolitan or redbook and learn it as you get older.

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do most jobs.. (for example - target, any restaraunt, walgreens, menards, etc.) hire 15 year olds if they have a workers permit? bc im 15 and i really need a job.. that doesn't require you to work the fry machine..

fastfood places such as wendys & subway will hire you at 15...target you have to be 16, walmart you have to be 17...different counties might have diff rules but fastfoods hire at 15 with work permit or maybe they wont require it.

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i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high!

bake brownies or cupcakes. give him cereal, peanut butter sandwiches, caprison juice, make him french fries @ home...*

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what is the best product to use on acne?

pro-active...it cost 49.99 a month but it works well*

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Ok I'm goin on holiday In 1 week and I don't know what to do about hair removal. I always seem 2 get thick regrowth quickly. I have problems waxing and my hair is too short to wax at the moment. If anyonw has ideas how to get rid of hair quickly and any ideas how 2 slow regrowth I will rate 5's.

For your face, try threading or bleaching. Even your arms try bleaching or threading, and I know some girls who shave their arms when they have nothing else left to try...*

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