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Well my friends and I are trying to decide on costumes. I have NO idea what I want to be. I mean something cute but not very sluttly... maybe just a tad lol. I mean I'm almost 15 and i want to be cute/hott! Do yall have any ideas of what I could be? Please help. Good answers get 5's! xoxo.
p.s. some that work in cold weather or some that work in just good temps. I dont want to wear a bathing suit when if it is like 50ish degrees! Even though I don't think it will be that cold though.

Thanks in advance!

you should all be cowgirls! you can wear cowboots and if its cold just put on a jacket and then you can make em cute by showin cleaveage or something go to www.3wishes.com and look at the cowgirl costumes there that may give you a idea.. well hope i helped!

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Ok so I was going out with this really nice,sweet,HOT boy. So our longest relationship was 1 week, but I still told him i loved him and he told me he loved me.But this other girl liked him and said something to him and he broke up with me. Icryed my slef to sleep for 2 weeks in a row and now I cant stop thinking about him,hes in my dreams at my school EVERYWHERE!!!! But today in skills he pushed me over and what i think flerted with me. He wont look at me only if i laugh and im not looking at him.All i wanna know is if it is over???

well he might just be flirting with you and like you but it depneds on what the girl said, if she liked him or was trashing you or something... if you want him back make him jealous by flirting with other guys and maybe youll move on well if its been a couple weeks and he hasnt really talked to you muchi think it might be over but best luck to you and keep ur head up

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what does OOOOH FO SHIZZNLE MY NIZZLE

well i think it means ' for sure my ni**** ' but im not 100 % positive

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im getting my nails done tomorrow for a formal and i was wondering if i should get gel nails, tips, or acryllics? (sp) i have had gel nails before and i really liked them but what is everyones opinion? easy 5 =] xO

i got acrylics and i love them! i just get them as a french and they look really good... or you could get a color to match your dress and when you want you can just peel them off from the top it doesnt hurt unless you crack and try to bite them off.. well have fun :-)

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Well, I'm getting my Cell Phone in about 22 days.

Anyways, I was wondering:

1. Are camera phones good? I mean do they take good pictures?
2. Which is better: Flip-phone or hand-held?
3. How do you get ringtones? Like not the pre-set ones but ones that are actual songs that are like on the radio and stuff.

Thanks!

hey.. well it all depends on what kind of phone you get but ill try to help the best i can
1. i personally like camera phones a lot because i love taking pictures and it depends on what kinda phone you get i have a verizon im not sure what kind but it holds 60 pics and there pretty good.. others might be better.
2. If you want to use your phone for a lot of internet or emailing hand-held would be better off but they can be pricey. flip phones you can still use for email and stuff but are mainley used for just calling someone
3. you might get this thing called 'get it now' or your media where you can go to a catalog and download a ring tone player where you can get songs like on the radio.. it just depends on what one you download... well i hope i helped you please rate

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this is the girl that asked u about the whole mike thing(about us hanging out and what not) but anyways i wanted to start out by saying thanks for the help..it meant a lot! but anyways i have another problem! well last night i talked to him and it went HORRIBLE! i imed him and was like this is a little weird and hes like yeah i know what you mean..so then i was like what do you mean, why do you say that? and he was like same reason as you probably, why do you? and i was like well all my feelings came back and he was like its just weird thats all (well if his answer was gonna be the same as mine and he knew that..i know..why was it totally different..doesnt make sense..dunno if he was hiding something or what) well then i asked him why he did it and he said i suck and i was like well why do you say that? and he was like cause i do i wanted you to stop me..i was like what the heck you wanted me to stop you from kissing me when you know i love you..it just didnt make sense to me..how could you seriously do that to a person? so then i was like do you like doing this to me and he was like no no no no no and i was like why do you? do you like me crying all the time? and he was like no actually i find it kind of annoying! so i was like you know what fine sorry for being annoying and sorry i came into your life ill just leave! well he ended up blocking me for like 30 minutes and took me off his friend on myspace! i know i reacted a little harsh but after him being like this for 9 months and even telling me 6 months after we broke up he loved me..it causes a lot of pain!ive told a lot of my friends i give up and im done cause i know i deserve better! but they keep saying we know he loves you, you can tell he just doesnt wanna admit to it! but no one knows but him! i told them hes not the one crying all the time but they said you dont know that..and i guess they have a point! i guess my question is what do i do from here? do you think hes playing hard to get or scared to tell me his feelings? should i give up or what? sometimes i just think it isnt worth it anymore! thanks so much

hey again haha.... well first of all the same thing like happend to me n my x just hooked up and he was like 'it feels different' but whatever... personaly i think hes not worth it at all and i know exactly how you feel, you went out with a guy for a long time its going to be hard to get over but once you find someone else your going to realize how much better your off.. and plus its so gay when people block you for reasons like that! really immature.. but anyways i think you need to let him be for a while and let yourself heal and hang out with friends find new boys and hes going to get jealous and crawl his ass back to you but then you cant take him back! show him what he cant have and he'll really be sorry... im here for ya if you needa talk imm in the same position... hope i helped and ask more questions if u want! im me if u want also ericaclarica789

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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much

hey.. this was in my inbox but im not really sure if u asked me to answer or what haha but i found my self in a simmilar situation i was going out with a guy for a while and we broke up because he moved like 30 min awaybut then whenever he broke up with a new girl he would always come back and we would be 'together with out the title' but from my expierence i wouldnt do anything with him or even get involved with him if you arent going out all it did to me was screw me over in the end everytime he went with a new girl and i was like his reboud...i bet he still cares about you and stuff but if hes ignoring you then hes obvioulsy having second thoughts and isnt worth it. make up a new screen name and just see if hes online or blocked you or anything but dont talk to him on it. and if he did then thats really immature and you shouldnt even waste your time and move on with your life. i know getting over your first love is hard but save yourself from more heartbreak and find someone who is better. i hope i covered anything if i missed out on anything then just ask well good luck

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im looking for bedding for my new room. i want the colors to be orange hot pink and blue. can anyone find me any links to legit. sites with bedding in those colors (preferable like the exact link to the exact bedding not just the site)

ive check

Jc Pennys
Sears
PB Teen
Domestications


already

thanks!

hey.. you should try Urban Outfitters (www.urbanoutfitters.com) they dont have too much of those colors on the website... but at the stores they have like everything! well hope i helped

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what are some pretty,and uncommon names? please dont say things like,jessica,jennifer,katherine,there pretty but they are all to common! thanks for the help! i rate to 5's :)

you have a lot of names all ready but some of my friends names are:

Laney
Ta'Leah
Bayge
Aubrie
yeahh so hope that helped maybe?

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u helped me b4 and gave me great advice...but i have another question thats kindof personal that i didnt want to ask just anyone. Is the fingering expirience woth it? What do i need to do in return to make him happy?? If there are any suggestions please help! Its pretty pathetic that im on advicentors for help with my sex life!!

thx!

:D

hey... what question did you ask before? its alright because i ask question like that on this too! haha... but yeah i do think the expierence is worth it, i mean you really have nothing to loose unless the guy has stds and gets it on his hands or something.. and dont go around and let everyone do it to you or you'll get a rep. Also, if the guys good at it its really nice :-) hehe to return the favor you could give him a hand job... or a blow job depending what your comfortable with. if your not into that you could just give him a massage or kiss his neck or somethin, but if you want to talk more then you can im me if ya want ericaclarica789 well hopefully i helped talk to you soon maybe!

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months but have been friends for 5 years. Even though were young weve been discusing marriage because of the amazing bond we have. Just recently we started having sex. I wouldnt know any other kind of sex but to me it seems really hardcore and more about the sex than the love. Weve never done any oral, but he told me this morning before he went to his am classes that when he comes home he is going to give me the best sex I ever had. He left a note saying this along with little clues about "tonight". This has really been grossing me out and concerning me because he said ... "My fingers will be up there along with my tongue,baby"!!! I dont now whatt to do because Im still new to te sex scene and those words coming fom him shock me!!


HELP!!

hey... i bet you really like this guy... and he really likes you..and he wants to make you feel good..but you guys have had sex so maybe you should try it, you dont have to if you dont want to but from my expierence its amazing haha, you could tell him you dont want to go that far and just let him finger you, or whatever you want to do. good luck and let me know what happens! lol

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so prom is in may but I've found my dress already. One problem... I can't find the shoes I really want..I know they are out there but I just havent found them .. They are gold and they kind of look like the dirty dancing ones ...They cover the heel with and ankle strap thing and open fronts and high heeled.. can anyone help me?? I will rate 5s!

hey i just had homecoming and i got the coolest shoes to go with my dress from bakers: http://www.bakersshoes.com/
and you could search around there if you have a bakers near you and i got these shoes : http://www.bakersshoes.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=13174&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=105&iSubCat=124&iProductID=13174
in gold maybe you wont like em but i think theyre so cute and they are really hott on so comment me back and tell me whatcha think :-)

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13/f OK my dad can be so moody somtimes. Like a moment he'll be happy and fun and stuff and the next if I do somthing wrong he'll be all mad. When it comes to boys its really bad. I live right next to these boys who im friends with and somtimes he'll be like ok go ahead outside with them and then another time he'll be like tell them no I dont like you out there with no boys and I hate because I don't get him. And I can't talk with him because I know I can't talk to him about everything and I dont like writing him letters. How can I get him to trust me with boys because it's not like I do anything with them. So please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

have your guy friends and some friends come over while your dad is there and have them suck up to him and be really nice or watch football with him or something haha so your dad will start to like them and let you hang out with them more...unless they like are known for drugs, sex, or he wears black a lot and stuff (no efence if you do) then that mite be why he has a problem with them.. if you live with your mom what does she think about it?

comment back

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does any 1 know some tips for starting out on playing oboe? i dont want anything stupid like well you have to get a reed and a swab.... i take a class at school im not stupid....thanx

hahaha i played the oboe back in like 6th grade... umm accualy they said i was naturally good at it or something but the trick is like a balloon blowing in it differnt pressures and stuff but you will get tha hang of it once you start learnin well hope i helped comment

xo erica

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how do you get over boys? i was with this guy for 7 months, we never officially dated but it was known that we were together. we had a sexual relationship and i fell for him big time. he suddenly started fooling around with his ex girlfriend behind my back and told me that he never really liked me to begin with. we hadnt had sex until about 8 days before we split and so he had no reason to keep me around to use me. he wasnt getting any benefits for staying with me for 7 months because i never really "did" anything for him. i know hes in denial that he never liked me. once i found out about him and his ex girlfriend (he never told me, my frined did) i decided to stop talking to him completely. i havent spoken to or seen him in 2 weeks. i unfortunatly cannto stop thinking about him. any advice...i know this was long sorry ill rate high

ohh, i was in the same situation... i think the real time you accualy get over someone is when you find someone who truely cares about you and will respect you for who you are. and once you really realize this youll think back why you ever settled on anyone less than who would treat you like a princess.. and trust me you deserve it, i bet that guys going to come crawling back to you... but you have to do what i didnt and dont go back to him.. it will only break your heart more in the end

hope i helped

xox-erica

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When I'm giving my boyfriend a hand job or head, how do I tell if he likes it? I don't know if I'm doing it right or not..

look at his facial expressions and stuff see how hes reacting and if he jizs then you kno you got it haha but if you wanna learn how to do it then hit me back up and ill sned ya a website or something

xox- erica

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Is there anything I can do to make myself look older? I already dress my age and wear enough of makeup. But there's something about my face that makes me seem younger. Are than makeup tips that can help change this? 17/f. Thank you!

i dont know if this would help but maybe get a new haircut get some highlights or just a edgy new look and that will make you look older like you know what your doing... piercings maybe too? haha if your into that.. well hope i helped


xo erica

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There is this guy that I like a lot and we tend to flirt sometimes and stuff..... Well the thing is he has a g/f and I am friends with her and I would never want to hurt her..... I just feel bad because this is the one guy that I have come to like a lot and he is taken..... And now he does not talk to me anymore and I just want to be friends with him because our friendship means so much to me its just I dont know how to aproach this... can you guys help me out

you should give it a little time, back off and do Not flirt with him just act like you are just friends... i have been in this situation and its soo much better to keep the friend then the boy. in time youll find another boy im sure and start liking him and then you 4 can all go on double dates haha and be friends with both of them

hope i helped

xox- erica

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Me and my bf have been dating for 6 years and everytime he takes me out to a romanctic place and we come back home he always tries to have sex with me. I tell him sometimes I want to wait til im married. He says he understands and all but then he tries it again in a week. I mean I don't blame him for being horny but I gave him a handjob once but it was like a couple months ago. Now for some reason everytime I see him this month he seems to get depressed everytime. I ask him whats wrong and he says nothing. We still kiss and stuff but I feel like Im doing something wrong. So I gave him another handjob and have been but he still seems depressed.
Is there anything I can do to get him alittle more happier?
and don't think about saying hes gay or something

give him head, let him finger you and eat you out do kinky things haha its been 6 years how old are you? dont have sex with him until you feel your completely ready or stay true to marriage or something

xo erica

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ok i know its all unlikely your pregnent from a guy having some jizz on his hands then fingering you...but has anyone heard of a particular case where this did happen? or can someone find a story about this happening to somoeone online for me? thank you so much!

i read in a magazine that its not true because once the sperm is like outside or w.e and not in u it dies instantly after a few seconds or something


xo erica

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