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I really like this guy and he doesnt even know i exist even though i am friends with alot! and i mean alot of his friends, and it seems weird he hasnt met me yet...i know alot about him because my friends talk about him ALOT and so is started liking him and i guess he'll never like me, and i dont want to go out with anyone else because i want him and no1 else...i am like shy aroudn guys i like alot and even if i was aroudn him with my freinds i'd be nervous to saay 1 word to him...so months ago i started cutting and you probably will say "dont cut its bad" or shit like that but i cant stop and i dont really want to because it gets alot of stress and anger out and i REALLY like him and I CANT STOP CUTTING and no i am not going to tell someone like my parents my mom already treats me like a fucking 10 year old and would be so disapointed and shit...and i dont cut that bad so i dont really need a shrink/psychologist or what ever...

signed
Unloved confused cutter

well i don*t know exactly what you want me to answer so i*ll try my best. #1 about the cutting, I won*t lecture you cuz shit, lectures suck! but i know how you feel about cutting, i*ve done it before (over a guy too.. psh boys) but yeah. OK so i mean as much as you don*t wanna hear it you shouldn*t cut yourself over a boy and you might think he*s amazing but you haven*t really gotten to know him. If you like him so much you should try to get to know him. The next time he*s around try to make conversation even if it*s hard. just be like hey. and what i always do even if i know EVERYTHING about them, i act like i don*t. I ask them their name and stuff and what you need to do is get his IM screen name (if you have one) because you get to know sum1 really well over IM b/c people are more honest. He prolly does notice you but doesn*t know if you notice him b/c your not trying to get to know him. Maybe you could have one of your friends that*s friends with him talk about you (good of course) and see if something happens!! I hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea

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I'm really nervous bout starting highschool, especially the meeting new people part. I'm outgoing, but only when im with people that i know. How will i be able to make friends(and i dont mean join clubs and stuff, i mean like talking to ppl). Whats a good way to make conversation. Just please help me, or at least gimme some support. I will rate 5s.

yeah i*m going into highschool too n i*m nervous myself. I plan on just still hanging out with the friends i made in middle school and then make random small talk with kids in the classes i have. Also if your planning on doing sports or anything then you*ll deff. make new friends. I think you*ll be able to do it, right now your just nervous bout a new school, i am too! but good luck!! xoxo, chelsea!

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I have the worst profile for aim, i just dont kno how to cobine colors nad fonts and AHH. Well if someieone coul help me out?
Could someone maybe dress this up ( I LOVE THIS SONG) and myave send it to my aim sn al3x252

THAT YOU SO MUCH ANDDONT WOORRY I WILL RATE
GREATLY APPRECIATD


These words are my 0wn
From my heart flown
I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you
There's no other way
To better say
I love you, I love you...

hey this is chelsea (crazlilchelc152) i just sent u that thing n you told me to say something here haha so thanx n i*m glad you like it!! xoxo, chelsea

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ok so do bra sizes go in order from big to small or small to big. so i mean is like a the smallest and d the biggest? or the other way around.

aa is the smallest and d isn*t the biggest some women have HUGE tatas, I*ve heard of a G cup, scary isn*t it! And i don*t no if you no that the number is your size around your rib cage, so people who are 32 are more petite then 38*s! hope i helped, chelsea

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hey! i didnt eat for 4 days because i was super busy and the only kind of food i could eat i didnt like! but i gained 2 pounds! how is that possible if i didnt eat?!

you don*t eat, you don*t poop (i no sounds lovely) It slowed your matabalism down so you didn*t get rid of any of the food you ate before you stopped eating. I don*t suggest you do that again. xoxo, chelsea

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i'm going to buy a chi straigtener soon but does it seriously work well? i don't want to spend all that money on nothing. i have pretty thick wavy hair...how long will it probably take me to straighten it all? i have conair 200 watts..but it doesn't work on me for some reason. 15 minutes using it IT DIDN'T WORK! what is wrong with me!!!

nothings rong with you conair*s SUCK! (in my opinion lol) but my friend ellie has a chi straightener n her hair gets HUGE and she gets it perfectly straght in like 20-30 mins. I really think you should get one!! good luck, chelsea

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Hey.............my older sister is having a baby but she doesn't kno yet if it's a boy or girl and she needs some cute names!! (Don't worry she's married and like 29 years old!!) Thanx!!

http://www.babynames.com has like every name ever invented n where the names came from and the meanings! haha when i*m bored i check em out just for the fun of it. Also there*s tons of baby name books out there, she should get one!! good luck on the new baby, i love little kids!! : ) chelsea

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Does anyone know how to make cd's from limewire? I have a playlist and everything, and the directions I read from someone online didn't seem to help. Can someone please tell me how to make cd's off your playlist off of limewire?

oooh yeah i use limewire! ok this is the only way i no how so sorry if you don*t like it but yeah. k go to options (at the top) then find player, then uncheck the box that says "use limewire*s player" or sumthing like that. Then (i use music match jukebox) just click on a song to make it go to the music player you have on your comp and make a playlist and burn it there. hope i helped prolly was very confusing! sry, chelsea

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i dont know if this is under the right category.. but whatever. see i have really low self esteem. i hate that! i mean i dont like my hair.. only when its straight and that doesnt matter cause its straight like all the time.. anyway. i think im so ugly! i mean i have a great complextion and really pretty eyes.. but thats all about.. i mean can you guys help me? i wanna look prettier! i mean i just moved to a new school and i wanna make a great impression since no one knows me there. can you help me? like can you tell me what kind of make up to wear.. like what color eye liner? my eyes are blue and my complextion is like olivish.. my hair is brunette with blondish/light brownish high lights i have that side hair cut. im just not impressed!! HELP!

hey hun i prolly can*t help much but i*ll do my best. Unfortionately makeup prolly won*t raise your self esteem but sometimes it can boost your confidence a little. For eye liner I think you should use black or a brown. Don*t use strange colors that looks weird sometimes. Since your eyes are blue please don*t wear blue eyeshadow it really doesn*t look too apealing. Try like a natural color or a pinkish. I reccomend more expensive brands of makeup although they cost more they really do have good stuff. You should check out Nordstrom, Sephora, Jones store, Macys, or any other stores like that! The eye liner i happen to use is Chanel eye definer i think in black but it*s about $30 altho i LOVE it! For lip gloss try a light color that*s either nude or a light pinkish that always looks good! hope i helped and i*m sure you*ll look BEAUTIFUL! xoxo, chelsea

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Ok i really want to makeout with somebody but i dont know with who or when its a good time?!

well i can*t really tell you who you should do it with but i guess someone you really like. It depends on who you are though but most likely you*ll want to with some1 you like. And to me it*s always a good time haha but when it*s kinda quiet and there*s not millions of people around and during a movie, tons of opertunities!! xoxo, chelsea

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what is a Ouija board??

well it*s sounded out weegee haha so if you see it that way you*ve prolly heard of it. but it*s like a contact with dead spirit type thing. hope i helped. xoxo chelsea

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Hey does anyone know how much a Polo, and how much a demin skirt frm Abercormei Kids would cost. Only if you've been there please, not on the site.


THanks

well hun the site has all the prices so i don*t no y you wouldn*t go there, but a denim skirt is generally about $34.50-$36.50 and a polo is about $24.50 i don*t no tho i stopped shopping there about a year ago but i*m pretty sure thats it.

(the prices the other people listed aren*t rite, that*s for abercrombie & fitch.)

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"i think ill sport some sunglasses at the bowling place tonight"
What does 'sport' mean in that sentence?

wear.. sport when your talking bout a piece of clothing or accessory means wear.

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this is for my bff, im trying to help him through this...14/m. well my gf & i have been together for almost 6 months. we rarely see each other because we are so busy & when we do, she ignores me or hangs out with everyone but me even if its my party. she doesnt hug me a whole lot either & we've never kissed. i was away from her & during that time i saw & hung out with my gal pal that i hadnt seen in about a year. she likes me a lot & she does more things than my gf does (she hugs me, thats it!) & gives me attention & really cares about me so i got to like her as more than a friend now. i was planning on breaking up with my gf but after i saw her again yesterday, i fell in love with her all over again. i had loved this girl for several years & this was my chance but then she doesnt treat me right & there are other girls out there who really do care about me. what should i do? my gf i have loved for a long time & the girl that likes me gave me a heart that can be easily broken.

*info on the ladies: the gf is a bit of a tease & needs the attitude adjustment thats long over-due but she can be ok at times.
the other girl is a lot like a gf the guy had that ended up being a huge mistake...shes a bit older, more experienced & she knows he's vunerable. she also likes almost every guy i can think of.
*parents view: mom used to be FOR the breaking up but since the other girl showed up (which she doesnt want him to get involved with) she wants them to stay together.
dad doesnt want him to do anything until school starts so no one knows why he broke up with his gf.
*the bffs view: the other girl isnt my favorite (i agree with the parents) & i dont want to be responsible for the break up...i got them together & i didnt know it would end up like this. the gf was my friend but now not only does he treat him like crap but shes mean to me too.

*PLEASE, ANYTHING WILL HELP! WE REALLY NEED YOU!*

well i*m kinda confused on who wrote the story but neway i really think he or you should break up with his gf. I understand what you mean though how you fall back inlove when you see her, i*m that way with a lot of guys. I think you should go with the other girl though because the gf.. well i just don*t like her. It will be very easy for him to get over her if he just stays away from her for a while. She doesn*t treat him rite and this friend will prolly be there for a long time, much longer than this other girl. Breaking up is always hard but i think that you/him can do it!! hope i helped and sry i like switched wordings between you//him once again i didn*t no who i was talking bout!! xoxo, chelsea

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Does anyone know if the show "So Wierd" is still on any channel? even the reruns. Any channel at all?

haha i remember that show! Although I*m pretty sure they stopped playing it like 5 years ago. i haven*t seen or heard of it in a few years. sorry hun, i prolly didn*t help. xoxo, chelsea

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What do you guys think is better shaving your you no what or no shaving it.

please tell me

i*m a firm believer it should be shaven. ECSPECIALLY if your doing sumthing down there with the "opposite sex." not many people wanna go exploring and find a bush. haha just my opinion tho. xoxo, chelsea

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Ok well i went over to my friends house the other day and we smoked a cigerrette. It was my first time ever b/c i was to scared to do it before. But at first i took a rele small breath and rele didn't taste anything, and then after i got use to it i took bigger breaths. I kno usually when sum1 first trys a cigerette they cough, feel dizzy, or wanna throw up. But when i first tried it i rele liked it and wanted more. So my friends lit another and i helped smoked that and i still wanted another one..but thats was ebough. So now it's the next day and i wanans moke again. im rele scared bc/ i wanna do it again rele rele bad but i don't wanna get addicted or get lung cancer. What should I do.. please help? cna't i smoke for like a couple more weeks then stop..i mean i'm a teen and wanna hav fun and not always be good. thanks

honestly you really shouldn*t it*s hard to smoke cigarettes for a couple weeks and stop. My opionion on cigarette smoking, i think it*s dumb. I mean when you do drugs you @least get high but cigarettes are just ew. So i mean i suggest you don*t smoke anymore, bc well u will get addicted, put your mind on sumthing else, and i understand the teenage wanna be bad thing, i*m the same way i just don*t smoke cigarettes. well good luck hope i helped altho i prolly didn*t. xoxo, chelsea

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well im going to see my family doctor tomorrow for a physical & checkup before i start high school and i was wondering what they ask you. my mom is going with me and i know she wont leave if they ask me something i dont want her to know. (it will make her suspicious) i mean, i know they'll ask about my period and that & although im not sexually active i do masturbate. will it maks a difference? thanks for the help!!

I take it your a girl, well @ mi physicals they do like eye checks and all the "check up" stuff. They mainly ask if you do drugs or drink alcohal and if your sexually active. Even if i did any of that, i lie lol so that*s up to you. i hate physicals, altho they really aren*t that bad.. guys have to like get their balls examined so be thankful!! good luck hun n don*t worry to much about it. hope i helped xoxo chel*c

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ok me and a really close friend of mine that are about to hook up are going to the mall together on wednesday and i noe we going to do stuff like hold hands, kiss, make out and yea. i have never had my first kiss but i am not worried because i like this guy and i am just goin to fallow his lead. but anyways he lives across the street from the mall and his parents want to meet me.. i dont know what to do.. i am scared they may not like me or if they ask me something and i answer in a way that i shouldnt?? i am only goin to talk them for 5 minutes because i am not supposed to leave the mall anyway but yea what should i do??? o yea i am 14 and he is 15.. thanks

Well i think you should really just be yourself, parents can tell if your trying to be someone your not. Also try not to be too quiet, but not too talkative either. Just answer their questions honestly, i doubt they*ll ask you numerous questions but just be honest and smile and act friendly! hope i helped n good luck!! xoxo, chelsea

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Long one get ready for it-

So I was out with a group of friends at a party and I had to wait for someone outside so I'm waiting and all of a sudden I hear the door slam and there's this guy Adam, and his friends locked him out of the house. So we sat out there for like twenty minutes talking waiting for his friedns to let him back in. And he was pretty cool, so after the party I'm standing with my friend Callie, Adam asks one of us to call him to see if his cell's working I don't have one so Callie does. They trade numbers and she eventually gets a crush on him(this is over 2 months or so). But then he tells her he's gay & of cousre she tells me, so they became just friends.

Then apparantly a month ago there was this girl and she "turned him straight." And now he's telling Callie he likes me, in her words "serious relationship likes you." And I don't know what to do. He's cool and all, but I'm not quite sure about the whole once gay thing, he claims he's not bi either. And also since he's not gay Callie seems to be a little jealous.... WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Oh yeah and I'm a fifteen year old doll.

i*m kinda getting a vibe that he was never gay that he just told callie that so she wouldn*t get too involved. I think you should tell him how you feel n maybe ask questins you don*t have answered. sry i prolly didn*t help

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