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ok...you answered one of my questions saying would writing a question sheet and giving it to the guy i wanna ask out be a good idea..and i thought your answer was the best :) so i was wondering, would should i put in there? im not exactly sure...help me!!


thanks

aww thankss!! Well I think you should put something like this
Hey _____ [name of crusher] Whats up?
who would you rather go out with
Me []yes []no
____[[name of other person]] []yes []no
But how I wrote it was--
Hey ____ whats up? I was just wondering if you wanted to go out with me! ps--write back
I think the second one is best though!!
good luck!!
But a phrase I like to think of is -- hope for the best expect for the worst

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what things would you recommend to do for fun with the gorgeous girl i call mine?

umm...
haveing fun like going to a theme park,movies,beach w/ friends [[inculding you]],chillin @ the crib,goin 2 a base ball game,shopping w/ her [[lol i would LOVE if my bf did that!!]] and all that jazz!!

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ok...this question is not for people who will say dont give this guy a note for asking him out...ok...would making a question sheet like "would you go out with blahblah? _____" or something be...a bad idea? cuz i want to try that but will *he* get mad or something?? He doesn't get mad easily...:-p well, thats about it.

i rate high

omg i did that and bam--now i have a boy friend!!

My note said
Will you go out w/ me?
lol my friend kristen helped.. she said "i love you baby cakes your so hott x0x0x0x" but i never wrote that,he wrote back and said yes,then he told me that he liked the baby cakes part!! =)
My friend also did this --
Who would you rather go out with?
My Friend [] yes []no
Another Girl []yes []no [[i did not write any names]]
and so now she got a bf 2!

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ohk i have a bad case of ashy elbows ... anyhome remedies to make them less dry ?? thnx

try moisturizer/body lotion i think that would be the best,rub it all over your arms and make sure your arms a moisturized threw out the day!!

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Every year our school has this "End of the Year Award Ceremony" thing, where you get awards for certain things from throughout the year, and some people perform. I am one of those people. My friend is playing the piano and I'm singing to Amazing Grace. I am so nervous!! Does anyone know of a way I can become less nervous and more comfortable when I go up to sing so my voice isn't cut short?

Signed,
Nervous Performer

You have to make it seem like everyone around u is in there under wear or something pathetic!! Or just not pay attension to them AT ALL pretend the room its empty and sing like no ones watching!! at the end every one will clap!! your going to be SO GOOD! It also helps if you sing to a person and then ask them how they think =)

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Okay,,,,,
I have this boyfriend(Kevin) that im madly in love with and hes in love with me. I am 13 and hes 15. We've been going out for 7 months!! Theres a problem though. My neighbor is the one i always hung with and i introduced her to him because he was my boyfriend and they have became close and she always im's him online and calls him on his cell phone. Latly i have been getting scared. Shes been saying maybe she will take him to the prom next year if she has noone to go with and crap though my boyfriend says he wouldnt go with her and i do belive him... and i think shes falling for him. Shes 16 years old too so shes closer to his age. She had alot of crap about him written in her profile saying stuff about there friendship. She doesnt have a boyfriend and im positive shes never had one. I know he wont leave me for her but i am afraid thats shes falling for him. How do i tell? Im scared because i dont want her too and if she does then i dont know if i can handle it. Shes been writing about a guy in her profile and she says she likes this one guy but i think she has some feeling for Kevin that are getting stronger. I think she flirts with him but im sure Kevin doesnt think so.... i donno please help I'm flippin out here!



♥ Meg ♥


*--.:*Thank-You*:.--*

wow thats mad grimey of her!! Well just to no Kevin probably just thinks of her as a friend,and ONLY a friend. If she flirts w/ him he'll think shes weird i bet. Is she hott? Is she cool? Is she hotter than you? if it gets any worse of her flirting...just ask her who she likes and try to find out clues of who she likes. Of course kevin wouldnt like her anymore than a friend..just if she mentions the pron thing agian,be like "haha nooo way!!" act nice about it but make SURE she knows she can totally NOT do that.Or you could take the more attitude approach and say "umm...NO"

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I'm 14/f. I've had crushes on several guys in the past, but I've never had a boyfriend. I feel like such loser because all of my friends have had at least 1 boyfriend bfore and most of them have had more.I kno I shouldn't go bywhat my friends have had, and I know that you're gonna say "my time will come",but I just really don't know what to do anymore. I did like this one guy ALOT,and actually I still do. I think I might be in love with him, but my friend told him and he said "ok", then he said he was dating someone right now. I'm just so confused I don't know what to do anymore. I don't think I'm really pretty or anything, or skinny, but I have friends who aren't like that either, and they still have had b/fs. Srry so long, I just am so confused, and wanted to see if anyone could help me.
I'l rate a 5 for nice answers.
Thank you.

*heartbroken, and confused*

for some boys..or most you need to have/be--
"cool"
out going**********
nice
awesome
funny *************
"pretty " :/
but please do not change these are just things that guys like

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what is ska music?? is it like punk music, and give me examples of bands that are 'ska'! THnks!

its like... emostional-soft-rockish-
its weird...no doubt sang that old song "dont speak" is a great example...

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Ok, my girlfriend is pregnant and she's really worried about it. We're both 19 and this wasn't planned or anything. We talked about it for a long time and we both agreed that we want to keep it. Her parents disowned her when she was 18 becasue she started to see me, because she was raised catholic and I'm not catholic. I felt that was rediculous because I have nothing against catholics and I was willing to join the church if it meant I could be with her but she decided that she didn't want that...anyway her parents won't be helping us with her pregnancy and with the baby so we're on our own. (my mother is dead and I've never met my father) I know that she's going to be going through a lot with her pregnancy and I was wondering if anyone knew how I could help her get through with a little more ease. I'm working two jobs one full time and the other part time so I'm not around that much. But is there anything that I can do to be of any help to her or is there anything that I should look out for? I was also wondering about taking care of baby. If anyone has any tips about taking care of baby that would be a big help as well. Thank you for the advice and I will rate a five for any help.

Tim

well,from what people had said,i would go with the 1st person who answered this question because she knows and she really gave you a very well answer. i give her a 5. just remember its not all your fault she will have mood swings an maybe blame it on you,but its not your fault,take it easy with her and be pationt[[spelling? pronounced pa`-shent]] with her.

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This really hot guy asked for my number and now he is going to call me.. obviously. The problem is i never know what to say when i talk to guys on the phone its kinda akward. What can i do to prevent something liek me running out of cool things to tlak about?

act like he is your best friend thats a girl!! act like you would with your friends because a good relationship always starts out with being GOOD friends!!

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i have acne.. . . i use proactiv and it is kind of helpin.. people say it does.. but i don't believe them .. does anyone know anything else thatn proactiv?

noxema is good it deep cleans,noxema triple pads but it all matters on your skin type..

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ive been dating my boyfriend for 9 months and we are very serious. does anyone have any romantic ideas/surprise ideas/ gift ideas for any day.... including our one year anniversary or our 10 and 11 month anniversary? thanks....

sex =)

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Ok i have this friend Jackie, She's really fun and she acts like the best friend ever. but she has this lying thing that she wont stop. she'll lie about anything!! her dad hates me so i cant hang around with her around him and she lies about him too. when i ask if she can do something, she'll lie and say her dad is home just because she wants to go somewhere else. then she'd make stupid things up like i have a crush and she'll say "OMG I SAW *HIM* AND HE SAID HI JACKIE! WHATS UP. IM GOING TO CALL RACHEAL TODAY" and then i didnt believe her, bc i never do cuz shes always lying. so i went and i asked him if he saw her and he's like, no...i didnt. so she lies all the time. AND she'll look for stupid reasons to fight with anyone. I've told her i knew she was lying all the time and i wanted her to stop but then she got mad at me for like 7 months and then im always the one to apoligize even though i didnt do anything. so how can i make her stop lying and not get mad at me for nothing?


thanx so much!

SAME PROBLEM GIRL!! ,kayla >:O. Well what you have to do is hang out with at least some different people,and she must be a good liar... thats how kayla is to me. DONT tell her a lot of things but make it seem your open with her so she isnt sad or mad... and never talk about anyone behind there backs to her...shes the type that will tell that person everything bad you say just so you guys wont be friends...she likes to get involved with your personal life ..so dont tell her everything about you[[personal wise]]

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what are some cute baby girl names?

Selina /Celina
Bethany
Courtany
Katherine
Katerina
Kristen ** i like this one
Emily
Krystal
Layla
Rita
Nina
Kayleen
Allie
Sally
Samantha
Melody
Kelsey
Brittany
Missy
Jade
Jillian
Amanada
Natalie
hope i helped

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ok this probally going to sound really gross or whatever but..when i shave my arm pits theres still like black dots...and my arm pits usally get really red...what should i do to get rid of the black dots and redness

try useing venus shaver and use shaving dream to..never put deoderent right after you shave cause it will sting !!

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do yooh know any really shiney lip glosses? and where i can get it from??
signed,
_lip gloss_

CVS has awesome lip gloses, if you want you can look for these things called "juicy tubes" you should find them at cvs,fileans,and mabe evn claires/icing. i got mine from cvs,it wasnt that much money =) good luck i hope u find the lipgloss you want!!!

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im 13 female and hes 15 male

me and my friend have known each other since forever and i havent talked to him in a while and then he called me a couple weeks ago and i went to his house yesterday and we talked for a long time.. well he called me at like 11:48 last night and we were talking and he was like you should come over to my house Saturday night and sleep over and stuff and then he was like what would we do adn then i was like idk and hes already experienced in that department and im not and well he wants to have sex with me and may i remind you hes 15 and im only 13 and i just dont know what to do because i dont want to have sex with him but then if i do i kno it will ruin our friendship and i dont want that to happen and if i dont i dont know what he will do because he might not talk to me ever again but i know you will say then hes not worth your friendship but i seriously do love him and i liked him ever since i was in 1st grade bc we hung out all the time and i just dont know... and if you dont want me to then what do i say to him to make him understand! please help me

signed - lost -

i rate 5's too

if you dont wanna--then dont,its hard to talk to people about this. 13 is yung for it anyway...i would say just be friends for now,close friends but trustful ones

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i have been going out w/ this dude for about 2-3 weeks.. he is REALLY REALLY into me.. but im not that into him.. i just went out w/ him so he wud stop bein soo sad.. and mad.. i wanna break up w/ him..but all his friends (that r gurls, which is ALOT!)said they wud jump me.. im sure they wud to..b/c he's really popular.. and he has ALOT of ppl on his side!! wut shud i do?? shud i break up w/ him? and how? or shud i not break up w/ him??

signed.. confused gurl

i wouldnt break up with him i'd think all the things i like about him and everything that is nice about him and like him for that. =) be real close and nice you'll love him. you shouldn't have went out with him though if you didnt like him!! but we all do that so its ok =).well thats what i would do..

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Okay so, I babysit everyday for 2 hours which some people have told me will burn alot of calories then as soon as I get home I do 2 hours/an hour and a half of dancing then if I have time I do 30 minutes of skipping (rope jumping)
I'm not doing it to lose weight it's just to stay in shape and keep me busy since I have nothing better to do.
Loads of people have told me I'm over excersizing and I know for a fact it's dangerous to over excersize.

Am I over excersizing?

as long as you feel healthy,and your not over tired then these workouts are right for you.I dont think your over exerciseing it all depends on people's bodys.you do 3 to 4 hours and 30 minutes i wouldnt have the time,but as long as you feel healthy,then you should be fine!! I envy you,you must be in great shape!!

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I'm a dancer and covered many different types of dancing and I'm only just getting in to hip hop dancing. I'm repeating moves so I need some new moves.
Are there any movies, music videos or places online where I could get ideas for new moves?
I rate high and especially to people with more than one suggestion.
(and when I said get IDEAS I mean IDEAS I don't copy moves, I reinvent them)

Don't say these music videos:
Usher - Caught Up
Ciara - Oh
Ciara - 1, 2 Step
Ciara - Goodies

Don't say these movies:
You Got Served
Honey

ok, go to launch.com ..or teenmusic.com they have a huge selection of music videos!!

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