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my name's rebecca. i doubt you're even mildly interested in the irrelevant aspects of my life, so i'll get to the point. i'm not a professional psychologist nor do i pretend to be, yet i'll try to give you advice based on the common sense that, unlike many others on here, i own ;]
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My friend asked me to try and find her moms name in chinese symbols. Her name is ELIZABETH i found a website but could you guys see if you can tell me if this the correct symbols for her name.
http://chineseculture.about.com/library/name/female/blna_elizabeth.htm
its very important that i have the correct symbol because she may be getting it as a tattoo for her mom.
Honestly, melogrammatic is correct. You can't convert chinese symbols into English letters. The letters stand for parts of the chinese language, so you can't just put them together to make it english. When read out loud, it won't even have syllables like 'uh liz uh bith', because the chinese language doesn't have those syllables. It could mean a completely random thing in chinese.
I can write in hebrew, and it's the same principle. You can use the letters to write a phrase that sounds like english, but it will be complete gibberish in hebrew.
I'm sorry, and I know it's not what you wanted to hear, but before anybody gets a permanant tattoo, they should know the truth.
13/f
I've been dating this guy for sometime now. It was an internet relationship, but i didnt care. He was sweet and made me feel so much better about myself in so many ways. We used to say to tell each other that we loved each other everytime we talked. But recently i he wasnt on for a while. I kept on loving him. There was a place to put if you had a special person, so I put his picture on there saying that i always will love him. When he got back on he said he didnt love me anymore. I was crushed and we've been talking about it. Now he is saying that he isnt the same type of guy and that i should judt forget about him, and he doesnt get why i still love him. the question is, why all of the sudden does he not love me? Is it because the natural male instince to run when a woman says she loves a guy?
Well, since you're 13, neither of you probably really "love" eachother. Maybe he did get scared that you were so serious.
Or, maybe he's really some 50 year old man who used you for some entertainment, got bored, moved onto the next unsuspecting girl, and wants to remove all evidence of your relationship before the police arrest him.
It's strange to be so adament about you forgetting him. It's like he's trying to hurt your feelings just so you'll move on with your life.
I know I sound like I'm lazy and won't look it up myself, BUT I've spent hours looking for a tattoo of a sword going through a heart. (Not a real heart, just the heart shape.) I absolutely cannot find one and I'm getting really frustrated. If you could look for me or at least give me a website of a tattoo gallery that you don't have to pay for, that'd be great.
I just google imaged 'sword heart' and these came up:
http://www.paradiseairbrush.com/files/sword_heart.jpg
http://www.orangeshag.com/images/p_heart_sword_sheer.jpg
http://www.fotosearch.com/comp/SUE/SUE108/FRCL0258.jpg
http://www1.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/1580158/2/istockphoto_1580158_sword_heart_tattoo.jpg
http://www.hardrockcafepin.com/images/montreal01vday.jpg
Obviously with the first and the last one, you wouldn't get the words on it, but any tattoo artist should be able to replicate it to fit your liking.
wat should i be?
13/f
im no good girl
but im not a slut to jus wear fish nexts & a bra
like any good ideas that arent kiddish or slutty?
Do you have a Party City near you? They're great for costumes, I just got mine there.
The Flirty section has good ones that aren't slutty, but still a bit... flirty, for lack of a better word:
http://www.partycity.com/cgi-bin/parties/costumes.cgi?parties=Halloween&productstype=Flirty
or for costumes that are less "suggestive", the Teen section:
http://www.partycity.com/cgi-bin/parties/costumes.cgi?parties=Halloween&productstype=Teen
Okay so I made a collage of pictures, kind of thing on powerpoint. How do I get this is be a single whole image, so I can copy and paste it all? Thanks (:
Try pressing the 'Print Screen' button on your keyboard. Then open up Paint, and press 'control + V', or paste. Crop the image on Paint to your collage, and save.
I'm sure there's another way, but that's all I can think of right now.
If those instructions were confusing, just let me know and I'll clarify :)
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/category/?cgnbr=OSCLOZZZZZZ
are their clothse only sold through the website? or do any stores also sell clothes?
All the stores sell clothes.
Maybe not every single item on the website, but definitely their Pink line.
Does anyone know where I can get Uggs that are real for cheap, like $50 or lower?
I actually got my Uggs at Marshalls for under $50. If you keep checking there, eventually you'll find them. Ebay is really good also.
Do you have a favorite South Park Episode(s)?
What are they?
South Park is my favorite show, so obviously I have a ton of favorite episodes.
-Casa Bonita
-Butters' Very Own Episode
-Scott Tenorman Must Die
-Christian Rock Hard
-Make Love Not Warcraft
-Ladder to Heaven
-Return of the Fellowship of the Ring to the Two Towers
There's just too many ;)
hi..i really want this camcorder/mp4 player..and an e-bay shop has it for a lot cheaper then it is, and even if i add the postage and packaging..it will still be cheaper than buying it from a store. the problem is...they have 318 negative feedback in the past 12 months. but thats from 23,292 feedback in the past year. should i get it from the person...or pay more...like £60($120) more in the store?
Eh. It's not really great. My mom is an obsessed Ebayer, so I'm pretty familiar with the feedback system.
In ratio to the 23,292 feedbacks, 318 isn't THAT much. But why should they have 318 negative feedbacks at all? If several hundred people had a big enough issue to leave negative feedback, I'm not sure if I would risk something as expensive as a camcorder. Plus, it's not like this one seller will be the only other cheap option. Eventually, another cheap camcorder will be put on Ebay, maybe by a seller that's easier to trust.
I'm not saying to definitely not buy it, but just be careful.
hi, i know this might be a little too much information but i AM pretty nervous for some strange reason. First off i NEVER had sex in my life, i have done other things but sex isn't one of them. anyway. i am really nervous because my period the past 3 months has either been on the 7th or 8th day of the month but its now the 11th almost the 12th and i still haven't got it is that normal for a 15 year old girl?
now although i havent had sex im still REALLY nervous like if there is something wrong with me.
please help asap. thank you =]
Don't worry, I doubt there's something wrong with you. You're 15, so it's normal for your periods to be irregular. Some people have random patterns for a couple of years after their first periods. Even though you've consistantly had it on the 7th or 8th for 3 months, it's not long enough to be considered "stable".
Also, a change in diet, or stress can cause differnt patterns. You shouldn't have anything to worry about, though.
Good luck!
Something that's like a vest, but with sleeves? =) Thanks
Do you mean something like this?
http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2789090&cp=2745080.2887799&parentPage=family
or do you mean like this?
http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2821888&cp=&parentPage=search&searchId=
Well, it's not my fault that you weren't clear about your description. Care to elaborate?
What south park episode does cartman sing ''Kyle's mom is a big fat bitch''. The name of the episode would be better, but number is ok too.
Thanks
Episode 110: A South Park Christmas.
Does anyone know where i can get some cute long sleeved short dresses....like day dresses that i can wear during the winter (and i want them to be short b/c i'm going to be wear leggings with them....
THankss!!!
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dresses&product%5Fid=2039318694&Page=all
http://www.wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1300&size=&style=38538209&color=549&token=
http://www.wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1300&size=&style=38353888&color=428&token=
does anyone know where i can find a little black dress that would be cute for a bunny costume for halloween? any ideas would help alot! i want to be a bunny im going to get ears and stuff. not too short. but also cute! thankssss
I assume you're looking for something inexpensive. Forever21 is good for clothing that's cheap, but nice:
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dresses&product%5Fid=2041516080&Page=all
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dresses&product%5Fid=2043798606&Page=all
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dresses&product%5Fid=2043062919&Page=all
I am looking for advice on a rape victim, keep the kid or not?
16 YEAR OLD GIRL.
Really, it's not the child's fault, they didn't ask to be killed because they were concieved wrong right?
But then again, having the kid will be a daily reminder, and ruin her future.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
ANY ADVICE?
Thank you for the time!
I completely agree with Matt. Whatever's going on in her body, is her decision. A fetus should not have more say than a 16 year old girl.
You're not hurting the fetus's feelings. Having a baby will change her entire life, could hinder her from going to college, etc. And one simple procedure can prevent it.
Obviously in the end it's her decision.
does anyone know where i can find a stencil of a very plain human sillouette. for designing clothes. ive looked everywhere online, maybe im just not wording it right.
I googled 'human outline' and these came up, if they're what you're looking for:
http://www.iconator.com/custom/48228751ae3b5e0fa60594fad90e4e25/ICONATOR_482287_611269.gif
http://www.bfawu.org/images/bakers-union-body.gif
http://www.childabusemd.com/images/body-diagrams.gif
ok so why do people repost these chain letters, what do they get out of them. im not talking about the chain letters that are like repost this or you die, bu tlike the ones that people leave you comments on the the cell phone ring tones, some kid i barely even talk to him leaves me them all the time and i look at his comments and knowbody commented him for him to repost them. its weird just why do people do them, dont just say because theyre stupid i want an actual answer.
Yes, exactly what thelaura said. So many people are clicking onto fake login pages, which leads to people being able to steal their passwords. The hackers then go onto these stolen accounts and advertise the websites like "Click here to get a free $500 gift card!" or "Wow, free ringtones!".
It's gotten so outrageous that I stopped using myspace. It's just really irritating when half my comments and bulletins are these advertisements.
Well, I'm 15 and a sophomore. I'm also a girl..I'm a good student and polite to people.
And I have this HORRIBLE fear of talking to teachers, one-on-one (especially if they're male..or strict O_O). Whenever I find out I have to ask them to fix something or for help, I get extremely tense and stressed out. I can't do anything at that moment, and I have to ask a million people for advice. Anxiety overcomes me. I don't know, honestly, what the hell I'm afraid of. Does anyone have the same problem? Do you think it's easy to overcome it? :(
I have the same kind of fear. I think I'm afraid of saying something stupid that will make them lower my grade, or something. I really don't know, but I also need to ask people, "What should I say??"
Just remember that they talk to students every day, and you're just going to be one of the many studnets they see. It's part of their job to know how to talk to students. After you're done talking to them, they're probably going to forget about you and just move on to whatever it is that they were about to do. Don't stress out :)
Good luck!
my high school's homecoming dance is coming up and i want a really cute dress this year. does anyone know any places in the mall or wherever where i can get a really cute one? pictures would be great, thanks so much!
Try Jessica McClintock. They have a lot of adorable dresses, and they even have a whole section for homecoming. I'm not sure how much you want to spend, but these seem to be in the $100-$150 range.
http://www.jessicamcclintock.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?catalogId=10002&storeId=10001&categoryId=10330&langId=-1&parent_category_rn=10320&page=1
Bebe has cute dresses also:
http://www.bebe.com/gp/browse.html/ref=sc_iw_c_2_296444011/104-8857731-3000732?ie=UTF8&node=259134011&bbBrand=core
*EDIT: Yes, she does have stores-- use the store locator to find one near you: http://www.jessicamcclintock.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/StoreLocatorView?langId=-1&storeId=10001&catalogId=10002
15/f
this is gonna sound way conceited, but i promise, im not trying to be. im much prettier then my friend. i mean, shes like fat and everything, so i mean obviously, guys dont like her much. plus she acts really stupid alot. anyways, since im a freshman, ive made alot of new friends. and so when me and her will be wlaking down the hall, just about every person says hi to me, and i stop and talk and make yano small talk. and she gets mad, and walks away. anyways, whenever i talk about like guys or something, she like finds some way to insult them. and its just really annoying. what should i do?
I don't think you're being that conceited. Some people ARE overweight and unattractive, and unfortunately a lot of boy care about that.
Try thinking of a guy friend you have, that's less outgoing/a good match for your friend. Introduce her to him, and eventually she'll start to feel more comfortable walking with you, and might join in on your conversations.
When you're talking to the boys, say something like "How'd you do on that math test? I'm not sure if I got the best grade. But (Insert friend's name here) did really good!" Obviously only say this if she actually did really good ;)
Good luck!