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I am a senior in high school. Female. I have know this particular boy since the 7th grade. This year he is in my Government class. He seemed so cute at first and we started texting as more than friends. Maybe he didn't get the memo that we were flirting hard. Then one day in class, I saw his lock screen on his Iphone set as a picture of my Freshman cousin.. So he laughed and said he was just joking but later he told me he was talking to her.
A few days later he told me he was taking her on a date but that she stood him up so that he no longer liked him. I didn't care. Me and my cousin aren't close at all
So we started talking again for about 2 weeks until he makes it quiet clear that he ONLY wants sex from me. He, at first, told me he wanted sex and I, for some reason, didn't want to disappoint him so I played along and acted as if I would actually do that. But then he texted me and wanted me to sneak over, and when I didn't he told me that if we didn't have sex that he wouldn't talk to me anymore. So yes, He is an asshole. I know.
But WHY can't I stop thinking about him, Facebook stalking him, flirting with him in class (despite him making fun of me), and wishing SO BAD he would like me?! (link)
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Let me make this clear...This guy impacted your life. All he wanted was sex and nothing more s stayaway from him as he is not responsible or cares about you. FORGET HIM. Thinkabout different things right now you may feel bad for leaving or you may feel hurt and want him since you have gotten used to him and things are different now. This same thing happened to me and i stil think about and wish he likes me but I think about other things to get him off my mind you mayas also be frightened but he wasn't a good friend at all. So keep your self safe and don't let him impact your life right now anymore.
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I have never really been "fat" but I am not skinny. I am 5'2 and 105 lbs. I have been anorexic and got put in the hospital, but call me crazy but we live in a world where looks get you farther than anything. I run and eat healthy, but i hope some of you can give me some healthy dieting advice that won't get me put in the hospital or make me sick.... (link)
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Bbeing obese is just as worse as being anorexic. I suggest yu eat 3 full meals a day with protein, vegies, fruit and carbs that can be a pasta dinner with fish and fruit or a salad something that will do you good. As long as you eat healthy foods you wont get sick
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Well my dad and I have never been super close but he's getting older and I want to be with him more. But the only thing he talks about is math, math math math! All the time! He didn't used to. It's because I got a C in it last semester. I dread asking him for help because he spends like two hours on 5 questions. EVen if I tell him I have homework due the next day while my math isn't he still continues. I don't even ask for his help anymore because he just walks into my room and says ok where's your math homework? Even my mom groans when he comes home. They have never been close that I know of. They haven't slept in the same room for idk how long and don't hug, kiss, or say I love you. Ever. Please help me, if you can :) (link)
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This is your dads personality and if you dont want to talk about math you trry bringing up and conversation you can also tell him you dont need help with your math. Maybe start a fmily game night for all you guys. your right to be worried about not talking to him if he is getting older.
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okay so i shave..down there.. and somedays it really itches and is quite uncomfortable.. but the itch isn't like inside its on the outside where i shave. and there are tons of little red bumps all over. is there any way to get rid of them?? (link)
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Buy a different kind of Razor as this is whatbis affecting you. Yu need a high quality razor that's more advance as for the red little bumps will go awayon their own but it will take like a month or so
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i have had a lot of death in my life from family just recently a very young cousin who i was extremely close to. i have been fascinated by death for a long time Im not a emo or a goth im a typical girl the only thing is i think about death i am extremely terrified by it and intrigued at the same time i like to look up people in caskets and people dieing and look up their stories also but then i get extremely sad and scared and when i seen my cousin in his casket i was SCARED i couldn't go up to it and felt like i was going to pass out. am I weird am I the only person out there? my boyfriend thinks im extremely weird for doing this but i cant help it!!!!! (link)
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No while you may find death interesting I may find a pencil interesting. Being frightened by death is normal as we are all scared to die even I am. But it's part of life. As long as your not having suicidal thoughts it's totally fine but if you start to worry more than maybe see a therapist. I would like to say though I am the exact same way!
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i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half he's 20 and i'm 18... well i can't trust him at all he's out drinking with his friends every weekend and as much as i speak to him he doesn't respect that it bothers me.. He refuses to let me see his cellphone and his excuse is "there's a lot of porn on it" and i know this is kind of silly but he keeps adding these really attractive girls on facebook ones that he's never met before it makes me feel insecure and he also doesn't want to change his relatioship status to let people know that he has a girlfriend. What does all of this mean? is he not serious about our relationship? (link)
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A. He really doesn't care about you.
B. He's cheating on you.
This guy isn't a well person and you shouldn't be with him. If he is making you worried and uncomfortable BRAKE UP WITH HIM he also seems like a player. He is not at all serious about your realtionship and i wouldn't trust him either. Porn on his phone? Well bye bye. He is underaged to be drinking anyways where I am from and if he always does that, why would u wanna be with him. He needs to shape up a lot. Stay away from him is what I suggest.
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it was my baby sisters birthday and so i wanted to look older and more like my mom so i wore a little mascara to school but then my mom saw it when she picked me up and got really mad, and said that we would 'talk' about it adter the party and im really scared. i want to tell her why i did it but i feel like she is going to think its really stupid...so to get to the point...i dont know what to say, how to act, or what is going to happen. what do i do? (link)
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Explaine it to her but do not lie because that will get you in to more trouble. Next time I suggest talking to your Mom and how you want to wear makeup becuase there's nothing wrong with it. Just tell her you like to feel more grown up and if she's still mad just know it will be ok. Act like it was all that happened. There's nothing to be afraid of and makeup is just for fun. As long as you didn't steel anything it's all good
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How do I get people to mind their business and not mine especially guys and my twin brother. I'm 12 years old and everyone minds my business. I take lots of risks and im te popular crazy kind that's everyones friend but people are annoying how do I tell them in a nice voice to mind their business. I justbdon't give a fuc↓ and im sick of everyone's sh!t (link)
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Tell them you dont need help with minding your business and ignore themas well as dont let it bother you either be happy with your self
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I am in a situation where I can no more decide anything. Life has turned out to be a nightmare and I just want to wake up from that dream by killing myself. Please help me. I want to die. Don't I have the right to be happy? (link)
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Get help whether it's talking to a your parents or a therapist. Everybody deserves the right to be happy and you don't deserve to be suffering. Please get help!!!
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why is it that when I go to my Tumblr profile, it only shows my text posts, not photos/reblogs, etc.?
It's really annoying me. (link)
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Maybe you accidently messed your account up you could always mmake a new account or try again to fix it
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Been thinking about getting a tattoo for ages because I really want to have something thats a part of me and will be with me forever... When thinking about it I now know that I want to be able to cover it, I don't want it on my arms or hands, I want to be able to see it and I don't want it on my neck or face. I'm not sure where to have it (as you can tell) and I don't know what tattoo to have... I was thinking sillouttes of birds on my foot? Suggestions please! :D (link)
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Personally I think tatoos can be sometimes gross or dirty but sometimes can be cool but I want to make sure you go some where, wher the utensils are clean and a clean place where the people are nice and not dirty so you dont get and efection also make sure you know this is permanant. Getting a bird on your foot would be nice or you can get it on your back something like a lizard would be cool or unique :)
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I'm thirteen and my boyfriend just recently broke up with me. When I asked him why, he said it was because I was too obsessive.
Whenever we're together, we share jokes and tell what's happening in our lives. I text him whenever there's a problem or if something important is going to happen to me. I don't recall buying gifts for him or making his picture my desktop background, while he buys me gifts and makes my picture his desktop background. I treat him like a best friend except that I really like him, while he treats me like he loves me.
Am I obsessive? What will I do for everything to be okay again?
Am I obsessive? (link)
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There are differnt ways you could mean obsessive so ask him in what way. I think he may be using this as an excuse to brake up with you and if you realize he starts to be a jerk to you then maybe you'll realize you relly don't want to go out with him. Keep in mind that everything happena for a reason. 13 is young so you will have plenty of more boyfriends in your life :)
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Hi!
I just wanted to know if you could buy actual items on Amazon with a kindle card. Thanks! (link)
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No you can't as far as I know but there might be a way you can so maybe ask a electronic store or a store that sells kindles and see what they say.
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I get really bad cramps when I'm on my period. I was just wondering if anybody knew any home remedies or tips for when it gets really bad. Thanks in advance for all answers! (link)
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It's hard to make them go away but it helps if you drink lots of waters, eat vegtibles and lay back more.
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Ok so I'm in 5th grade (which your prob wondering to young for arelationship but I do have a Facebook) so like 5 people asked me out and two of them have a Facebook so I don't like any of them but one but I never said yes I would go out with him cuz it was a text so instead of telling the other people no I didn't answer I tried to hide my relationship status but they keep texting me on fb and I don't wanna say no and I don't wanna say yes I like the other dude (and please don't say I'm to young thereisalot of people my age with boyfriends) please help!!!!!!!!!!
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A realationship at this age I believe is totally fake. Sorry I know you wish it were all like the movies but it's not love it's forced. It's stupid to have a realtionship when you don't know what it truely is. If your debating saying yes then you don't really like that peraon enough to be with them. If you're to afraid to yes because your embarrassed well everyone's goin' to find out sooner or later because guys can not keep secrets. But it's all up to you what you do and don't let other people get in the way.
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There is this girl that works at my local video renting store. I think i am starting to like her. The problem is that i don't know how to approach her, engage in quick conversation, and ask her out. Since she is working, I can't have a long conversation. What should I do? Is there a way to see if she likes me back? How can i hint to her that i like her? (link)
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Tallking to her is the only way you can be with her so approach her and ask her how she's doing and questions bring up nice little conversations and questions like: Did u watch the super bowl game?How are you? Need help? or stuff like that try to grab her attention in a good way (not bad) then become her friend then go for the move and ask her out :)
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My boyfriends name is matt what is a cute nickname to call him? (link)
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You could call him Matty, Honey, babe, baby, sweetie and cute little nicknames like that or find other nick names possibly in different languages
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how do u get a boy to like u.i have tryed flirting and stuff like that but he thinks we r just friends. how do i get out of the friend zone without telling him i like him. i want him to be more than friends but i want him to ask me out on a date and ask me if i like him plz answer my question quick by the way i am a senior in high school and a girl (link)
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You can't get someone to "like" you they just will all you have to do is be nice and be your self. Talk to him and tell him that you like him or ahow more affection towards him and move in to a different level but no to different it's all about words and feelimgs show him how you feel rather than telling him and once he knows you like him he may like you. I would also like to say the guys on't always have to ask the girls on a date you could just ask him if he wants to go out to dinner one night for a little then that may bring you guys closer as better friends than you can go farther.
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Ok so my fiancé and I are both 18 and I am wondering what should I get him for our 8 year anniversary and valintines day which is comming up!? Its extremely hard because I dont know what a guy would want and i like he has everything. He keeps telling me I don't have to get him anything because I'm his greatest gift but I want to surprise him anyway Any suggestions (link)
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Take him to a vacationing spot because that's the best gift other than you and it's something for both of you that you'll remember for a while :)
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I've been dating this guy since Christmas, and we've been just fine. Some people have told me he's been cheating on me, but he denies it and tells me he likes me and only me. For a few weeks, he's been talking to my friend (who's a girl, and his ex) more than me. She hated him before I started dating him, and this isn't the first time she's gotten really close to the person I'm seeing. He hasn't talked to me in a week, and I can't go to his house because of his family issues. What do I do? I really need some advice! (link)
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What do you think? Is he cheating on you? Trust your instincts because he might if he's doing all this. dump him if you feel disrespected in anyway and don't get to serious
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