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trust issues
i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half he's 20 and i'm 18... well i can't trust him at all he's out drinking with his friends every weekend and as much as i speak to him he doesn't respect that it bothers me.. He refuses to let me see his cellphone and his excuse is "there's a lot of porn on it" and i know this is kind of silly but he keeps adding these really attractive girls on facebook ones that he's never met before it makes me feel insecure and he also doesn't want to change his relatioship status to let people know that he has a girlfriend. What does all of this mean? is he not serious about our relationship?
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Dump him
Guys who are ashamed to let everyone know he is in a relationship are generally the ones that end up cheating. The guy is sketchy, He is out drinking and adding chicks to his facebook without even bringing up that he has a girlfriend.
1, He is disrespectful towards you and your feelings
2, He is treating your relationship very carelessly
3, He is a dirt bag, He is not worth your time, All your flags are right there
Relationships are about partnership, communication, trust, honesty and I could go on and on. Your "boyfriend" doesn't respect you and doesn't take your relationship very seriously at all. If you want a real relationship then you need to go out and find a real guy. This one isn't worth shit. I would recommend dumping him and when you do please cut contact, Don't try and remain friends, Don't check his facebook, text, call him etc. He isn't worth it in a relationship he most definitely isn't worth it in a friendship.
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I know you don't want to hear this but he isn't a good guy. You need to move on. First off there needs to be trust in the relationship, now I'm not saying you have the right to go through hsi phone but if he's being shady about where he's going that's not trustworthy. If he's only speaking to you just a bit and you've told him time and time again that it bothers you and he hasn't changed than you need to walk away. As much as it sucks you have to. I know exactly what you're going through I really do and it hurts it really does. If he keeps adding girls on facebook and not wanting to tell everyone he's in a relationship than this is not a relationship you should be staying in. When a man is in a relationship with a woman and cares about her he will shout it from the rooftops so why wouldn't be announce it on facebook?
He's not serious about you and that means you should move on. Why would you want someone to treat you like that and disrespect you like that? You don't deserve that you deserve better. I had a guy who wasn't respecting me and I walked away. Years later he told me he made a mistake and he regrets it well tough for him! You should know your worth and know that you deserve better!
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A. He really doesn't care about you.
B. He's cheating on you.
This guy isn't a well person and you shouldn't be with him. If he is making you worried and uncomfortable BRAKE UP WITH HIM he also seems like a player. He is not at all serious about your realtionship and i wouldn't trust him either. Porn on his phone? Well bye bye. He is underaged to be drinking anyways where I am from and if he always does that, why would u wanna be with him. He needs to shape up a lot. Stay away from him is what I suggest.
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