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confused about sexuality
so i'm 18 years old (female) and i've noticed for a while that i'm finding alot of girls really attractive and sometimes sexually attractive. I've never kissed a girl or anything of that sort just guys, and well how do u know if you're bisexual? Someone once told me it could just be my hormones or i just look at other girls and compare them to me and admire them, but i'm not too sure
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You where created to have an excellent eye(Mind) for TRUTH….when you look at anything you instantly create an opinion about it… within the scope of beauty naturally one feels a degree of sexual arousal…music, excitement, pain, exercise, love, food, and art release the same hormone of sexual pleasure(produced by the pituitary gland and the hypothalamus in vertebrates) ….these all come from the same place….in our given society Homosexual desires are nurtured with lies…if you expose yourself over and over, with the lies you begin to see it as a truth…you are just stimulated with the beauty of what the woman is, BEAUTYFULL and SEXUAL…that doesn’t mean you are bi-curious…your very in tune with woman in particular because you are exercising your free will to entertain yourself with the idea….I sincerely believe you expose yourself more than usual to the idea of experiencing a homosexual encounter….but consider this…the same responses you’re having in you fascination with woman…if you have a favorite food , music, art or favorite anything, there is no difference….the stimulus response you’re having toward woman is the same in any other arenas of your life, with what you like or enjoy…. Be Honest With Yourself…You know it is NOT natural…Don’t lie against the truth…
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Girl, This is a question that really only you could answer for yourself but I can help you out with it! If you do come to find that your Bisexual or even a Lesbian then be who you wanna/are meant to be! Girl of course people are gonna judge you and you might lose a lot of your friends but if you know that you are one of these you will be much happier just coming out with it(:
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You are 18. Essentially, you are an adult, and as an adult you get to make your own decisions in life. Even if that decision is being indecisive.
What I mean is, it's okay to not know. A lot of people think sexuality is black and white. I'm not one of them. Personally, I am straight. But I also don't think there is anything wrong with being attracted to the opposite sex. Whether that means you are just sexually attracted to the opposite sex or you like both. I also don't think there is anything wrong with appreciating a woman for being beautiful, or attractive, even in a sexual manner. That doesn't mean you have to act on those feelings. It just means you also don't think sexuality has to be black and white either.
Who cares if you are homosexual, heterosexual, bi-sexual, tri-sexual (someone who will try anything once! HAHA), or whatever. Just be you. Don't worry to much about what you are, just be it. Maybe one day you will be able to classify yourself into one of the above categories, and maybe you won't.
But really, how important is it?
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Right now, you are developing your sexual identity. Curiosity and experimenting with girls and guys are completely normal.
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