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for scars you can use mederma.

for stretch marks you can use cocoa butter lotion. It'll helps the stretch marks fade but probly wont eliminate them.

you can buy these items at walmart, target and all drug stores.
kim:)

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I got a new b/f, and I like him alot.
but before I got 2-gether with him, there were these boys at church. they were all so cute and we have our own age groups!! (im in 7th just so u no)
and next week, i will bre going on a trip with the whole group for a whole weekend! i think some of the really really cute boys like me. I'm scared when I go on the trip one of them will ask me out. they are so cute i wouldent even know how to say no. also i might flirt a little. but when I get back i dont want to end up cheeting on my b/f. but i really REALLY like these boys so it will be hard to say no too.........what should I do???

If you like your boyfriend as much as you say you do then you should have no problems saying "no" if one of these boys ask you out. And you can't be so positive that one of the boys will end up asking you out. flirting is ohk as long as you dont push it over board.

If a boy happens to ask you out simply say "sorry but i have a boyfriend" its really not that hard.

have fun on your trip.
kim:)

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A few kids in my school are holding a car wash and i'm working. i need tips of what to wear (sexy please) kind of warm maybe.. its october. also, the kid i like will be there and i want to impress him.

i love how everyone got a low rating even though they answered your question. And i read the feedback you left them also. Its kind of hard to look hot and sexy at a carwash but still be dressed warm. But heres my idea.

wear low rise jeans Or if you have ripped jeans those would be cute. then maybe a tanktop or a shorty shirt like one that shows some skin & wear flip flops. And just bring a cute sweater just incase you get cold.

When you want to impress a guy you should always act yourself. If you try to hard he will probly be able to tell and you may end up embarrasing yourself.

Just flirt with the guy. If a car pulls up to get washed go over and help him wash it. talk to him alot throughout the carwash.

Hope you have alot of fun
kim:)

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i have a boyfriend and in 8th grade i "stole" him from my friend in a like sexual way and so we like cybered i guess and now i'm in highschool and we got to actually know eachtoher and he's such a great guy and so nice and on my 4th time seeing him he felt me up....is that too fast..? imean i told him im not ready for sex but i kinda am i just dont want to do it b/c all my friends are like dont have sex w/ him sooo what do you think?

you sound like your really young and you have no idea how to spell.

Your an example of a teenager that wants to have sex but is not ready. Cybering with a guy is not really "sexual" yea your talking about sex but your not really doing anything sexual. Your not ready to have sex with him or anyone. Your young and you barely know this guy. Sex is something special and it should be shared with someone you are deeply in love with. and you are not in love with this guy.

-- word of advice: get to know this boy before you let him feel you up anymore.

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so i started to wear thongs and i can't really find any that are comfortable is there any that are comfortable and if there are which ones should i get

Anything riding up your butt is not generally going to be comforatable right away. Give it a little while and if you dont like them just dont wear them. A thong is a thong they dont is forms of how comforatable.

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Heya, its my birthday next week and ive been planning a huge party at my house. Im 14/15 and have already informed about 40 people about my party and Ive asked my parents if they will stay out for the night (from about 6pm to 11pm, not ALL night)and my brother is coming down from university to supervise it. People i know are bringing booze and i know someone who is bringing a drum kit round and my brother has 2 guitars that we're all going to jam on, and im going to supply food and soft drinks..but i keep thinking ive forgotten loads of things.. I want to know:

1. How to convince my parents to the idea of leaving me for 4 hours with a bunch of 40 teens
2. How to persuade them to let a lot of them sleep over
3. Any tips on throwing partys to remember!
4. Whether to supply back-up DVDS incase it gets boring
5. How much to spend on food and what foods go down well..for bout 40 people
6. How to break it to them if I cant have that party.. :-(
7. What to do about the neighbours
8. How to control trouble if it happens

I have loads more i cant remember but any hints n tips wud be very helpful ty

Rae x

Your parents would be absolutely stupid to leave you in a house with 40 other teenagers. The drinking age is 21 and even if you dont like it you should not be drinking And your parents/or the adult in charge can get in alot of trouble. So i would advice you to leave the booze out of the party. And 40 drunk teens are not pretty and what do you think their parents would say? They would not be very happy with you or your family.

You should have your parents in the house even if they stay up in their room. Becuase what if something goes wrong and you dont know how to deal with the situation? The only reason you dont want your parents there is because either the friends you guys are going to have over/the booze. Its your parents house and they can choose to stay there if they would like and if you dont want to listen to them then they are obvoisly not going to let you have the party. You can nicely ask your parents if they can leave for a few hours so you can be alone with your friends. Explain to them how the party is going to go. Leave them a list of all the people that are going to be at the party.And lastly show them that you are responsible (doing chores, helping your parents out, getting good grades, cleaning the house after your party)

Well for the food i would just go out and get a load of snakcs like finger food. (pizza bagels and rolls, pigs in a blanket, chips and dip, etc...)For drinks ( alot of 2 liter sodas, and get juice for the people that don't drink soda )

i wouldnt be worried about the party getting boring. Just keep music playing the entire time. If any one you know has a kareoke machine, you guys can do kareoke contest. Have everyone bring a bunch of cd's of their own.

Just tell your neighbors that you are turning 15 and that you are throeing a party and that there will be loud noice till about __ oclock. Most neighbors will be understanding and allow you make the noice. But some neighbors are complete bitches and will call the cops on you even though you gave them a warning. ( and trust me the cops will come in someone calls them. It has happened to my family )

If your parents say no to the party then just explain that to your friends. And then maybe get together some where else just cut the amount of people to about 15-20. But if some people dont get over it you will have to understand that because you shouldnt have told them about the party till your parents said yes.\

But happy early birthday and have fun.
kim:)

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how do i get two pictures into one picture slot on Myspace???

i rate generously.

http://whateverlife.com/picturecaption.php

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how can you get eyeliner (on the BOTTOM lid) to stay on all day? it basically dissapears halfway through the day,

Liquid eyeliner works wondderful. I love it.

I could never fine anything other the liquid eyeliner that would actually stay on all day. And trust me i have tried alot of different brands.

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hey i need some one to talk to you kno what im saying like a friend im a really nice guy im 16 mixed with black and white but yea skip that all i wont to no is will any one on here be my friend some one to talk to in the time of need and if you have a myspace that will be even better for me so just plz ladies get back at me plz and im from McKinney

ill be your friend.

WWW.myspace.com/wishexisted

kim:)

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after i have had sex with my ex why does she walk all funny

It hurts when a guy puts his penis into and girl vagina.

God i wish people would use their damn head.

kim:)

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OKay, so about....3 or four weeks ago i slept with a guy...at a party. We used protection, and he didnt actually...'come'
but, ive now skipped my period...its like a week late and i am really worried i am pregnant. should i give it a few more days...or should i take a test and find out?
Also, if i am pregnant...what can i do? do abortions cost money?
thank you so much for your help

I dont believe in abortions at all so sorry if abuot to sound like a bitch. First off if you have sex you have to except any of the consequences. And pregnancy just happens to be one of them. You sounds really young because you did not ask this question as if an Young adult would have and you used "come" instead of "cum" or any other proper word.

i wouldnt worry about being pregnant just yet. Wait about another week then take a pregnancy test to see if you are actually pregnant. if so i beg you to seek other options. There are so many women and families that would love to have a child. So if you are consider putting the child up for adoption.

kim:)

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girls with a shaved vagina ? i know alot of girls do it but what do they prefer ? do any of them like it hairy ?

HOneslty WHy do people ask this question? It doesnt matter what people on this site think. Its what you and guy you are doing sexual things with likes.

kim;)

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I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions? Movies, Jet Game, ANYTHING? Also tips on how to act when we're together so I'm not annoying but I'm cute...

This is cute by the way. Well Maybe a group of friends can go

bowling - Act like you cant bowl and be like show me the correct way and usually he'll stand close too you. And get excited alot. If you get a gutter laugh it up seriously.

Mini golf - is just fun in general.

Throwing a party would be very awesome.

Those are probly my best guesses if i think of anything else ill deff. add some

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How often do mail-in-rebates go according to plan?

If I purchase a Motorola Razr cellular phone from TMobile's website, can I trust the likelihood of the rebate? Or would you advise against it?

Yes they work and they always send you the money back.

I didnt by a cell but when i bought my computer i sent in the mail in rebate and they sent the check back. It takes a month or a little less. so if you send it in and dont get it back right away just wait a little while if its been more then a month just call the company.

hope this helps
kim

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im 13/f
i wear flip flops everyday
and theres tan lines on my feet
my feet are getting darker but theres like a white line
how do i get my feet back to the regular color

well the common sense thing would be to stop wearing flip-flops. And if you say you still want to wear them then use one of the self tanners they have out now. Or you can simple wait because winter will be here soon and you probly wont be wearing flip-flops all that much.

hope i helped
kim:)

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Heyy y'all :D

I'll get right to it -
lets say there was a list of 10000 different classes you could take, everything from cooking to selfdefense, what class would you take? ölike, what would you actually ENJOY doing (not like math and physics haha) what seminar would you willingly go to, to hear about a class..

so basically, if you could invent a class that doesn't exist what would it be?
or have you ever been to some kind of class that you would love to go to again or even have as a real class in school??

Well im taking Archaeology in highschool and i absolutely love it. And if any one goes to a highschool that happens to over it i would highly reccomend it.

kim:)

EDIT: Well we just started in the field. The field we are digging at i believe was burned down around the 1600's. Right now we prepping everything so we can get ready to dig. Me and two other girls are using the metal detector and going around and placing flags where there is silver, gold, or iron. And you should see the field its like amazing how many flags we have in the ground like atleast 200 so far. I love the class because im excited to find out what their life was like then. And as of right now the only thing we have actually found that stands out is two Cellar pits & and the hearth ( the fireplace). But its very excited and i hope we find something goood.

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i basically made plans to have sex friday night..well he is always complaing about how he dosent want a bloody dick.and im not sure if my cherry is popped or not.
he fingerd me once but im still not sure how to tell if it is popped.cuz some people say that you dont bleed..but it did hurt alot..
if it isnt popped..how do i pop it..without having sex?

Honestly if he is ready to have sex with you then he shouldnt care if there is blood or not. If thats what is stopping him from wanting to have sex with you then he is really immature because the majority of girls that have sex for the first time have their cherry popped. so he'll have to get over it. Or just dont have sex with him.

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what are the chances of getting pregnant the first time you have sex? are they less than if you've had sex before?

You can Get pregnant every single time you have sex. It doesnt matter if its your first time or your 50 time having sex. Use protection.

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if a book normally sold new as sixty dollars sells for one cent on ebay.. is there a trick? i may as well buy it for 43 dollars on amazon..

yes like the people low said you really really have to watch who you are bidding and buying from on ebay. Look at there rate percentage anything higer then 98% is usually alritght but read the negative feedback. Like if the feedback said never got the item or damaged condition when recieved. that would be a sign to not bid on that persons merchandise. Usually when something starts out as .01 theres either something wrong with it or its just what the seller wanted it as. And usually the .01 cent is starting bid not buy me now. Also People on ebay are stupid. Like the book that sold for $60 at a book store someone would bid to $100 for it on ebay. Just read the the sellers feedback and the entire description on the product.

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i heard that if a condom was used properly it would work like 98 per cent...i'd just dont know how to use the condom properly since iam goin to have sex wiz my girl next week...so can give me some tips perhaps a site where i can see a visual scene to show me how to use properly coz i am afraid of gettin broken and my girl get pregnant.
tanx for help
justin R5''

http://www.engenderhealth.org/wh/fp/ccondpic.html

kim:)

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