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cherry
i basically made plans to have sex friday night..well he is always complaing about how he dosent want a bloody dick.and im not sure if my cherry is popped or not.
he fingerd me once but im still not sure how to tell if it is popped.cuz some people say that you dont bleed..but it did hurt alot..
if it isnt popped..how do i pop it..without having sex?
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Stop trying to fix yourself dear. This isn't really a problem and you shouldn't be allowing your boy to make it one.
There are certain realities of the human body, like stubble growing when you shave, people smelling when they sweat, or needing to use the bathroom when they drink too much. Those are just the basic facts of anatomy, and you shouldn't be ashamed of them.
If your cherry pops there will likely be some blood, that is just a fact, no way to get around it. If he wants to have sex with you he is going to have to accept that simple human aspect of it: the chance there might be some blood involved. If he can't deal with that, he isn't ready for all the other much scarier realities of sex either.
You are a woman. Women bleed down there sometimes for a few reasons. If he likes women, tell him to suck it up and deal.
As has already been pointed out, if he uses a condom there wont be any blood right on him anyways.
Once more, and say it with me: This is not your problem, this is his problem. Tell him to fix it.
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If he wears a condom like he should then there won't be any...but you should not be having sex with anyone that thinks that your virginity is something to complain about. What an immature jerk! Your virginity is special and so are you. Don't waste any sexual experience on someone that does not appreciate and love you 100%!!! Wait awhile and you will have no regrets. Better guys always come along...that is a promise!!!
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Honestly if he is ready to have sex with you then he shouldnt care if there is blood or not. If thats what is stopping him from wanting to have sex with you then he is really immature because the majority of girls that have sex for the first time have their cherry popped. so he'll have to get over it. Or just dont have sex with him.
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