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i DONT like him
wierd question but how do you hint to a guy you DO NOT like him.... there was a guy that i used to like and he knew but he thinks i still like him. how do i imply to him that i dont like him anymore, but not be mean or rude... i wanna be friends, and i want him to know that we will never be more than friends.
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You just need to talk to him about it. Just let him know you only like him as a friend now - nothing more. You're not trying to be mean or rude or anything, you just feel he should know so he's not sitting there thinking you are anymore so it's not as awkward. Maybe start it out that way. Just be like,"Have you noticed our friendship has sort of gotten awkward lately? I've been talking to some people, and they say it's because you still think I like you. Not to be rude or anything and burst your bubble, but I don't, lol. :P" and just play it off as a joke. And just let him know you want to remain good friends. I hope I helped.
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tell him "look, I'm sorry, I don't "like" like you anymore, and I'm sure you'll fine the right girl some day but I just want to be friends. I'm sorry"
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Talk to him...tell him that you value his friendship but that you would prefer not to be anything more than friends as you would hate to ruin the bond you have with each other. If you explain it to him and tell him you still want to be friends then i am sure he will understand.
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I think you need to tell him that you really value his friendship and would be reluctant to jeopardise that friendship by becoming more intimate.
If you play up the fact that you really like him as a friend you avoid the possibility of hurting him with rejection.
Try pointing out the positives of friendship, for example if you were to date and then finish, you would lose him as a friend altogether.
Hope this helps - good luck.
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