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My ex recently came back into my life and I admit that I do have strong feelings for him. He also said that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. He said that I was on his mind alot and thats why he felt he had to find me. Things keep happening like fate wants us to be. If I do decide to talk to him again, it will be a risk because he do have a past behind him because he's a bad boy. I still want to be with him in a way. We both said we will take it slow to see what will happend. So do you think that I should give it a try because I think fate is bringing us together for a reason, I just need to hear it from someone else.
I think it matters what you think, If you still love him and you think its going to work out thats all that matters. Your best bet is to try it out and see if he's the guy you want to be with for a while and if he is then thats great and if hes not then well you should break up with him and you guys can be friends and maybe it will work later on when u get older :D
I have this friend at school and I really like him. I never liked him before but the feelings are there. Alot of other girls like him so now I feel like "just one of the club". What should I do?
~Kelly
kelly,
If you like him there should be somthing special about him not just his looks but probley somthing within. My advice is to get to know him be his friend. And your relationship will move up slowly. And dont worry it will work out one way or another.
well im really good friends with this guy and i like him a lot because were so close and similar and i think we both like eachother and we talk about everything but he always asks out other girl who turn him down, doesnt he know that im righ tin front of him and were perfect for eachother how can i help him see that?
Flirt, Flirt is the key word here. If you to are good friends just ask him out tell him how you feel or ask one of his other friends to ask for you. And Flirt :D
There's this boy at school that I like. Him and another girl are semi-dating but I've heard rumor that he likes me. Also, one of my close friends asked him over AIM and he said yes. I don't really want to make a move because I'm afraid of rejection. What should I do?
Well it's tought. I know I've had the same problem before if he's your friend maybe you should talk to him get to know him better. when he breaks up with his semi girlfriend make your move if he says no dont worry that means hes not good enought for you. Dont worry about it I'm sure thers about 20 people at your school who wish you were their girlfriend.
Hi i am 13 and i can not figure out what to get my boyfriend... he has already gotten me a ift but i dont know what to get him???? what would you give to uyour boyfriend if you were in my spot???
Well what are his hobbies intrests, maybe you should put a picture frame of all the memeries you guys have together. A memory, might work to. I'm sure ur creative. :D
Dear American Girl,
I have this friend that I used to be really close with. Anyways, there are alot of girls that like him as more then a friend. He's just my friend and he'll probobly never be more then that (because I like this boy at school) but it still is weird because I NEVER get to hang out with him anymore. What should I do to avoid all the girls who like him?
Well tell him that you feel unconfortible with all this girl looking at him and flirting with him and stuff. And ask if you to can just have some alone time as friends. He is one of your best friends I'm sure he'll be open to the idea.
I know someone who is really big on theater just as I am, but I don't think she likes me very much. I have tried talking to her, but she doesn't listen. What should I do?
I love THEATER! Well if she doesn't like you after you tried to be friends with her maybe you should find somone else with the same intrest. Maybe even a girl/boy what ever gender you are. And maybe since you have the same intrest well maybe it will work out ;).
what are some really good ways to get a guy to really like you? and don't just say flirt and be yourself i want like really good ways of flirting and things to do with them and just anything that is really helpful. Thanks I will rate you if it is good.
Well, do you know any of his friends? Do you have a brother? I know my brother always helps me out when I have a crush. And if you dont have a brother one of his friends mite help you out if you know him well enough.
im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~
Well my advice is for you to ask your crush some questions. You know to make yourself feel more grounded. If you want a boyfriend and still you think you dont have a chance with him I'm sure theres lots of boys out there who want a girlfriend and to scard to admit it to you even. Rember you have a long long life a head of you you dont have to rush. :D
I'dating this boy, I really liked him about 2 days ago. Now I don't. What do I do?????????????
* I'm really bad at breaking up with ppl too
They same thing just happend to me. I like this guy when he asked me out but I dont anymore. Next time your with him try to be flirty and see if he still likes your if he doesnt let him down easy oh my mom doesn't like the idea of me dating you or somthing like that.
I have chlostrophobia and my parents don't really know. Is this something i should ask my doctor about or is it just something normal?
Plz help. I keep having moments where i can't breath.
Well I think you should talk to your parents about it, it could be serious! You dont want die and the worst thing ur parents could do is help :D. So if you talk to them they will probely call a doctor and get it fixed.