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well the other day when my friend slept over it was time to put our pj's on and i usually go into the bathroom to get changed and my friend just started to take it all of in front of me and i got nervous so i went to the bathroom.....does that mean anything?? like did she want to see me naked or somthing?? because she is usually a private person about that stuff

signed confused?

i rate 5's for GOOD answers

PS im a girl

..No she dont want you to see her..She is a girl and you are a girl..So she thought you would be confortable with her changing in there..She trusted you wouldnt look..But she thought you wouldnt just ignore it but you got unconfortable..So if she tries to do it again just turn around and pretend like nothing happen`..Hope i helped`

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Hey

..If you got a shot recently than you will not need it..But if you havent im sorry to say you will need it..Hope i helped`

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Is it weird for an African-American girl to say things like "Dude", "Narley", "Hot", etc.?

No not at all..That is there taste in what they like to say..And even i f people thing you are weird for saying it..You shouldnt care what other people think of you..You are your own person..Hope I helped`

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I would like to reward him with a special treat but i don't know any candy this kid likes. do you guys know of anything sweet for a 4 year old? please help! i rate high!

There are many candys you can give a kid at four years old..Kids at for love every candy..Jawbreakers(i wouldnt give them to 4 year olds unless the adult says you can) Candy necklaces..Gum..Lolypops..Sugar Sticks..Sour Patch Kids..Gummy Bears..there are soo many things you can get at any candy store or conviences store..Hope I helped`

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ok, i've recently decided to become a vegitarian, but i was wondering is chicken considered meat, or poultry, and is poultry considered meat? so basically can i eat chicken?

No when you are a vegetarian you cannot eat meat or chicken because you are eatting an animal a chicken and a cow are still animals..Im sorry to say..but hope I helped`

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im 14 and a freshman in high school! i have been going out with this guy for almost a 2 months now and he is moving slow cuase he doesnt want me to dump him with i wont but I Want to makeout with him but i dont want to make that move you no..so how can i like tell him that i want to make out wiht him with out me like just going for it?

its confusing sorry

..Well a guy always likes when a girl makes the first move..But you shouldnt make the first move..Talk to him about things..Tell him that you really think you are ready to take your realationship to the next level..Tell him you think that you are ready to try new things..And just wait until he is ready to do it..If it takes to long just go in there and kiss him..But make sure it is the right timing..Hope i helped`

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how come people call girls sluts if they kiss guys (like me...but i havent done it in over a month)
a slut is someone who has sex w/a bunch of guys!! so how come IM gettin called a slut!?
but im not the only one...some other people i know are getting called sluts too. and its not fair! i dont have sex! how am i a slut? i just dont get girls at all...even tho i am a girl! i just dont get why they do things like this

..They are just jealous of you because most people dont kiss at a young age so they are jealous of you because you are more advanced..N dont worry your not a slut..Hope i helped

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My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend..my paretns got divorced and my dad got marries to my moms best friend..i hate her for doind that...when i want to go places with my dad and my brother she always comes along..i know they are married but how do i tell her i want to be with my dad and brother..or how do i tell my dad?
*helpless*

..Sit down with your dad and just tell him..Say dad i come to see you to spend time with you..not my step mom..but you..i dont feel confortable with her around and i dont want her around i dont mean to be rude..i just want to spend time with you and i dont really like her..and have him sit down and take with all of you guys..hope i helped`

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does anyone know any funny pointless songs?
Ex. (Stacy's Mom, Crazy Frog, Hampster Dance, Etc.)
Just any funny songs that you could laugh at, know any?

..Ahaha i have some of them songs on my ipod..
Shoop-Salt N Peppa
Push It Real Good-Salt N Peppa
Holla Back Girl-Gwen Stafani?
Barbie Girl-Aqua
there are a lot of funny songs if u just look around and listen to funny songs orr even ask your parents..its usually the old songs that are funny`

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anybody know of any firming lotions that actually work??....ive heard of ones that firm up ur skin n looks like it makes ur legs or w\e smaller by just applying...but im doubtful that it works...anybody have any comments about it thanks in advance!!

Well I know Dove has a reli good lotion out there for people..So id fine a dove lotion in a store..hope i helped`

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i have a boyfriend and i luv him so much and i never want 2 let him go but i dont think he knos how much i do luv him..how could i tell him?

..Well start by tellin him that you reli care about him..and you think you are ready to tell him you love him..and you want to be more serious and that stuff..hope i helped`

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13/f Ive played basketball for 5 yaers but this is diffrent i realy wanna make the JV squad and lets just say since last season ended in March ive done alot if couch sitting and junk food eating...what can i do to get back in to shape...tryouts are November 4th

Try running a mile a day..drink a lot of water and eat a lot of healthy foods..also excirse a lot`..hope i helped`

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i'm a 15 year old girl who is friends w/ this guy whose turning 16 in a week. i dont know him that well, but he invited me 2 his party. what should i get him? (i can spend like $30)

..Well most guys usually dont like gifts..Usually well all my guy friends and me..All like money so just give him some money and a card..Hope i helped`..

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I have a boyfriend for about 3 months now. For the past 1 and 1/2 months I have realized I dont really like him anymore. Every time Im out I always check out and flirt with all the guys. The only reason I have been going out with him is because I have someone to go to the movies and someone who will spend their money on. Am I wrong? Should I break up with him and if so how would I do it?
I will rate high!!

..Well I Wouldnt Say You Are Wrong..
But That Is Pretty Mean..He Must Like You A Lot If He Spends Money On You..But Its Okay You Arent Mean..And Yes You Should Break Up With Him..Dont Be So Blunt About It Though..Just Be Like I Really Think That We Should Take A Break For A Little Bit And See Other People..I Just Dont Feel The Way I Used To Feel..But I Really Wanna Be Friends With You..N Just Say You Are Sorry And Stuff..Hope I Helped`

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Hey, I'm Rae! Well, I recently got into the band HAWTHORNE HEIGHTS! I really love that band! I became an instant fan after hearing one song! Lol! Well, I wanted to know what other bands are like Hawthorne Heights? I really love Hawthorne Heights and want to know other bands like them! Thanks so much! - Rae.

..I Love Hawthorne Heights expecially "Ohio Is For Lovers"
But Other Music That Is Similar To Them Can Be
Blink 182
Sum 41
Simple Plan
Good Charlotte
The Used
The Killers
Green Day
Dashboard Confessional
Papa Roach
My Chemical Romance
The All-American Reject
..Hope I Helped..
Hit Me Up In The Inbox If You Need More`

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What are some really good love songs? My boyfriend is in the Navy..so I'm looking for some songs maybe dealing with love apart. Or missing somebody. Thank you!

You And Me By LifeHouse

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This may sound disgusting, but my pee is hardly yellow at all and its really freaking me out. Please!!! help!!

..Your pee isnt always yellow..Sometimes it dependes on what you drink..I know someone who drank something green (green tea) and had green pee..Also how bad you have to urine..So your fine..Hope i helped`

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i need to find a new bedspread. my mom told me to look online but i cant find any i really like. i already looked at www.pbteen.com and all the department stores i can think of. does any one know where i can find a cute bed spread? 15/f

..JCPenny..Target..Walmart..Filences..Limited Two..Hope I helped`

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ok heres the deal, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months, and in the past week, i havent talk to him, so i talked to this boy lets call him "john" and he called me everynight out of that week and we stayed on the phone till like 6 in the morning and hes so my type, and he likes me, and i know i like him back, last night he told me i love you, and i told him it back, and hes on vacation right now so i wolt talk to him till monday, and the two people i trust the most one told me, that i should leave my boyfriend and go out with john,the other one told me to follow my heart,i dont know what my hearts saying, i tried so hard to let him know how i feel, but all he wants is to be together becuase he said he likes me more then this one girl he went out with and he liked her ALOT, and hes not a very good boyfriend, he doesnt call me, i never see him, the last time i heard his voice was at least two weeks ago, and i feel like ive cheated on him cause i told john i love you back, but i tell alot of people i love you, but i think i really ment it when i told john, i seriously like love him,hes everything ive ever wanted, he tells me how pretty i am out of no where, he listens when i half soemthing to say, hes there for me when im upset, and hes so sweet,we've never gotten in a fight, he said dont break up with your boyfriend until your ready and ill get my chance, but the thing is, i dont know when the time is right how im going to break up with my boyfriend, he thinks we can work on everything, i feel so bad, did i really cheat on my boyfriend?, ive never cheated on my boyfriend before, please help me, i dont know where to turn, and i dont know what else to do, thanks so much

..I dont mean to be mean at all..but you really need to make your questions shorter..They take to much time to read..Well maybe yo0u should tell your boyfriend how you feel and just talk to him..Hope i helped..`

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ok, well i really care about someone and have strong feelings for them. I feel like I don't want anyone in the world but him. We dont really talk much, alls i can say to him is "hi" and he'll say "hi" back. He knows i like him but he doesnt like me. I really want to talk to him, but i'm scared mostly of what he'll say back. what should i do?

..Well this is a situation everyone goes through in there life..So i can relate to you execpt I liked a girl..(ima guy)..Ok..Well..First you just need to start converstation with him..Dont wait for him to start somethin..Talk to him about stuff and just complaiment him..And just become friends with him..See how things go from there..This might take a little bit of time though..But it is well worth it..But it thinks done really work, than im sorry to say but you should try to move on..I no its hard but you would have to at least try..Hope i helped..If you have anythin to say hit up the inbox`

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