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Hi!My name is Melissa.I'm from G.I. New York.I love being able to help people and giving advice.I'm usually the person who people come to for advice and i'm always glad to be there for them.If you just wanna talk or if you want advice you can IM me.UnLuckyWishes3.I'm really into sports and love to play basketball.I play JV voleyball and Varsity track.

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okay i like this guy and he likes me. well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but 2 days after, were already broken up ! he said he needs to get to know me better and i totally agree no hard feelings there but what i dont get is why cant we get to know each other by going out? i asked him why he asked me out and then broke up but he said "i jus dont think i really know u well enough" or does he not want to go out and thats why he said that, but like after that hes like i still like u but i jus wanna get to know u better maybe wen school starts. and the day after i seen him at the movies and i waved and smiled--so did he and i knew i liked him alot. do you think we eventually will go back out ? or do you think he jus doesnt like me even though he said he did ..

Yea i definatly think you'll out again.I mean thats really smart on his part because it shows he wants to have a relationship with someone he connects with or knows really well.This guy sounds like a really good person.hope i helped.

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Ok I was having a convo online with a person i adore and I had my BEST friend EVER over.. I asked him if he liked me as a friend."Hell no" If he was my friends "HELL ya"She asked him Who would he rather go out with (My friend Only likes him as a friend..)He said Tori My friend..
She asked him who was prettyer ME ! But he HATES me Not just a little hate i mean HATE..I dont know what i should say to him ! :(

Let him know that you want to be friends and you dont want him to hate you.Just maybe keep talking to him online and find out more about him or have Tori talk to him and let him know that you dont like the fact that he hates you and you wanna be friends.hope i helped.

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I am a theater freak. Recently I tried out for the play 'Aladdin'. But, I found out today I didn't get the part I want, and I got a small part instead. All my friends got cool parts like the Genie, Aladdin, Jasmine, the main parts. I feel really rejecting, I've never got rejected from a part I wanted before...

Dont worry about it,everyone 's gonna have good and bad luck.Try and look on the bright side, you got a part even though it is small and its just another experience through theater.Sometimes you cant always get what you expected but make the best out of it.Hope i helped and dont worry maybe you'll ge tit next time just keep trying to be positive.

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I LOVE basketball, it's almost like my life. I love playing, even though I'm not that good. My new school started practices today, and they are making the cut next week. So far we have 15 girls, but we can only have 18. School starts next week which will mean more competition. I'm really nervous, because I'm not horrible but when scrimmaging/playing in a game, i get really nervous and I lose my head. I mess everything up. I really want to make this team. Does anyone have advice to help me get better and focus? THX

If you have a basketball net in your driveway practice a whole bunch of drills.I made my schools team last year and i went to a camp this summer that showef me drills i should do before i try-out and basically just to help me alot.Take a basketball and you know how people circle it around thier waist without it touching thier body well try to run whiling doing that.I knwo it sounds stupid but it helps alot.Even just simple things jump shots, lay-ups, reverse lay-ups,foul shots.Then maybe ask a sibling ,parents or friend or something to help you practice passes, guarding,blocking out.I know it sounds really dumb and simple but when you hjave everythnig perfect adn put it all together thats al you need to know so when your in a scrimmage just remember its only simple things.hope i helped.

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okei well my left boob hurts rele bad my mom says its just gittign bigger but it hurts to run n jump n im very athletic.. n ther is a lumpin there i was wonderin if that happens to everyone.. and i was wonderin if ppl can notice if on boob is bigger cuz i can tell one is but idk if others can
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If you have a lump on your breast it could be a sign of breast cancer.I just went to my doctors about a week ago and she told me i have to start checking for lumps on my boobs, basically giving myself a breast exam, and if there is it could be a sign of breast cancer.Definatly go have that checked out to be safe.Hope i helped and everything gets better.

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What does it mean when your breasts are sore around your nipple area?! Does it mean they are growing? I'm 13, female. My breasts are already a C! So I thought I'd ask about this. Please help

It usually means your growing or you have your period soon.I know this sounds really weird but if you see darker colored lines on your breasts there strech marks and you definatly know there's going to be a fairly big grow spert. your pry just a fast grower.i'm 13 and mines a C too.lol.hope i helped.

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umm.. dont think im stupid for asking this but i just wanna be safe and sure. if a girl is on birth control, does the guy still need to wear a condom wen they do it?

Yea the guy should definatly wear a condom i mean its not likely you',ll get pregnant but there is always that chance.And birth control cant stop you from getting STD's.hope i helped.

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okay well i have 3 best friends one is emily i've had for 3 years and the other two brittany and meghyn and i spent the night with meghyn and brittany this weekend, and emily is always like your ditching me.. sometimes i feel like i have more fun with brittany and meghyn then emily well see meghyn and brittany are popular and brittany is in my class so we hang out alot.. so hanging out with them makes me popular but emily is not so popular... what do i do about it? me and emily are good friends but sometimes it gets annoying we have been best friends for 3 years.. what do i do? mods please dont delete i really need help.

I know emily doesnt fit in with your other two friends but sometimes try adn niclude her in the things you do and then other times just hang out with them at least this way your showing her that you like her and all but sometimes you just gotta hang out with them.And let her know your not ditching her just sometimes you just need to hang out with them.Hope i helped.

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ok well i cut and stuff but i really want to tell my mom about it because i meen i want to get help but i just was wondering like how could i like talk to her about it? me and my mom are like really close and stuff but i think it would like kill her! should i tell her or no?

yea you should defiantly tell her.I mean i think not telling is worse then telling her.Hope i helped.

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I have a friend and me and her have been friends sense 4th grade we're in the 8th now , but lately she has been thinking that every single one of her exboyfriends likes me. I keep telling her that its not true, but she still thinks it. I dont want her mad at me over something like this. Its not like I like them back is what I tell her. What should I do?

I know it'll pry get annoying but just whenever she says that just reisure her that you dont like them, so dont worry.Or just talk to her and ask why do you think all your old boyfriends like me.Maybe thats how she deals with break-ups.you should definatly talk to her and let her know that u dont want to get into a fight or have her mad @ you over something stupid like that and lose your friendship.hope i helped and everything works out!

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okay see my boyfriend lives in georgia and i live in new jersey he so far away... im 13 and he turning15 ... we like each other so much but no one really aproves since we met on the computer and he lives in georgia .. we wanna meet but its a lil hassle ... wat should i do... should i stay with him and meet him or wat?

If he makes you happy then you should stay with him.Meet up with him if you can but go with a group of friends because you never know what can happen.Hope i helped and everything works out.

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hi. i dont have a boyfriend and i want one and ive never had one bc im ugly. ive been really sad lately bc i want one. i feel lonely .. what should i do?? =(

Be more confident you may think your ugly but other perople pry dont.Be more positive because if people hear you say your ugly and if you act liek it and your all sad whats fn is that.Just go out adn have fun and take your mind of gettign a boyfriend because most of the time you shouldnt go looking for things let what your looking for find you.It seems to help me.hope i helped.

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i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!!

I think you should break up with your boyfriend to get you feelings sorted out.it's really not fair to your b/f if you still someone else too and its not fair to you because your going out with someone and you like someone else and there could be something between you and the other guy.After a while you can ask your b.f to go back with you or go out with your friends brother.Hope i helped and it all works out.

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i don't like myself. is that normal? like are there other people out there who don't like themselves either? i dunno, i just am having a really tough time and i'm liking myself less and less and less. please help me. i just feel so out there and wierd.

yea its perfectly normal.It happens to the best of us.i just went through it and i still dont like myself and think why am i even here butdont worry its normal for everyone ot go through.

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ive never had a b/f and im 13 but all of my friends have and they make me mad cuz they always say how great it is 2 have one but i dont like the guys at my skool cuz they judge me on how i look wut should i do 2 get a nice cute guy 2 ask me out?

Try and find a nice a guy who your interested in and talk talking with become friends.My brother and his friends usually fall for the girl like that.and it works pretty well for me too.Dont worry about if you have a b/f i know tons of girls who dont have no or havent had one and thier the same age.hope i helped.

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hi im in 9th grade right and on fri this boy asked me if i got back. which i have no idea what that meanslol. i know pathetic. but i didnt wanna sound like a complete moron so i said yes i have back and uh he got all happy lol. so my question is what does baby got back mean lol?

It's you got a big booty.He pry used it from the song "Baby Got Back".This guy sounds like a retard or a perv.

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Ok...
I am 13 years old and i look 17
boys like my body i hate it
i dress like a guy and guys (i talk to) think its hott


am i weird or what?

Your defiantly not weird.I know you may hate it but alot of girls pry wish could they be you.you could just be naturally pretty and there's really isn't anything you can do.sorry.Hope i helped.

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ok.. Ive been going out with this guy for a while and i just talked to his best friend and told me hes been cheating on this other girl with me.. I have heard her name b4 from his brother and i asked his best friend if that was the name and he said yeah, i really dont wanna lose him, but the bad part about it is i lost my virginity to him and he said he lost it to me, well his best friend told me out of the blue that he wasnt a virgin.. I don't know what to do, i actually fell for him and i know he is going to give me an excuse or make up a lie when i go and try to break up with him !! I dont know what to do!!!I will rate 5's for the effort!!!

Sit him down ask him to tell you the truth and if you know he's not tell him you've even asked around they said that you have and say it aggresivly.i tihnk you should break up with him you dont deserve to be cheated on adn dont listen to his dumb excuse and let him know you deserve beeter then him and you can.Hope i helped and good luck!

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I'm on my high school cross country team and we've been having practice everyday since early august. Well anyway, a few days ago, i saw this really pretty girl that i didn't recognize. So i went up to her and asked her if she was new to the school district and she sed yes. I introduced myself to her and tried to make her feel at home. I figured that if I made her feel at home, we could become friends and maybe more. She's really nice and i like her alot. What should I do now?

Try and keep in touch with her and become good friends.Like hang out and see how she likes it there.Maybe talk about who she likes or if she has a boyfriend.If you think she might like you or if she's dropping hints, ask her out if you think its the right time.Hope i helped and everything works out!

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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem?

Your period changes over the years.Like when you get it.It's happened to me a couple times and i got mine in 5th grade and i'm in 8th grade now.Wait about two weeks to see what happens and if it doesnt just have her mom or dad take her to the doctors just be safe.If she started doing alot of physical activities or stopped doing them that could also be why or if she's been eating differently.Dont worry too much , it's actually pretty common, but make sure she's keeping an eye on how its going.Hope i helped.

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