Hi,
I'm a 16 year old guy and live in New York. I was just bored a few weeks ago and signed up for "flirtbox"(www.flirtbox.com), I came across this girls profile who lives in the Netherlands(pictures werent very clear, but she seemed cool and open minded), and she liked traveling. She was the same age as me so I sent her a message. We started chatting back and forth, and she says she's really into the Indian culture(I'm American Indian), so we hit it off, talking about school and what we're studying...
so then, she gives me her MSN(no facebook, she said she didn't have one and I was very skeptical..), but we talked on MSN a lot, and then she asked if I had "Viber", I said no but I googled it, its an iphone app where smartphones can call other smartphones for free(its through the internet), so we exchanged numbers.
we started chatting, and yes, she is a real girl and she sent me more pictures...she's really into me, and I'm really into her. It's not just the personality part, she's really attractive(shes russian and Kurdish) and she thinks im good looking too. we've really hit it off, and we've now been talking for a few weeks(almost calling each other every day, but theres a 6 hour time difference...) we were talking about how we wanted to meet, but she's in school and I'm in school, and we're both 16...so it's not like I can just get a plane ticket for the Netherlands and fly over there next week to see her. we both really want to keep this relationship going, we talk about so many personal things, there are things I've told her that ive never told any girl that ive met in real life(and she does the same thing with me), sometimes I wake up at 7 AM on a saturday just to wake up and talk to her on the phone for hours because of the time differnce. shes open minded and flirty and just perfect...
Assuming it's a real girl(i know it is for a fact, we've even video chatted thru face-time), how do I go about this relationship...?
Relationship standards are based on upon you and your partner's ideals, not a social perspective of what a relationship should be like. What I'm trying to say is that, if you want to have a long distance relationship with a girl who lives in a different timezone, you have to make sure you set your priorities straight. It might be hard to go see her now, but if you're really dedicated to making the relationship work, why don't you keep focusing on school in the meantime, get a parttime job, and save up for a plane ticket there (assuming you have the freedom to do so). If you don't, I wouldn't advise such a relaltionship, if you value physical contact with one another. If you're okay with just talking online and on the phone, then that's perfectly fine, and you might as well call that your relationship. Don't let society's standards define your relationship, you define what you want for yourself.
Hope everything works out for you. Best of luck.
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I text my boyfriend everyday, and call him at most once a day. Is that considered clingy? We hardly hang out. I have a job, I go to school & I friends. When I want to call him or hang out he doesn't want to. He acts like I get on his nerves sometimes.We have mutual friends and I hear that he tells them that I always want his attention. It hurts my feelings when he doesn't want to talk to me sometimes, I get paranoid. I don't think that I'm always up under him, but some days he wants to be with me and we're happy. Other days he treats me like I'm an annoying little sister sometimes. Am I being clingy?If I am I don't wanna lose him, so how do I work on staying "not-clingy"?
I don't really think you're clingy. If anything your boyfriend doesn't seem well invested in the relationship as much as your are. I think it's perfectly normal to call your significant other at least once a day. I mean, just the attempt in calling once a day seems to be fine. He could at least have the decency to pick up and tell you a little bit of something before he has to attend back to his business. Tell him you like to hear from him through phone a lot because of your busy schedule. You need to talk to him because it'll just get worse from this point. I mean, he shouldn't even be telling people that he thinks you want his attention too much. Hope everything works out for you.
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ok so i have a bf that i really like but i like another guy and i know he likes me but we are really good friends im just so confused i have alot of things going on right now oh and my bf sister is best friends with my sister so if we break up my sis and his sis will be mad at me so o yaeh im female
Just think about it this way. You gotta worry about you and how you feel because it's you feeling the relationship, not your sister or your current boyfriend's sister. I always say choose the second guy because if you really liked the first that much, you wouldn't be looking at the second. Weigh out your pros and cons of each guy and see which one is worth taking the risk for. That's what I would do. You aren't your sister and you don't have her problems, you are you and you need to worry about your problems. So if you think choosing the second guy will work out better in the long run for you, then go for it! Good luck and hope you pick the right guy.
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Anybody know how to flirt with a guy? I'm 14 years old, freshman, I barely know how to talk with a guy. It's not so easy for me. I want to know how to be naturally funny and amazing to talk to. I can do that with my friends but not with my crush. Help?
Naturally funny can only come once you're comfortable. Now, I don't mean comfortable around the person, more like comfortable in your environment. Making him laugh is one of the keys that guys find attractive in a girl. Laughing relaxes anyone, so once he can feel relaxed and happy around you, I'm sure he way pay more attention to you. Maintain eye contact with whomever he is. Make fun of them, tease them verbally and playfully but be witty about it. Always keep the conversation going and seem interested in their life and what they have to say. You'll know you like them back too if you truly are interested. The main key is to relax.
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We have two cats - they are a male and female, neutered, and littermates. They have always gotten along well and still do. They are indoor cats only.
The problem is that they view any open box as a potential litterbox. This behavior started about a year ago when we moved from Texas to Colorado. We had to home them with a family member until we got settled, and then they cam to live with us again. Ever since then, we can't leave a box open anywhere. Cardboard boxes or plastic bins, filled with toys or tools or papers... if it's open and large enough to hold a cat, it's a toilet.
We haven't been able to catch them in the act, so I don't know if it's both of them or just one. They have two litterboxes which are cleaned daily and always accessible. They don't pee indiscriminately on furniture or the carpet - it's always in a box of some kind. And it's always pee, not fecal matter. We're planning to take them to a vet to check for UTI, but since they are selective about where they go and it wouldn't be much farther to go to their litterbox, I don't think that's the problem; I think they're doing it deliberately to mark territory.
Any thoughts on how we can get them to stop? We have a toddler and I'm concerned for his health; I don't want him taking toys they've peed on and putting them in his mouth. We are on the verge of returning them to a shelter, but this kind of behavior will virtually guarantee that they won't be re-adopted, so it may as well be a death sentence. If it comes down to protecting my child, though, I'll have to do it.
Talk to your vet. You might have to condition them not to pee in open boxes. Maybe there's something you can place on the boxes to make them repel the area, maybe some kind of spray you can use. It will take some time to condition the cats to not pee on open boxes but eventually they'll learn that the litter box is the place to go.
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her mother is going to prison for a year for a forgery charge. I wonder once she goes if I should take my 13 year old daughter to visit her, but I am not sure I want my daughter to be inside a prison environment
it has nothing to do with her mother, she made some stupid mistakes but she is not a bad person nor was she a bad parent to my child, but it is the envioronment I wonder about
I'm a little confused as to the relationship between you and the girl. First you say her mother and then you say your daughter. Are you talking about the same person?
Also, I personally believe that regardless of situation, any child would want to see their mother. It's any human's maternal instinct to want to know and be close to their mother. And when it comes to visiting, I'm almost sure they do not place visitors with the people of the jail.
You should call the jail ahead of time and ask what the arrangement is like. I'm sure if you explained yourself, they would understand and let you know what the situation is.
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Thank you! And thank you for the compliments this was very helpful in many ways. I actually broke up with him today. His ex is quite happy and I really am happy and hope they go out so I can be out of all the drama he's brought me into. I am probably the first girl to break up with him and hope i make a statement in his life. But, your answer was very helpful. I just have one more question. Not a boy thing but, I want to go to this goveners school and I have to audition in january. I want to try and sing and i hope I do well but, should i contact the school or what? How do I find out what they are looking for? Thank you! And beware!! I will definatly be coming to you for more help!
Thank you for appreciating the advice! I was actually quite unfamiliar with a governor's school until you mentioned it. I did some research and I see it's for students who want to be more artistically challenged, more than what their regular highschool has to offer. From what I read, I can see that governor's schools seem to be quite competitive. Regardless of any school, whether it's a governor's school or not, I'm pretty sure you would need to contact them. They would help the process of getting in easier and they would be able to answer any questions you might have about your audition, application, etc. Also, does the specific school that you want to apply to have a website? Check out their website to find out more information. They should have what you're looking for. Talking to someone who works at the school would be your best bet to finding out more any personalized information to fit your needs. You can always come to me for advice. I'm here to help. Thank you! :)
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I'm a college freshman- I got here a few weeks ago. It's been great except my roomates (im in a triple) are a bit crazy. They drink 5 days of the week, do drugs, and constantly hook up with random people at parties. One of them had sex with a random person the day she moved in. Anyway, I became really good friends with this guy and we ended up hooking up- then we turned into a "thing"- we were always together, talked about everything, and really cared about each other. I went away last weekend and when I came back i found out my roommate (the one who has sex with anything that moves) got drunk and slept with my friend that i almost freaking love! She lied and said they kissed but everyone on my floor knew, and I ended up finding out. He's pretty torn up about it and feels awful, and she doesn't seem to be affected. I cry all of the time and am so hurt and don't even want to look at her face- I can't stay away from him though, because I want to be his friend so bad. We keep having these really intense conversations about how im so devastated and hurt and he apologizes and we both just are so upset. And then he hangs out with my roommate and my friends right in front of me, and then goes into my room to chill just with my roommates. I don't know if he cares of if he doesnt- he only came to talk to me after one of his friends saw me crying and told him. He said to talk to him when I'm ready to "talk" but i keep saying everything i feel and nothing seems to help myself or the situation. I'm so mad at my roommate I can't even go into my room because i dont want to see her. I dont know how to cope or handle the situation. Please help?
Hey there. I'm sorry for what happened to you. Honestly, I don't think you should bother yourself over that guy. First of all, if he were any bit decent, he shouldn't be having sex with a random girl. Same goes for your roommates. I would even want to switch out rooms, if it's not too late or if they're not all filled. Anyway, your roommate has no respect for you clearly and neither does the guy. And that lack of respect was clearly re-emphasized when you said "talk to me whenever you're ready to talk." That just sounds like "ok we'll deal with whatever you're feeling whenever you stop being so hung up over it". Nobody deserves to have a guy like this and since this was the beginning of the relationship, you can imagine what more drama is left to come. And the fact that he didn't even come talk to you means that he wasn't even thinking about you or thinking about how you would feel. He clearly has no affection or liking towards you. He probably used you to get to your roommates because that's just the kind of person he is. I'm sure you have more respect for yourself and the guys you see, and just write him off and let this be a lesson to you. Don't fall for guys who automatically have sex with a random girl. That's not the mentality of a friend or boyfriend you want in your life.
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Hi all, I have been married for 8 yrs to a man that has been hospitalized on and off during this time due to high blood pressure and now kidney failure.He has recently gone back to hospital after not following up medical advice.So this is the thing that l am trying to understand whenever he is admitted to hospital which can sometimes be for up to 2 weeks he never calls to let me now how he is physically or how he is feeling nor me for that matter. When ever l call to speak to him l am put on the phone to a nurse either saying he is not in bed or asleep this has been going on for years we also have 3 children under 7 yrs of age so as his wife l am feeling in the dark we have both discussed this and he just rolls his eyes and walks away. l am so tired of this. Am l wrong to feel this way ? And what do you feel is going on with him Any advice would be great thank you.
No you should not feel like this. You are married. I think emotionally your husband is going through a difficult time. He might even feel like a burden on you and the kids. He might probably be ashamed of the fact that he has to be in the hospital for such various amounts of time. You need to talk to him and ask him why he is being like this. You are his wife and you do have a right to know this information. Let him know that no matter what his circumstances are, they effect you too and that you still love him for it.
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(im a girl and Im 13. My boyfriends 14)
So Im dating this guy and he dumped his ex for me. Which is kinda cute yet kinda mean and scary. So its only been one day weve been dating and I want to trust him. His ex keeps telling me (and a whole lot of people) oh dont date him he's a player and he dumped ____ for me and dumped me for you and now who will be next? and all this non sence. But, I have only known him for 2 weeks. He said I was cute the first day we met while he was dting his ex and I said arnt you dating ____ and he said yes but, its not cheating. Im just calling you cute. and we passed notes all the time and payed 21 questions or would you rather. He said I seemed like a really nice person. He also told me he was gonna break up with his ex due to shes so emotinal and getting her friends to ask him questions. Than like on a thursday his ex came up to me and said people are saying your flirting with my bf. THAN right after that he broke up with her and I didnt even know until the next day. I saw him later that other day out of school but, never spoke to him. Than in 2nd period (the only class we have together)
He asked me if I liked him. course I said yes and he asked me out after class. We hugged than went seprate ways to classes. We sat together at lunch and him and his buddy were making fun of his ex's name (it is kinda... weird) but, I was like *is he going to do that to me?* but I didn't say anything. Than after school we met up & I waited for him at his locker and once he was finished we started walking together.
he was so sweet and asked me, "Hey can i carry your books for you?" and I said yes. Than some 6th graders were in front of us (were in 8th) and he was like " move dammit" than the girl was like asshole and of course I laughed. It was funny. I think he was just trying to make me laugh. But, after I was still laughing and I was like, "your mean." and he just smiled back, "kinda ahaha." so were walking still just chatting and he asked, "so wheres your bus?" I poined and said right there."
He walked me and slowed down about 10 feet away from the bus and leaned over and kinda whispered, "do you mind if I kiss you goodbye?" and of course this is like the most sweetest thing ever that he would ask me that. So I said yes and we kissed. Just a long like 5 second kiss. No tounge just lip. I said bye and smiled my whole way home.
I got dressed up on friday for him but, forgot he wasn't going to be here. He was going to be in court. yes, court. For family issues I believe but, before we started dating he told me he went to court on monday for being caught with alchohl. and No that doesn't scare me or anything because I have had plenty of friends like that who under age drink but, i dont. I said okay and we went on. He sounded kinda shy like he didn't want to tak about it so I said okay and respected his privacy.
But, is he a player or not? His ex said he had a note about me that he said something about how he just wanted to hurt her and date me to do so cause she would care but than my friend kept a note from him that said why he broke up with his ex and because she was really emotinal and thats why (I explained more in the beggining)
So is he? I wanna believe he isn't but I dont know. And he has this best friend where he acts kinda diffrent around me when hes alone. And not by much but he kinda acts like all guyish. (you know, "hey ______ you have a big butt.) Thy said that to me but than i was like thats kinda insulting and he said no its a compliment. Its good. and I was all like sure whatever. and really didn't care. i was suprised cause i really dont have a big butt but whatever.
So please tell me if hes either or and explain why. thanks for reading all of this.
Hi there!
Wow, the fact that you actually question his actions just shows how intelligent you are! I'm glad you asked this question. Here's the thing, I get that you're 13 and you want to experience dating and all that but at this age, you cannot take it so seriously, especially from guys (I know it's hard to believe when you're the one going through it). Anyway, I don't really like how you mentioned your 14 year old "boyfriend". Clearly, from what you said, he has problems already, on his own, with the alcohol case and whatnot. You might have many friends who drink and are underage, but the fact that your "boyfriend" got caught with it, means he was drinking at a place where he should not have been. He should have been smarter than that. And why does he drink in the first place? Why are any of your friends drinking in the first place? To seem cool? I like that you drink, you're very smart for that. I feel like part of the reason why he drinks is because of his family issues. He might not be ready to talk about stuff like that with anyone, but if you can get through to him then maybe he will hold you higher than the other girls he's dated. Anyway, you can't just break up with a girl for a next girl in a matter of a day. That means he didnt really like his ex to begin with. It seems like he's just having girlfriends to show off to his friends that he can get girls. Yeah, he might be attractive, but if his ex says he did the same to her, chances are, it's true. And complimenting on how big your butt is, is quite disgusting. And his friends shouldn't even be "complimenting" you in that way. That is a lack of respect right there. Anyway, please be careful about him. The next girl is probably just waiting in line for her turn. This is my honest opinion. Im really sorry.
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I am a 20 year old female who has a great day life. I go to school, I work part time, I have great friends and a good family. I live at home with my parents to save money while I attend nursing school.
One bump is my mother. My mother is a sometimes functioning alcoholic. She holds a day job but at night drinks to oblivion and is just disgusting. She can't handle her booze at all, she'll go to bars and call me for a ride because she is kicked out of the bar. My mom is in her 50's so it's not normal. Her newest weakness is not making it to the bathroom, she will pee on the FREAKING floor. It's DISGUSTING. She's a mean nasty drunk and I want nothing to do with her.
I love my younger sister and my dad but he works nights and just doesn't realize the extent to which she is sick. During the day, my loving amazing mother comes back (which makes it really hard for me to try talking to her about it) but sometimes I just can't be here and she's just really nasty.
P.S. I really don't want pity or anything and I know many people have things much harder with an alcoholic parent, and I just want to figure out how to go about helping my Mom.
This type of help your mom needs cannot fully come from you. I believe your mom needs professional help so she can see for herself what the problem is. Please let your mother know how she makes you feel when she acts like that.
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Long story short he says he still loves his ex. His ex is fully committed to her boyfriend and she will never get back with him. I told him he needs time to think about all this and he agreed he said he would like some time and that he is still here for me.
In this case ... It is more than likely that he and I will never get back together correct?
I am so heart broken.. I have been on and off crying For the past hour i just feel so stupid and betrayed.
I am 17 and female
Hi there.
I feel your pain. How could your "boyfriend" just tell you he still loves his ex? You have to consider how long you guys were together. That could be a major factor. You also need to think of how you guys got together and what was going on in his life at the time. Those are probably some of his reasons why he broke up with you. You did the right thing by telling him to take some time and decide what you want to do. You also need to let him know that you won't wait for him forever. He needs to realize that his ex has already moved on and he has a wonderful opportunity to do so as well. Maybe he just needs some time to realize that. Anyway, just let him know how you feel about him, but that you wont be around waiting for too long.
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Hi everyone! I'm 12 years old (female) and I started junior high awhile ago.
Today, i've had trouble with this girl and she seems really mad at me. Anyways, I tried saying sorry to her of what I did but it just didn't come up. She's in the same grade as me. I would tell someone she's picking on me, but I CAN'T and I WON'T. I know it would be better for me, but I can't. I can't and I won't.
So I was thinking these options but I don't know which one to choose and I was hoping you can help me choose the right decision for me and tell me what's wrong with the other option:
1.) Home Schooling - I've had home schooling in mind since 4th grade. I was going to talk to my mom about getting homeschooled, but I don't know if I should do this or the other option.
2.) Schedule Change - I was thinking about going to our school principal and have her change my schedule (Yes, i'm able to do that) because I have 2 periods with her, 1 period with her friend (She's in one the girl's periods), and 1 with her other friend (She's also in one of her periods. We have Science and Math together and I just don't want her in them. What option should I choose and why/why not?
Thank you for the help and sorry if this is long I really just need help
-Amy
Hi Amy!
Trust me, down the line, you do not want to miss out on school because of a bully once you're homeschooled.
If you're scared that the bullying will get worse if you tell, you have to realize that regardless of you telling or not telling, it will continue. It's a lose-lose situation.
I completely disagree with the first option because you cannot jut run away from your problems making such a rash decision.
Now with the second option, I would think you would need to tell your pricipal why you want a schedule change. Then you would pretty much have to tell.
Anyway, I suggest none of the options and really trying to make an effort to apologize to the girl. You would be the bigger person for doing so. You do not want to miss out on the potential friends you will make if you lose junior high out completely.
I'm 20 years old and my best friends of today I met in junior high. So please, the bullying will stop once you do something about it. It will make you a stronger person in the long-run.
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My bf and I of 4 years recently broke up cause of my school schedule and every time we make plans it doesn't happen. Well I always told him I could never be his friend cause it makes it impossible to move on cause part of me will always love him. however, lately he's been texting me all the time saying just cause we can't be together doesn't mean he can give me up altogether. I keep telling him I'm not his "buddy" and he always replies with "you don't really have a choice if you don't wanna be friends ignore me " I can't just ignore him though I end up missing him and I do want to talk but I can't just be his friend... What do I do?
You mentioned recently. Well maybe he's trying to test the waters again with you and he's trying to do it pretty casually. I think this time he is trying to actually make plans and hopefully they work. That way you could see that the relationship could have worked out and could possibly continue. It honestly depends on you and what you want to do. If you continue to talk to him, you open a possibilty of getting back together? Is that something you would want? You don't have to downright ignore him if you want to make it clear that you don't want to be friends, but you should just try to busy yourself in such a way that you can't really hang out or if you end up texting him, you can just give him short answers.
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My boyfriend got a phone number from a chick. I found the number and confronted him. He says they only talked on the phone and never spent any time with her. When I called her she stated the same. Was he cheating by getting her number and calling her?
I would be a little concerned but I wouldn't say it's outright cheating. If he tried to hide it from you, then there should be suspicion behind that.
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Can a girl pop a cherry
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it really sucks to see your friends act lovey dovey with their mutual crushes/boyfriends when the furthest your love life has ever gotten is just having crushes (that you don't know are returned). it's just confusing because I don't think it's a fault on my looks.. there's nothing I'd change about my appearance. people with far less looks have been on dates and all that, and I get complimented pretty regularly. not being conceited or anything, just being honest, cause normally when you say you've never been kissed at like 18 you'd think it's cause they're not good looking or something. It just makes me insecure because I really don't know what to think.. I've never seriously been asked out and its not that I'm not friendly or anything, either. I'm just wondering what I'm doing wrong. I have friends who've been doing the whole boyfriend thing since somewhere between ages 11-16. I hung out with some friends today and it was like there were two couples (they're just at the crush stage, though) and I was the odd girl out. we watched a movie and they were like snuggling and it just made me feel sad I've never had anyone like that, when my girl friends have. one of my friends has guys hitting on her all the time, and it's not like she looks like a model or anything, either. it's just frustrating. i told them about how I was still a lip virgin and they said it was a good thing and they wish they could be in my position, but I don't get how. there's nothing fun or good about not being with someone for so long. nothing at all. it really hurts, the times when you just want to kiss someone or someone to just love you in that romantic way. its hard to imagine all those romance movies or movies with any romance being in reality.. it's like I'm missing out on this whole other world. I'm not desperate or anything, though, but if someone genuinely asked me out and I was attracted to them, I'd give them a chance. I'm new to the world of hanging with a lot of guys cause in high school I was kind of the loner who just mixed with different groups of mainly girls. i just started college and i'm now in a group (which feels awesome, I've never been in such a tight nit clique before. I've never felt like I really belonged anywhere before with other people who genuinely wanted to be friends and shared a lot of my weird interests) but apart from the two pairs of "crushes" the two other guys are in relationships and then 1 other guy is single but I'm not attracted to him (though one of my friends considers him attractive). sorry for this huge rant but I just had to get it off my chest. I'd talk to my new girl friends about it but I don't want to be a debbie downer. they seem like they're in that state of bliss when you're crushing on someone and they know it's returned and I just envy that. I keep it inside, though, and just act like normal, though, but it deep down hurts cause it just makes me feel alone again. I even liked one of the guys who's crushing on one of my girl friends in my group (there's 3 of us, me included) until I realized that he liked that one girl. I still find him attractive and we strangely have way too much in common (even more than he does with that girl he fancies) but I'm trying to just let it go and just be friends since I guess he just wants to be friends with me, but it's just hard. and I wouldn't try anything now that my friend likes him back, which she admitted after i told her i wasn't really into him anymore in that way (which was a lie, but the signs were getting obvious that he liked her). like it's just ridiculous. how patient am I supposed to be? I don't want to just use my first kiss on some random guy just cause I want to do that stuff but I do want to be loved in that way, you know. there's nothing awesome about being single at all. maybe if you've already been in relationships so you want a break, after you know what it's like, but especially not after you've gone through your teenage years with NOTHING and you feel hormones and what not a lot. sometimes i wish i could just turn off those feelings and just focus on the important stuff - school, but i'm not a robot, i'm just a human who wants to be loved more than a friend, why is this so difficult
Hey there!
You know, one of my best friends is 20 years old, about to be 21 this year, and she's never been kissed either. I'm sure it bothers her to think about sometimes, but I know she can see the big picture. I've advised her not to just kiss some guy because you never know what it can turn into. First you kiss a guy you're not interested in and then he gets mixed signals and then you're involved in this whole mess that you would probably wish you were never in to begin with. It's a difficult thought to handle, I hadn't been kissed until I was actually 18. Life has an interesting way of working itself out. Trust me, the longer it probably takes for you to be kissed, the more meaning it will have to you and the other person. Everyone was meant to be loved, just be a little patient. Just think of it this way, most people don't end up with their first kiss or second kiss either. For them, it could lose meaning but for you, you'll understand how important it is.
There are pros and cons to the experience of being 100% "innocent" or not. People who've been dating since that young usually have stories behind them, they're hurt more, they act out more, they have more drama. The way I see it, the less you have to your past, the cleaner your head is.
:) Please don't feel bad. I'm sure someone out there is waiting for you.
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theres this girl i work with, theres also this guy i work with a couple months ago he started flirting and i wanted to know about him so i asked the girl i work with turns out she had this major crush on him since highschool but nothing ever happened and i mean NOTHING , anyway i start going out with this guy and i start hearing from people at work that shes telling everyone she hates me, she even deleted me off of facebook, HERES WHERE IT GETS STRANGE. it looks to me like where not friends so when i see her i dont talk to her but she acts like im here very bestfriend in the world and even gets upset when i dont talk to her, but she hates me..... idk what to think about this should i just let her smile in my face forever knowing she talks about me behind my back, or should i confront here and tell her to stop being fake..... i havent told her i know she deleted me i havent even told her i know shes talking shit, i think the only reason shes being nice is because shes obsessed with my boyfriend and still want him to be her friend. what do you guys think?
Hey hun, I know someone who's like that, but the situation about the guy thing isn't the same. Honestly, the best thing to do is to confront her about it. She's probably just putting on a show so that it seems like shes the bigger person for not hating you after everything or she's just trying to prove to the guy she can be as cool as you, etc. Or she could even want to be close to you to get in on him. You never know. My best advice is to confront her before she does something and makes you look like the bad person in the situation.
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Im 13 and my lower back hurts a lot lately and I feel sick my breasts hurt to push I have hair down there and on my legs I have acne and discharge my sister started her period when she was 15 am I about to start??????
Yes those are indications that you will getting your period soon. Those are the typical symptoms, some of which I have myself. If you experience pain when it starts, take some pain reliever pain. Midol works best with me.
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My great grandma is 95 yrs old. she has been in the hospital numerous times in the past few months for breaking her hip & neck. She fractured her neck and its well now, she has a sore on her foot that won't go away, first the doctor said just leave a sock on it and let it get will, then they said it was gangrene then it isn't. She can't walk because her foot. She doesn't talk to anyone and she barely eats. I think she feels lonely or depressed about her health problems? Idk, we try to talk to her and she doesn't talk, sometimes we try to get her to eat and she doesn;t eat. She just lays down, not saying anything & sleeping or slouched staring into space. She doesn't want to get up and she's always cold even though it's literally 105 degrees outside and its not cold inside. She doesn't like for them to change her diaper, feed her or anything. Her doctor told my aunt that my great grandmother had gangrene, but then we took her to te hospital and they said that she didn't have it, she just had a blockage in her foot. She has bad nutrition from refusing to eat, so they said that they can do anything or cut her leg off because it will kill her faster. My great granddmother didn't start having these problems with her leg until she went to the hospital and the doctors there never treated her for her leg pain, they didn't care if she ate either. She is in the hospice now, they don't give her any blood pressure medicine or any medicine she needs. They don't feed her or care if she eats. She's always dirty (they treated her this way in the hospitals too). yesterday when we went to see her, she wouldn't wake up for ANYTHING. We talked to her in her ear & tried to wake her, we wiped her face and the doctors even moved her, but she wouldn't wake up, she was sleeping heavy and snoring. My family & I believe that the nurses are giving her medicine to knock her out all day, so she won't cry about pain in her leg from the blockage or anything. She doesn't even drink water or urinate that much. Are the nurses at the hospital & hospice doing the right thing for her? Are they just trying to kill her faster?
Because of her age, doctors would do something like that. Some doctors don't value patients of that age because it could simply be a waste of their time and resources. You should consider taking her to another doctor and getting a different opinion. Hopefully they won't treat her the same way.
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