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This boy in my class told every 1 who i liked and now I dont even like him n e more because he's going out w/ to otha grls. so every 1 thinks I like this juvie that i really dont like.
Wut shood I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! (link)
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Did you like that person that told all the people you like you liked them? Im sorry but your question was a little confusing. If thats true, then you shouldnt be around someone like that. He seems like a jerk. Just deny it. lol.
hope it helps
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Well I dated this guy for 2 and 1/2 years, and he dumped me in october! I still like him so much, and everyone tells em to get over him but its really hard. He doesn't like me at all, or he acts like he doesnt. Im really depressed and i cry alot, i dont know how to get over him! (link)
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It sounds like he may be over you. if thats the case, try to move on. I know it may be hard but you have to try. Maybe you should get rid of sum stuff that reminds you of him, or get rid of sum of your memories. hope it helps
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how do you make people want to be around you all the time? (link)
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Just be yourself! People like self confidence and they're drawn to it. Thats the best advie i have for you
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I am a gay male in my 30’s, and have been in a loving, committed relationship with another male since I was 18 years old. I plan on being with this man for the rest of my life.
This year marks the 10th Anniversary of my "coming out" to my parents. Back then, my relationship with my boyfriend was already in its 5th or 6th year, and it saddened me that I could not share its joy with my mother and father for whom I loved dearly. My honesty had brought me close to them again, and their acceptance has been a true blessing. I am grateful, for I know many others whose stories are not so lucky.
But this is not why I write.
My question has to do with my father. He does not judge me for being gay. He is very proud of his tolerance, and we have had many open and frank conversations about homophobia and my experiences with homophobia.
My problem is although he is not critical or judgmental about my lifestyle, he is overly critical and judgmental about every other aspect of my life. My job, my car, my driving, my diet, my finances, my clothes, my speech, my hair, my skin, my schedule, my everything are open territory to his persistent nagging. A thirty minute phone call with him can set me into a depression for a week. It would be easier if he hated me for being gay.
I often ask him questions about life and the lessons he has learned, but he replies with mean, personal attacks on my character. I am a very successful man in my field, and I feel his concerns are unwarranted. I have frequently told him as such.
Today, I feel I am fed up with trying to make him happy. During the holidays, he made me miserable because I did not live up to his regimented expectations. When the slightest thing is not perfect in my life, I cannot be honest with him and dishonesty is what I ran from 10 years ago. I fear his lectures, and I am starting to lie to him again. I love him because he is my father, but I do not like him.
He is so proud that he is man enough not to judge his son for being gay. Believe me, I am thankful. But, how do I get him to not judge me for being HUMAN?
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ummmm i dont know if my advice might be as much help to you considering i am at least half you age LOL. IM 15 and i have a naggin father as well. He's ALWAYS telling me wut i can do better from cheerleading, to grades. lol. I've realized that men like my dad love conflict, they like to have us get all mad. So all i do is smile sweetly, and say "Thanx dad, thats an interesting idea. I'll think about it." Dont know if itll help ya out, but i hope it does.
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Otay.. Im a good advice giver and all.. But right now i need some advice from some1 else. Okay well theres this boy i really really like.. And we used to go out but then i broke up with him .. Wanna know the reason? So do i.. I dunno.. I was just in a bad mood and he happened to tick me off and i told some1 i was thinking about taking a break and next thing i know she told me she called him and told him it was over.. So after that.. We were akward around each other for the next few months.. But now were like.. bestfriends again.. And now hes off doin his own thing with his love life.. hes already been out with another girl and he likes this girl right now.. And thats sorda my problem.. Im still crazy about this guy.. And Im SICK AND TIERD OF BEING HURT, cuz everytime he talks about her or even says her name i get upset.. And The thought of never being able to be with him again hurts just as bad.. And my problem is.. I have been thinking latly.. That maybe we shouldnt be friends anymore.. Maybe we should just stop talking to each other and like.. never see each other or anything.. I think thats best.. If i totaly push him outta my head i cant like him anymore right? (btw he knows i love him) But im not real certain.. I cant talk to him about this.. because its about him.. and hes prolly end up saying something and hurt my feelings, not meaning to tho. But then again i want to keep being his friend. and i want to keep liking him. Cuz there is STILL this little tinsy wensy spark of hope.. Plus hes like my bestfriend.. And I tell him everything and anything and hes always there to help me out.. but i dunno.. Im just tierd of being hurt, what should i do? (link)
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Well, i've been down your road. You should tell him EXACTLY how you feel. Spill your guts! Does he know the whole story from when you "dumped" him before? Cause if not maybe that'll make him think. i dont know its hard to say, cause with every friend-to-lover-to-friend situation is different. But i think, ending your friendship with him will push him out of you eyesight. NOT out of your mind. In the end you'll end up missing him more. And you might end up regretting it. Sorry its not very good. hope it helps anywayz.
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Ok i am really attcracted to this one girl it's just plane crazy. But she already has a bf on her hockey team that goes to a different school. Wat should i do???? i rate 5 (link)
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haha i wonder how many times people ask this one a day? ;)
If she already has a guy shes OFF limits. I suggest you just try to become friends with her for now. Then if something happens to then you can be her shoulder to cry on. but DONT go for it yet. Its not fair to either one of them.
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Well i'm a 16 year old girl, whose pretty,fun,and popular and I have alot of friends.But there is a problem that most people don't really see as a problem;i'm italian.Not everyone at my school, but a group of people constantly make jokes to me about my heritage.It all started on the first week on school when we had to write a paper about ourselfs (favorites,ethnic background,religion,ect.) so people could get to know us.well i put in there I was italian,and right after the class these girls came up to me and asked if my dad was in the mafia!what the hell is that about?no body has any respect now adays,and i guess it has to do with shows like the gottis and the sopranos(even tho i love them!) who give people the impression ALL italian-americans are like that,and that all italian-americans have dads like tony soprano.what should I do to get rid of this stigma and situation?thanks alot and I'll rate u a 5 if u don't act all bitchy about it!=)
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haha~ u seem like a REALLY nice girl! and I know how it feels. I am greek and ever since My Big Fat Greek Wedding came out people make fun of me. And I'm captain of the cheerleading squad. ;) I am also italian so.... the best advice i have for you is to just lauh right along with them. Eventually they'll get over it. Sorry, its the best i got!
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i used to live in florida but then my dad got transfered to pennsylvania.i had tons of friends at my old school but i dont fit in at my new school.i sit with the popular people and i thought they were my friends but then i found out they have been going to the movies and stuff.they just dont call me to hang out they call everyone but me!what the hell?they treat me like a friend at school so why not include me?for valentines day they all wore these really cute pink shirts that are matching. and im the only one at their table who didnt hav the matching shirt.then they were talking about stuff that happened at the mall. i just sat there like how can you be so mean when im sitting right here.
what should i do?????????
should i talk to them about?
should i sit with a different group at lunch??
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Maybe instead of just sitting around waiting for THEM, you should invite them to do something. PLan a slumber party or ask em if they wanna chill at the mall. But, just out of experience, it doesnt sound like they're REALLY your friends. Instead of worrying how popular they are, try making friends with the people you sit next to in your classes.
i hope it helps ya! ;)
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Tomorrow is valentines day. Ive been going out with my bf for 2 weeks now and we havnt hung out once, just at basketball games. I feel kinda wierd when its just us two. I want to hang out with him tomorrow everyones saying how pathetic it is that we dont hang out but none of my friends can come because they are ganna be with their bfs. What should i do? (link)
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I think you should just ask him out. I mean you guys are going out lol. Or maybe hes planning something really sweet for tomorrow. If he IS just shy maybe you should plan something you know he'll like.
hope it helps!
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My piano teacher just quit recentely and i am very sad. I have known him for a lot of years. He was great at piano and i liked how he teached. I just got another piano teacher. I like her but i really am sad that my piano teacher quit. What should i do? (link)
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I think you should try and keep in touch with your old piano teacher. If you do like your new piano teacher you should just let her know how you feel. If he did a certain thing to help you learn it maybe you can tell her that. Hope it helps,
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