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okay so last year this kid liked me and i liked him i just never wanted to go out with him and now this year i love him.. like i just wanna be with him and i was going to tell him but then i found out that he likes a girl in 10th( were in 9th) and like i donno its like he likes me a little and he doesnt really know that i like him like a lot and i wanna tell him i just dont wanna be like hey i love you. what are some good ways to tell him that will convince him that i do wanna be with him this time! please help!!
just be like, "Last year,..i dont know what it was,...but it made me relieze how much i want you...i love you" and if he's like "what?" and trys to walk off pull him back a kiss him or do something that will get his attetion. that should make him believe! i hope i helped! good luck! ;)
i have wonderd this for years. if for example your from france and you move to england, and you learn and talk in english, do you think in french or english. like if you were thinking about you shopping list or working something out in your head, what language do you talk in your head?
probably french but you would have to convert it into english whenever you talked to someone
I had to write a poem for class, it could be on any subject written in any form. I wrote this about my grandpas death. please tell me if its good.
I’m sorry
For not being there when you died
For leaving you alone
For not saying I love you when I left
For all the suffering you went through
For not suffering with you
For enjoying myself while you were in pain
For laughing while you could barely speak
For smiling while you were crying
For being careless while you were afraid
For not being there
I’m so sorry
i think its pretty good, but if you want another one heres on I wrote
Goodbye
For every person that doesn’t care,
Another one dies.
So be careful how you say,
Your “Hello” and “Goodbye”.
It's short and simple but its deep.
Okay. He's my age (15) and well hes really popular and stuff and I go to a catholic school and hes the public school and I really want my mom to kind of get the hint that I really want to go to public schools because I know more people from the public schools in my area then the catholic school I go to right now. Well hes sooo cute and I just know alot of girls like him and well I went the other night to a football game and he kept coming up to me and saying random things like , " So are you going to go to public schools next year?" and I was like ahh I don't know. And he did random things throughout the night. haha! but I really like him and I want to go out with him so bad but I don't know what I should do to get him to relize I really like him!!! I'll rate high for helpful answers!!!!! Thanks!
I think he likes you back! I mean he kept tryin to start a conversation with you,...the thing is, that we dont relieze ((usually)) whenever someone likes us,..keep in touch with him go on little hang out with him and some other friends and y'all ((i'm southern dont make fun of me)) should become closer and try and convice your mom that a public school is the better choice for you. i sure hope i helped!
I wrote before about how my mom was sick and that i wasnt sure what was wrong with my mom( http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=383493 ) Anyways, Now I do. I'm not realy in the mood to write this all out but here this will help alot. Today i decided to start up writing a journal again but this time on the computer since I can type realy fast just save it to a founder with that days date. Well anyways heres waht i wrote today (take in mind taht I started the journal thing today and the ---- means informatino i cant give out lol...
10-22-05- Saturday
Dear Journal,
I decided to start to write a journal. I used to when I was 9 or 10 or something like that but I never found it as a necessary as a teenager. Since I haven’t written in so long I guess I should start with the basics. I am 13 years old.I live at --------,Ohio. My home phone number is now ------. I’ve been living in -------- for about 10 years. I have a dog named Scotch and a Cat Named Magic. Ashley (my twin) is of course 13. Katie is 12 and Jenny is 23. Jenny is married to Brad and they have two Children; Alec who is 5 and Addison who is 3. I am in the 8th grade also and I go to East Palestine Middle School. My favorite color is pink. I am a East Palestine 8th grade Cheerleader. I was one last year too. I have a awesome boyfriend who I am sure that I am in love with. His name is Kevin Scott Ludwig. He’s 15 ½. He so handsome. He has blue eyes that I get lost in and has a laugh that can make anyone’s day. I have brown eyes and brown hair. My fears are really hard to explain so its easier to say that my fear that always haunts me has pretty much became reality.
My mom went to the doctors Last weekend for a yearly checkup, no big deal right? Well they drew blood work and such and she’s been waiting for results. Always, Thursday Addison and my mom went to school with me till after 4th period cause it was bring family to school day okay? Well when she got home she got a message from our doctor saying that they got the results from the blood work and to come in right away. So she called my dad and told him and he came home and them and Addison went to the doctors. Well, It turns out my mom has a disease. This is my worst fear / nightmare. Though I’m not really sure what the name of it is but its bad. Her bloods thick and it doesn’t have much oxygen and tons of carbon. She has to stop smoking. Also she is supposed to donate a quart (yes a whole quart) of blood every 4 months. She can have a heart attack and die any second. Its really scary and I cry if I think too much about it but the girls (my two sisters) are kind of acting like its nothing. Something tells me between the next couple months if it stays the same or gets worse my mom will go into a mild depression (that’s my opinion) just because she is already not doing well. She hasn’t been sleeping either. Like when my mom gets mad at my dad and goes to bed angry she will yell like once in her sleep at him ( its kind of funny). Anyways, she hasn’t been sleeping and when she is crying in her sleep and yelling and talking and a lot of other things. She is talking likes she going to die. She is scared for her life and she is terrified she is going to die. I don’t know what to do. I am lost confused and just out of it at some points.
Well I find myself that I cant write anymore.. I’m talking to my boyfriend and I really don’t want to cry right now and I feel the tears coming so I’ll leave it for today…
--Love--
Meg
Dear Journal,
Hey its me again! Well I wanted to fill you in on well more stuff. My dad was talking to my sisters and I about my mom. He was telling us some strange ways she’s been acting and how its extremely hard for her to give up smoking and she has to now because she will die if she doesn’t. Anyways, besides that miserable and unwanted news I found out some new stuff. Not only does my mom has a disease but something major is causing the disease . All the symptoms are saying it’s a brain aneurysm which as you know is not good at all. This is why my mom is scared for her life. She getting a appointment and will go to the hospital probably sometime next week to get a cat scan to see if that’s what it is. Wow you wouldn’t think this could get any worse huh? Between the disease and the brain aneurysm and the fact that my mom is just going wacky right now right? Well wrong. My dad last year went to the doctors and they said he might have a heart problem. So my dad was horrified and so was my mother. They had to take him to a heart specialist and the heart specialist said there was nothing wrong. Well wrong again! Due to what is going on with my mom and such my mom talked my dad into scheduling a appointment with the doctor to have a full physical. Well again they think something is wrong with his heart. He’s nervous but he’s not really one of those touchy feely guys . I’m not sure what to do. I cant control anything anymore I understand that I have to learn to treat both my mother and my father better because if something does happen .. I couldn’t survive knowing I treated them like crap. I don’t really know what to do right now. I really like the idea of writing in here though.. It helps me cop with what’s going on. Well I better go I have decided that I’m going to put today’s entry’s on this awesome website called advisonators.com so that I can have people help me out or help me cope with this really harsh situation.
-Sincerely-
Megan
Some basic Information-
My mom is 42 shes 110 pounds in great health and looks like shes atleast in her early 30's.
My dad is 41 hes not fat but not skinny. Hes all My dad is also in good health.
Just respond I'm not totaly sure what I'm asking for just give me words of encoaragement (sp?),knowledge, I dont care. Thanks you guys.
Wow Megan, that's horrific. Well...my best friend, her mom has a brain tumor, and she's had it for 7 years, and now she's i think 50 and weighs 108. She's real boney and it isnt good. Her father on the other hand has a real big smoking problem,..he's got real black lungs and a heart condition i think. I think it's more of a problem to you then anyone else in your family because this is the time in your life you need your mom dearly. and your younger sister is too young to understand and your old sister has had more time with her that, you may not have. You deffinately need to keep a journal. Try and write in it everyday wrtie all of your feelings down. I told my best friend the same thing i'm going to tell you,...be brave. and think about this quote my communications teacher always uses "Courage isnt the absence of fear, but a need greater than fear." This is the time in your life were fear is present. You may be scared and you've got everything on the line and everything to lose, but believe me, your mom will keep fighting no matter what. i know she's going to try so hard, for you and all of your siblings. your father, he's got so much pressure on him, he doesnt know what to do with it all, as you may or may not know. he's scared just as you are, maybe even more. but he's trying to stay strong i just know it! whenever i was sick, i had to get this thing called a spinal tap. My blood was really screwed up, but now i'm so lively today. Stay strong but dont be afraid to cry, expecially in times like these. just dont moarn over it...it's going to pass, whether its good or bad...you can do this, i know you can.
Okay I realllllllly want a dog. But my mom says No because I dont take care of the dog. How do I convince or talk to her so she can let me get a little puppy! Please help me .
And if I do get one what should I name her.
I have already had dogs named : Chiqui Nena Reina Princess Dutches Taina Sice
So I wanna try something different. Please help ! thanks .
ask her why she wont trust you with a dog. then try and fix those things so you can keep a little puppy!
Ps. I think you should named it Princess or Taina!
theres this boy i like... and i wanna ask him out..
i've been dropping him hints..but i dont think he gets it. i think hes afraid to express his feelings (if he does like me which i have no idea about) like one time, at a school dance (we both had no dates) and i told my friend to ask him out for me and she did and he said no..but she said she was just wondering and i didnt really know she was doing that. but that was before he started to know me. cause hes a new kid. but now we know each other a little bit better and i've been really pretty and funny (i guess thats what he looks for in a girl) and a few days ago, i told him i thought he was hott. he didnt say anything though. haha...should i ask him out? but i kinda want to wait til he knows me a lot more... cuz if he says no..i'll never have another chance..but im so confused. what do i dooo? thanks! much love!!
P.S. he rides my bus too. ♥♥♥♥
Ooh! maybe he's shy,....guys are retarded so go on ahead and make the first move! ;-)
There's this one guy named julian in 2 of my classes and i dont sit near him in any of them. He's really cute and i want to get to know him. The only problem is that ive never really talked to him..i'm to afraid to. does anybody have any ideas on how to start a conversation with him?
and i dont feel comfortable with just going up to him randomly and saying something to him.
any other ideas?? please help..
find something that y'all have in commen like a sport or books or something!
does anyone know the link to a website where you put a link in your AIM profile that says something like... "Love and sex quiz" and it will "tell you what your love/sex life will be like" and then it asks you about your crush and you answer other questions then it sends it to the persons e-mail??? sorry if this is unclear :/
there's a thing in your AIM profile it says link *underlined*, just copy the link and type whatever you want it to say in the 2nd column thingmabob. hope i helped!
Well everybody knows it, Mr. Patton died. And lately he's all I think about. It all still seems like a dream to me. It just won't ever be the same at school without him. I just need to know how to live without him in my life, but not my heart.
you dont need to forget him completly,...and we all know he went some place good. he was a great person...i dont know if this will help but people were sayin that the real reason he died was because of a heart attack, he lost control of the car and slammed on the gas....it made me feel better to know the truth,...just dont moarn over him forever, he would want everyone to forget him and play and play to win!
Well i really enjoy making hot chocolate...but ive been having trouble deciding whether i should put in 2 or 3 scoops of chocolate.
Please help me out..should i use 2 3 or 4 scoops
im really picky on rating..so give me a good answer.
Well it depends, 2 if you like semi-chocolate beverages, 3 if you want a little more and 4 I YOUR JUST CHOCOLATE CRAZI!
Hey,, my mom has cancer..&& I mean I'm really scared. We just got a hosptail bed and everything (( they also call it the Death Bed)) But, I'm really scared. They have already bought a calphon (( however you spell it)) && where she is going to be barried,, and who's going to talk at the funeral and everything..But I cant handle it..I with my mom 24/7 besides when I'm at school. She cant even get up or walk be herself..but how should I handle this..It scares me more and mroe everyday..But people come to me and complain about their problems..when its just like..I got grounded..will woopdie do..But WHAT SHOULD i DO??? I am so confused! I need help!
i'm almost postitive your my best friend. i know you need help,...just dont be scared. be strong, not just for yourself but for all the people around you. and just tell them retarded people to shut up and ask Paige! Gosh, she doesnt have anything important to do! i know you're goin' threw a hard time, DONT GO THREW IT ALONE. i know you have to face reality sooner or later, but which is better for you? to face it sooner or later? probably sooner. you never know when death's gonna strike. it's just best to say 'i love you' to her whenever she goes to bed or leaves to go somewhere. and dont let everybody get involved, only the people close to you. just,...gosh, you're so different...i'm scared if i tell you to do something and you do it, something bad will happen. God, it's been several years since my cancer,...just stay postitive and happy and love yourself and your friends,...i dont know if this will help, make it worse or mean nothing to you, but, i was reading Chicken Noodle Soup for the Teenage Soul, and this guy, his mom or sister was in the hospital and after about 3 months in the hospital, he knew she was in pain, and he was laying in bed one night and was lookin up at the ceiling and said "Mom, (or sister's name, i dont remember which person it was) it's ok for you to die. i know you're in pain" and the next morning she died. he morned, but he knew she was feeling better and didnt have to go threw all the pain she had had while on Earth. And i know your mom will go to heaven...
My hair is curly. Not like loose curls but like really curly. Anyways my sister has the same type of hair but a little bit curlier. She dyed her hair and also straightens it like on every saturdays(cuz she parties and stuff) and she sometimes straighten it on weekdays. Since she dyed her hair, her hair looks really...cripsy. But i don't know.
I want to dye my hair but i don't even straighten it! Should it be okay? Because my sister says that i shouldn't because it would add alot of damage. But i really want to. And i don't think that`ll it be TOTALLY crispy like my sisters because she straightens it more than i do. And i hardley ever straighten. Like..HARDLY!! Do you think it would be a good idea for me to dye my hair? And what would be some good products for my hair not to end up like my sisters even if i don't straighten it?
PLEASE HELP ME!!! IF YOU ARE TOTALLY CONFUSED THEN PLEASE READ IT AGAIN!!! I HAVE UNTIL THE WEEKEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EASY 5's!!
i ♥ you !!
I think her hair is crispy because she fried it with the straightener. If you dont straighten your hair, or blow dry it too much, you should be perfectly fine.
Sorry if it's long I'll rate 5's to serious answers.
My dad has been going over his brothers. Lately and he has been taking pills and stuff while he is their. I didn't find out this out until today. My other uncle says they really messed him up when he was younger and doesn't want to see it happen again. Well today he told me he was leaving because my mom and him were arguing he said he'd be back in a few days but I don't want him to leave at all. This really upsets me because I love my dad with all my heart. And my mom says their taking a break which usually means divorce and I don't want them to separate because I love them equally. My dad says this is because my mom drinks (not heavily) and stuff. I think I am a cause for this to because last week my mom and I were arguing and the cops came (for disorderly conduct or something) and as soon as my dad came home she told him. I'm really confused because I love both of my parents. Last night when they were arguing I cried myself to sleep and thought of suicide. This is the first time I thought of this in a few years. I don't think I would really do it thought. What should I do for my family and myself?
Dont ever think you're the problem! That isnt ever true! Not in any case! I think you shouldnt try and commit suicide. This is just a phase that you have to get threw. But dont do it alone, hang out with your friends alot. I'm not saying to aviod the situation completely, but just until it sinks in...then just try and sort it out with your friend(s) ((if you want to talk to just one and not them all))
Okay,
I have a scalp condition so I have to shave my head...completely. I'm 14 and I use an electric razor to shave. My doc says I should keep it as short as possible all the time. Is it safe/smart to use an electric razor on the scalp just for spots that are growing fast/faster?
Thanks,
NewToBaldness=)
Umm, no, i dont think so, if you want to keep it short, becaus if you use a eletric razor it grows back pretty fast, dont ask me how i know,...i just do
Hey guyss. Well latley I`ve been having some trouble ( friends, grades etc. ) You know, the normal middle school drama. Well I`ve been taking my anger out on random people ( like saying sarcastic remarks or insulting them) without realizing I did it until I already said it. I want to be nicer to everyone and become more outgoing. Anyone got any tips to help get me started and to remind me to be more outgoing, nicer, and friendly in the future ? Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. xox
Hey, I'm a real mean person,...but all my friends know i'm just joking, just try to explain it to the random people that you're just havin some problems and dont know how else to take out your anger.
I'm like in tears trying soo hard not to cry so sorry if i mess up on any spelling or anything.
Heres some background:
Okay, like 14 years ago my mom had breast cancer. She survived and has been cancer free for about 12 years... My grandmother passed away from it in 2001 and many women in my family have died or have breastcancer in both sides of my family. Also my family has a sort of decisese that evreyone women on atleast my mom side of my family has that it makes lumps in your breasts and stuff.. Now the guys have that cancer related to breast cancer and my pappap has it but it too old (83) to get treatment..
What i need help on:
My mom went today to get a Passmere and that breast checkup thingy and seh said they drew blood work. When my dad got home they were talking about thing then my dads being like out of it and has been laying on the couch ever since he got homw itha blankey wrapped around him. And my mom, she looks horrible and my mom always looks great. She looks like shes sorda worried. Anyways we went to go pick up my sisters and i was talking to my mom about what was wrong with my dad and she kept saying nothing he'll be fine nothing he'll be fine then she said nothi (started to say nothings wrong) but then stoped and said he'll be fine so again i said is tehre somthing wrong with dad and she said I'm the one who went to the doctors he didnt why would tehre be somthing wrong with him? Then she said when i have to worrie then you have to worrie. i have this realy werid feeling they might think the cancers back. .. maybe there just nervous of getting the resluts but i am almost crying and sick to my stomich.. can someone help im not sure what im asking just some advise or help she wont tell me but i'm not sure why we usaly seem realy close.. anways please leave me somthing...
---13/f---
Wow,...my grandmother died of breat cancer, and i've had cancer ((a different kind)) myself. I really think something is up. And if she has it again, i'm sure she'll have a strong enough amuen system to fight it off. Sinve her body already reconizes it. You know that's how they make medicean right? They take some of the virus an insert it into the body, but not enough to hurt you or make you sick. Please don't freak out, it'll just cause un needed emotions
i have a boyfriend..and i love him soo much
but like he is REALLY shy..
and i want to give him a hug soo bad..
and his stupid parents dont let me call him
and it sucks...any tips on atleast giving my
boyfriend a hug!!??
oh ya iml ike 5'3 and hes 5'8 so thats why i think it would be kind of a lift for me to hug haha.
thank you!! I'll rate depending on good of an answer :]
Wow, talk about your hardass parents. And the height difference i think is almost perfect cuz you'll be up to the top of his chest right? thats about perfect! just do it whenever his parents arent around
ok so i like is kid im 14f and i have liked him for a year and like i still do and am a very outgoing person dont care wut people think or anything i want to tell him but like im scared too my best friend thinks he likes me so does her younger sister but i dont see should i tell him and if i should how would i bring it up
well, you should bring it up as something random. I'm a very random person and no one really notices, they just think i'm just wonderin or bored so ask them....i hope i helped
help i just got my dog some shoes from pet's mart, and they're sooooo cute! and we just got them today, but she walks really funny and weird in them... like she lifts up her feet too high and walks slow, and doesn't really want to move... do you think she just needs to get used to them... and do you think that once she gets used to them she'll start walking normally? if you think she will, how long do you think it'll take? we only put it on her feet when she goes outside, and she goes outside like after every few hours or something.
please help i rate high!!!
P.S. also, if you have a dog that actually has shoes too, then tell me how your dog was walking at first, and if it ever got used to it, and all that stuff!!! please give me some details so i'll know exactly!!!!
I think it's just because your dog isnt used to shoes. It highly depends on what kind of dog you have to determind if she'll get used to them