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Being nicer.
Hey guyss. Well latley I`ve been having some trouble ( friends, grades etc. ) You know, the normal middle school drama. Well I`ve been taking my anger out on random people ( like saying sarcastic remarks or insulting them) without realizing I did it until I already said it. I want to be nicer to everyone and become more outgoing. Anyone got any tips to help get me started and to remind me to be more outgoing, nicer, and friendly in the future ? Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. xox
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Think about what you say before you say it. Just stop and think. If you let something slip, just say something like,"I'm sorry, I didn't mean that. I'm REALLY stressed..."
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!~*becca*~!
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dont listen to all that junk about listen to what you say before you say it...trust me ive been there it doesnt work...if u wanna be nicer to people then in the morning play your fav songs over and over and it will get you in a good mood...and then you will probably stay that way for a while...if you accidentally say something mean and youve already said it then just wait a second with a serious look then laught and say haha did u actually believe me and stuff like that...if you say something really mean then give em a little smile and say that wuz good i should write that one down...and just laugh it off if they take it seriously then say im soo sorry i didnt mean it and give em a little hug...if you feel really mad...then just tell everyone you have a headache and thats why you might seem down...then thell back off on the annoying things they do probably...
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Think before you speak. Do not let that first sentence go in one ear and out the other. Seriously read it over. I know it may happen to be cliche, but it means something. Plan what you say before you say it. It may take a little while before it sits in that you really need to control what your mouth lets out, but you'll get it after a while. To be outgoing-- don't be afraid to ask someone something or flirt or joke with them, as long as you plan the words so they cannot be turned back on you as rude or weird. What I mean by weird is don't say something that might freak a person out. It's okay if you have a zany side to you, but don't tell someone you stalk them...which, you probably weren't thinking of that I'm just telling you to look out for certain things. Good Luck!
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Hey, I'm a real mean person,...but all my friends know i'm just joking, just try to explain it to the random people that you're just havin some problems and dont know how else to take out your anger.
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Just think before you say anything. Try and understand what each person is going through. I know it is hard to be nice to some people but sometimes you have to not say anything. Just take one day at a time. Try not saying anything mean about anyone for one whole day. If you accomplish this then you can go with more days of being nice. Mabe you should try talking to someone that you dont normally talk to. It might help.
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