There's this one guy named julian in 2 of my classes and i dont sit near him in any of them. He's really cute and i want to get to know him. The only problem is that ive never really talked to him..i'm to afraid to. does anybody have any ideas on how to start a conversation with him?
and i dont feel comfortable with just going up to him randomly and saying something to him.
any other ideas?? please help..
<3 Elle
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? alongtimelex answered Friday October 21 2005, 10:43 pm: I have a couple of ideas that just might help. If you are too shy to go up to him randomly and make conversation, then maybe you would feel more comfortable getting to know one of his friends first. Then, you can walk up to that person when he's around and it will not be so random to talk to him. Or, since he is in two of your classes maybe try to be in the same group as him, try to sit next to him, ask him about homework, or anything along those lines. Asking about homework, or asking for help, is not random because wouldn't you talk to anyone else about that? Do not be shy, my dear. You only live once, so do not let an opportunity pass you by. Just remember that even though you like this boy he is no better than you, and you should just be yourself and make conversation with him. Maybe find out his SN if he has one, if you are really too nervous to talk to him in person, and IM him. Just be like..Hey its "so and so"...and ask something about class, and then change the subject and keep talking to him. Well, I hope I helped some! Good luck with Julian. <3 Lex [ alongtimelex's advice column | Ask alongtimelex A Question ]
xomadiiox answered Friday October 21 2005, 10:33 pm: Well me personally I am not that outgoing. I don't know if you are, but if you are you should introduce yourself. Be flirtacious. But if you aren't then introduce yourself to one of his friends or maybe one of your friends is friends with him if they are then have your friend introduce you guys. Buuuuut if you don't know that many people in class and you are not outgoing this is a good excuse to talk to him tell him you don't really know any one and you wanted to know if you guys can be friends = D .
! good luck babe !
P.s And if he rejects you he is not good enough, and show him you are better than him by not caring. [ xomadiiox's advice column | Ask xomadiiox A Question ]
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