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Hey,, my mom has cancer..&& I mean I'm really scared. We just got a hosptail bed and everything (( they also call it the Death Bed)) But, I'm really scared. They have already bought a calphon (( however you spell it)) && where she is going to be barried,, and who's going to talk at the funeral and everything..But I cant handle it..I with my mom 24/7 besides when I'm at school. She cant even get up or walk be herself..but how should I handle this..It scares me more and mroe everyday..But people come to me and complain about their problems..when its just like..I got grounded..will woopdie do..But WHAT SHOULD i DO??? I am so confused! I need help!
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i'm almost postitive your my best friend. i know you need help,...just dont be scared. be strong, not just for yourself but for all the people around you. and just tell them retarded people to shut up and ask Paige! Gosh, she doesnt have anything important to do! i know you're goin' threw a hard time, DONT GO THREW IT ALONE. i know you have to face reality sooner or later, but which is better for you? to face it sooner or later? probably sooner. you never know when death's gonna strike. it's just best to say 'i love you' to her whenever she goes to bed or leaves to go somewhere. and dont let everybody get involved, only the people close to you. just,...gosh, you're so different...i'm scared if i tell you to do something and you do it, something bad will happen. God, it's been several years since my cancer,...just stay postitive and happy and love yourself and your friends,...i dont know if this will help, make it worse or mean nothing to you, but, i was reading Chicken Noodle Soup for the Teenage Soul, and this guy, his mom or sister was in the hospital and after about 3 months in the hospital, he knew she was in pain, and he was laying in bed one night and was lookin up at the ceiling and said "Mom, (or sister's name, i dont remember which person it was) it's ok for you to die. i know you're in pain" and the next morning she died. he morned, but he knew she was feeling better and didnt have to go threw all the pain she had had while on Earth. And i know your mom will go to heaven...
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