Well to tell you alittle about myself. I'm a 32 year old woman. I have three children that are my life. I have been married for a three years now. It is my second marriage, my first one falled but that's ok. I love to help people when they need it. I will try and give you the advice that will help. Hope to meet new people too.
E-mail: eric.april@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: strykersville, new york
Occupation: stay at home mom
Age: 30
Yahoo: aprilericmc@yahoo.com
MSN: eric.april@hotmail.com
Member Since: September 30, 2005
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is masturbation bad for your body? (link)
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masturbation is not bad for your body. It's a good thing. You become more aware of your own body and it help you explore yourself.
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i have this friend that i really like...and i wanna show him how much i like him..if you know what i mean ;]..anywaysz..he alwaysz talksz to me and he makesz it seem that he wants me that way too..and i really want him..i just want to suprise him..like an unexpected thing..the thing is..i have NO clue how to make that come about..and i really wanna get him hott and excited ;]...please..if you have any tips or tricks..please let me know..i rate high =]
thanks :] (link)
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Well for startes you could cook him a nice meal. Then after dinner give him a nice back rub, while your doing that start kissing the side of his neck and going done the his spine. Then you could come around front and rub his chest and then things should start he going from there.If you need more help email me at Keemkick@hotmail.com.
Not to be rude but how old are you.
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Hey my hair right now is black with brown streaks i want to change the black to blonde and the streaks to streaks of light brown, white blonde, and blonde.
Here is what i look like. http://myspace-738.vo.llnwd.net/00254/83/76/254976738_m.gif Do you think i should do it? (link)
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It's hard to die black hair to blonde. You'll have to go to a hair dresser and see what they can do. doing it yourself do turn out bad. Hope I helped.
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Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him? (link)
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This bad boy as you call him is probably going thru a faze like every boy are man goes thru. but it will take him a while or so to get out of it. but for you I think you should try and be friends and see what happens from there. but if you start to get into trouble with him then there's a good chance your parents will step in. hope I helped.
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i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks. (link)
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Well the first time that I had sex was when I was 18. I waited to find the right one for me. Not a lecture.
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I'm a 14/f and i would like to give my boyfriend head, but i'm scared because i dont want to hurt him because of my braces or rip the condom or anything. what should i do?
-Lost-n-confoosed (link)
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well for 14 you shouldn't be thinking of giving your boyfriend head yet. Plus you have a long time to think about it. you might regret it in the long wrong. I think you should wait. hope i helped.
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okay well i was wondering if the people who no longer get their periods because of eating disorders can still get pregant even though they dont get it anymore? (link)
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even if your not getting you periods of a eating disorder theres probably something really wrong with you. a perosn with a eating disorder will have a harder time carring a baby to term and if they do the baby could have problems.
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i have known this boy brendan for 1 year and a half... ive liked him for 6 months... and loved him for 2. He knows i like him... and he gives me mixed signals. I think he may like my best friend adriana... but i am not sure... idk what to do about this.. (link)
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Well for startes you could go up to him and ask him out on a date and see if he says yes. If he says yes then go from there. Or just go up to him and ask him if he likes this girl. Hope this helps.
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hi... well im 19/f and I'm getting married 1 week from today.. I know it's only a little bit away and a stupid time to be asking this but anyway My fiance has been like accusing me of cheating on him because im involved with the football team at the highschool because i coach it... how can i stop him from thinking this? Also I've been becoming really attracted to this 1 guy where i work.. is this normal? (link)
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If in your heart your not ready to get married and your fiance is accusing you of cheating now there is a problem and they say if the guy or girl thinks your cheating really there the one that are and there nervous that their going to get caught. If your having problems now, you should hold off on getting married. Hoped I helped.
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I know this might not make a lot of sense, but I'm on birth control and I can't seem to find the information packet that came with it. I was wondering..are there certain pills in the pack that have higher doses of ingredients that prevent pregnancy. For instance, is there a certain color set of pills that are more effective than the others? (By the way I'm on Ortho Tri-Cyclen Lo if that makes any difference.) (link)
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take the pill everyday(in the morning) don't forget to take them. The white ones at the end are placebo's. we your done with that packet just start your next one or take to your dr. about being on the patch. But if you forget to take your pill you could get pregnant. If you can't remember it's better to call your doctor. hope I helped
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I have a 94 Ford Taurus with almost 140,000 miles. I continue to put money into it for repairs and many of the parts have been replaced. Yet again something is wrong, I need new front breaks, springs and struts. It is about $1000 in repairs. My question is do I fix my car in hopes it will last 3-4 more years without major repairs or should I finaly junk it and spend the money towards a new used car with 40,000 miles. Something around $4000-$5000. I am at a loss of what to do? (link)
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If it was my vehicle I would get rid of it and buy something else.
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First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.
But.
I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.
I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?
Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like
"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"
or outright flames will get a 1. (link)
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I'm 29 years old . When I was 20 I was very sexually active and still am. I don't think there's anything wrong about talking about sex or haveing it. I have sex with my huband fousr or five times a day. And I still want more. So don't feel ashmend about it. hope I helped.
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hi..
Iam 31, i have 2 kids one 3 month old and a 9 year old ..my oldest has a different dad{happens}
i have been w this man for 5 years and he has always treated my son like his own..his father is somehow thru manipulation turning my son against my boyfriend all of a sudden he doesnt want him at any football games,, which he paid for if it wasnt for him he wouldnt even be on a team... his father and i have been apart for 10 years he has a girlfriend that calls me on the phone and says i can have him back and that sort of stuff i will call there house and she will hang up on me..i dont really kow how to go about handling this situation ... i think it boils down to his father being insecure about my son and his relationship since i have had the baby! why since then? like i said it has been 10 years! iam thinking of professional help! thanks ! torn mother/torn child
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This girlfreind that your ex's has is probably trying to start stuff with you, don't believe her. I have the same probablem with my ex husband. He has a girlfriend and I can't stand her. I remarried and my two children have the same father and my my youngest has a different father. Your ex is only jeoulous of you and he probably still loves you but he knows that he can never be with you again. Your son knows that your boyfriend had been there for him and he's probably only acting like that because that's his father and he doesn't want to hurt him. My children are the same why with their stepfather. You might want to get help for you and your son. I might help your relationship with your son. But always remember that your kids with alway love you and their father.Hope I helped. keemkick@hotmail.com. If you would like to chat some more.
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Hey everyone. Well, this topic might come up all too frequently, so my condolences to those of you who are sick of this. Anyway, I'm 14 kinda short for my age, and I have brown hair and blue eyes. There's actually a few people who "feel" for me right now, but 2 of them I think are repulsive, and the other 1 is really only my friend. I've still never kissed anybody...and I'm wondering if maybe I'm just too picky at this point. I have no pride in being prude, if I liked someone who liked me back I'd let them kiss me. And also, the older I get, the worser reactions I get from people when they realized I've never kissed. I know I shouldnt care what they think, but sometimes I do. Also though, most people usually remember their first kiss, and if it's going to be that "big" I dont wanna do it with someone who grosses me out. What should I do?
-There's a lot of smart things people could turn around on this question, so if you want to be "artsy" and have fun being a smartass, you can, but your going to be the only one enjoying your hard work.- (link)
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Dear never been Kissed,
You shouldn't worry about not being kissed. At your age you should worry. when the time is right and you might the right person, you will now that is't the right person to kiss. You shouldn't worry about what other people say. Just wait and you'll know when the time is right. Don't rush things. Your not picky. I was the same why when I was your age. I didn't kiss anyone until I was 16. So just wait.
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ok, theres this girl i really like.. and i dont know what to do about it.. shes already taken and i refuse to break em up cause thats jus evil.. she doesnt go to my school.. ive tried dating other people to get her outa my mind but it doesnt work.. i cherish our every convo and i dont want to ruin her relationship.. what should i do?
p.s.... i dont think they will split p for a longg time (link)
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I think that you should just let her go. There is probably a girl out ther for you. Just keek meeting people and you never know that the right girl will come around. Plus you never know with the girl you like. The relationship might not work time will only tell. Don't just settle for one girl that you can't have, because you might just get hurt.
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this guy we have been together kinda for about
a month .. he is almost 21 and im 16. over this
month he has been showing he loves me and he
misses me (hes in the navy on base right now)
but since last weekend when he had to come back
for court (long story with my ex and him) well
we hung out and did shit .. and now he hasnt
been keeping in touch .. i try to call him he
never answers .. i leave a message he never
replies .. i talk to him online sometimes but he
says its just that hes exhausted and stuff from
work and shit .. but see that didnt stop him b4
you know .. its just not the same and i want
to know how to fix it .. like he also says
that it hurt him that i used to tell him that
i thought he was using me and that he hated
me or some shit like that .. but i mean idk
Boys please help me out on what to do about
this situation .. thanks -Nikky Alese- (link)
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Nikky
Ther's probably nothing you can do. But I think that you should give his a little space and see what happens. He probably is tried from working and he is a little other then you. Just give him a little space and He might start to call you and miss you if you don't call or email him. See if that works.
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There is this boy on my bus named Joey and I have had a crush on for a good while. He usually sits with me and is always flirting with me but will not ask me out. He tells me that he likes me and everything but there is only one problem. EVERYONE on our bus hates him. This boy that I have known scence I was five wants to fight him and everyone is tryin to get me to choose sides. Some people are even tryin to get me and him NOT to go out... I have told him that I like him and yesterday even wrote I love Joey on my hand but he still just wont ask me out... What should I do?
Luv Alwz,
Ashley (link)
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Dear Ahley,
If you like him make the first move and ash him out. Don't worry about what other people say. There just jeoulous that's all. Just forget about them and ask him. It doesn't matter what the other people say. If you and this ohter guy like each other that's all that matters>
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i need some good advice to give to my little brother, he is madly in love with a girl alot younger than him. she is 16 and he will be 22 in dec. they dont have a physical relationship, that i know of, god i hope they dont, but anyway he has asked me if i think it is wrong to be in love with her. i am trying to not be to sisterly and bossy about my answer to him i just need some advice on how to tell him how i feel about it. i think it is wrong, but at the same time i want him to be happy. please help (link)
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I think you should tell your brother what you think. Because in the long run if your brother get's involed with her and her parents don't like if he can get into alot of trouble. He only thinks he's in love with her but he probably isn't he needs to get out and meet people his own age or older. Maybe you could help him before it's to late.
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I'm not allowed to hang out with my Best friend 'Michelle' because we had a little fight and she left a baad message on my answering machine; not my cell my house and my mom heard it. This was like June of last year I mean all summer I snuck over her house and met her places and now we're partners for a Social Studies project and I can't tell my mom I'm going to her house. Without her I have no friends and she asked me to sleepover her house. I said no but if I keep avoiding that situation she might no be my friend anymore. What can I do I really want to chill with her and how can I explain that to my mom?
I will rate 5's. (link)
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I think that your friend should go to your mom and appologe for the message that she left. Even if it was last year. Your friend probably matured a little and she should act like an adult and go see your mom. Then I think she might let you start hanging out with her again.
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Ok I have a boyfriend and everything and I am afraid that he will want to kiss me. I don't have a problem with that. Its just my mom. She is VERY protective and if he does kiss me I am afraid that someone will tell her and she will get really mad. So What can I do. I have already talked to her and she said I am too young. :(
13/f No Smartasses either! (link)
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First of all your mom is only looking out for you. Maybe if you let her meet your boyfriend and hang out with your mom and you and your boyfriend maybe she'll not be so protective of you. If your the only child, mom's are protective of there only child. Just give her some time and maybe she'll come around. But don't keep asking her and don't kiss this boy behind her back because then she will be really mad. I hope I helped.
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