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never been kissed.
Hey everyone. Well, this topic might come up all too frequently, so my condolences to those of you who are sick of this. Anyway, I'm 14 kinda short for my age, and I have brown hair and blue eyes. There's actually a few people who "feel" for me right now, but 2 of them I think are repulsive, and the other 1 is really only my friend. I've still never kissed anybody...and I'm wondering if maybe I'm just too picky at this point. I have no pride in being prude, if I liked someone who liked me back I'd let them kiss me. And also, the older I get, the worser reactions I get from people when they realized I've never kissed. I know I shouldnt care what they think, but sometimes I do. Also though, most people usually remember their first kiss, and if it's going to be that "big" I dont wanna do it with someone who grosses me out. What should I do?
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Hi! I know exactly how you feel. I'm 13 and I used to hate people's reactions when they heard I'd never been kissed. The only thing is, the reason I wanted to be kissed was because I was ready. If you think you're ready, and people are pressuring you but you are honestly ready, then get out there! I met lots of guys at acting camp this summer. Get in a new environment, and see what happens. You'd be really surprised who will be interested in you!! My first kiss was on a dare. It was pretty good, and that gave me the courage to kiss the guy I liked later that day. First kisses are supposed to be special, and in my opinion, it's better to wait a little bit longer and do it with someone special than to just do it and get it over with. Good luck!
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Dear never been Kissed,
You shouldn't worry about not being kissed. At your age you should worry. when the time is right and you might the right person, you will now that is't the right person to kiss. You shouldn't worry about what other people say. Just wait and you'll know when the time is right. Don't rush things. Your not picky. I was the same why when I was your age. I didn't kiss anyone until I was 16. So just wait.
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First of all 14 is young so you shouldn't feel like you have to rush things anyways. And there's not a bad part to being picky with who you date and kiss. Usually if you're choosy you'll get somebody better anyways. And if people give you a hard time about not kissing, well just totally ignore them. Most likely they kiss whoever and they're sluts so do you really want to end up like that?!?! I wouldn't if i were you. So just think about all that and i dont think you should change anything about who you pick and all. Hope i helped ya!!!
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