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What should i say?
Hey, im 12, female and i am in 7th grade. there is this guy that i found out liked me and his name is ben. me and him were becoming really good friends the past 2 weeks. we flirted a lot but i never really liked him... one of his x-girlfriends told me that he liked me. i thought she was kidding but it was getting around our school real fast. everyone came up to me like your going out with ben? or omg ben lieks you !! and i never went out with him and i dont like him that way and i knew he liked me. i feel so bad to say no becasue he was such a good friend. i wish he never liked me becasue it made things kinda weird between us... he acts different...one of my really really good friends- fred told him that i loved him as a joke and got kinda mad... but i told ben that i didnt love him adn he kinda got hurt and i feel soo bad.. what should i do? how should i act? should i say something to him? im so confused </3 please answer becasue last time only one person answered me but i really need so advice =[
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i'm sorry u feel that way and those other guys didn't help either did they? jerks.
what had happened to ben happened to me too. the guy broke my heart 3 days ago and i feel so sad, and so does ben. tell him that you really like him as a friend. and that there is nothing wrong with him. what i do is listen to music, like soft rock, music that realates to me. it really helps!
hope i helped!
P.S. i beleive you and beleive in you :)
Cass
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well for one thing that kid fred is immature. Ask him kindly not to intervene in your business, because thanks to him he may have caused hurt feelings. All you can do is tell Ben you wanna be friends with him and maintain that sort of relationship because you dont wanna hurt your good friendship. Try and cheer him up saying hes a good guy and stuff.
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no offence but you're tooooo young to have a boyfriend. this is pure infatuation. you just like someone a lot but its not called love. THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN LOVE. YOU ARE STILL AKID AND ITHINK THAT YOU SHOULD TALK TO THIS HGUY AND FOLLOW YOUR HEART. ok? just don't think about it and like the guy more. you should. and how you should act... you should be yourself. hahaha hunny, i know because its just the way life is ok? take my advice and know that your friends will love you. stay cool and hope my advice helps. goodluck babe.
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ok well you can just try and hook up with someone else so he gets the idea your taking. also you can say that you dont like him that way you want to be his friend and thats it. just say that your sorry and stuff....
Hope I Helped!!
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