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I like this girl.. and she has a good boyfriend
ok, theres this girl i really like.. and i dont know what to do about it.. shes already taken and i refuse to break em up cause thats jus evil.. she doesnt go to my school.. ive tried dating other people to get her outa my mind but it doesnt work.. i cherish our every convo and i dont want to ruin her relationship.. what should i do?
p.s.... i dont think they will split p for a longg time
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i think you should keep a good relationship with her but your doing the rite thing by not trying break them up. does she know how you feel? and i suggest you to try continue dating other people only if he want to..dont do it to convice other people you dont like her anymore...only do it for yourself...if you want this girl...you will be patient...but it will be worth it in the end...i hope i helped...please rate me...---xxx-marlena-xxx---
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It's good that you respect this girl and don't want to break her up with her boyfriend. If you did that, she would find out it was you and hate you forever. Here's what you have to do: Get close to her. Respect her, and talk to her as a friend. Whatever you do, don't flirt with her, don't let her think you might be thinking about flirting with her, don't do anything past hugging. (And if you're really young, don't even hug her.) Talk to her, listen to what she has to say, and show her a piece of the real you. Don't get her to like you because you're hot, just hang out with her. When she does break up with her boyfriend, you will be her shoulder to cry on, and her friend, which will be what she needs. Then you can make your move when the time is right.
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I'm really glad that you know it is an evil thing to do to try to break a couple up. Very smart. Don't try to date other girls to throw her off of your mind, because its not going to work. A lot of people make that common mistake in relationships. Also remember that it doesn't matter if you think they are breaking up anyway, they still deserve respect in their relationship. I think the best you can do is to go on with your own life, and just keep having her as a friend until your body understands that you can't have her. Another thing you can do is to try not talking to her as much so it won't torture you. Thats probably the best thing to do.
-TheTeenGirl
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its really sweet that you respect her relationship. you could tell her how you feel and see how she reacts. tell her that you know she has a boyfriend, and that you honestly have no intention of ending that relationship, but you just wanted to let her know that you care for her. let her know that youre there for her if she were ever to need it.
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Its good your not going to try and split them up. All I can say is maybe try getting some time 1 on 1 where you can hang out with her and connect with her. This may sound wierd, but it might be a good thing that she stays together with her boyfriend for a long time. That means shes committed and you can use her relationship with that other guy as a way for you to see if she's a good girlfriend. If she broke up with him randomly for you that would show you just how much she values her relationships. Keep talking to her, hang out with her if you can, and wait it out.
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I think that you should just let her go. There is probably a girl out ther for you. Just keek meeting people and you never know that the right girl will come around. Plus you never know with the girl you like. The relationship might not work time will only tell. Don't just settle for one girl that you can't have, because you might just get hurt.
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you seem like a nice guy & it's very good that you're letting her have her relationship w/ her bf without you interferring. you need to give them time. i mean, you don't know that they'll be together for a long time, maybe she has feelings for you, but doesn't want to say anything since she has a bf. you're doing the right thing. she would've lost respect for you if you tried to break them up. you really need to look around a bit. im not saying you actually have to look for a gf, but juss keep an open mind. you might find something you aren't expecting. maybe you should juss let her know how you feel in a way that isn't disrespecting her bf er her. stay strong!!
-hope that helped!♥
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find out that theres more to life than love. hang out wiht your friends and all of this is pure infatuation and an illusion to your mind. its normal. just follow your heart and explore the things in life that enjoy you. like pizza for example. i personally crave for pizza but hahaha ok that has nothing to do with anything because im just hungry. but what im saying is that you'll get over it one day. treat this girl and may the best man win. win her heart! fight for her heart if you lvoe her so much and all you can do is follow your heart. saty cool.
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