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My Mom
Ok I have a boyfriend and everything and I am afraid that he will want to kiss me. I don't have a problem with that. Its just my mom. She is VERY protective and if he does kiss me I am afraid that someone will tell her and she will get really mad. So What can I do. I have already talked to her and she said I am too young. :(
13/f No Smartasses either!
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My parents are the same way. Just let your boyfriend know what your mom said. Tell him you can still go to..whatever point you want...but just not to spread everything everywhere or your mom might find out and make you break up. And make sure your other friends know not to tell your mom either. Good luck hun! ♥
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My mom's the same way! I hate it, but what I do when I have the same situation, Talk To him!! Just tell him your story. If he breaks up with you, then he was never worth it!
~Good Luck
~Rachel
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First of all your mom is only looking out for you. Maybe if you let her meet your boyfriend and hang out with your mom and you and your boyfriend maybe she'll not be so protective of you. If your the only child, mom's are protective of there only child. Just give her some time and maybe she'll come around. But don't keep asking her and don't kiss this boy behind her back because then she will be really mad. I hope I helped.
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Go talk to your bf. Explain your situation- if he really likes you he will understand. Ask your Mom WHEN she feels you are old enough to kiss. Then tell him how old you need to be. So now he has an idea of when he will be able to and you won't have to worry about him kissing you out of the blue.
*ems*
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Ok Hunni, I have a few comments for you. Fist off, I would not worry too much about someone telling your mom that this guy kissed you. Personally, I don't know anyone (besides siblings) who would do that. Kissing is just not that big of a deal! If you have siblings, however, I would not kiss your boyfriend in front of them. THEY COULD tell your mom or use it for blackmale if they get mad at you. Ya Know? But, if you really want to kiss your boyfriend, YOUR 13 and I say tell him that you want to. However, if you don't want to kiss him, then I would just wait til your ready. I would just talk to your boyfriend and tell him what your mom said bout kissing that way he is well aware of the situation. Ok sweetie? You may even want to talk to your mom again. If kissing your boyfriend is something you really want to do, then explain to your mom why you think your ready for that. Honestly sweetie, it's not like your asking to have sex or anything and you DID talk to your mom about kissing him before you did it (most kids would not care enough to do that) so I think she should respect that you talked to her and take that as a sign of you growing up. Ya Know? So, TALKING is the key here! Talk to your boyfriend and mom and DON'T KISS HIM AROUND SIBLINGS IF YOU DO DECIDE TO KISS HIM UNLESS YOUR MOM KNOWS YOUR GOING TO KISS HIM! Hope I helped hunni. You can ask me if you have anymore questions. Thanks! *Hugs*
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kiss him when your completley alone with him. no one will see you to tell your mom. good luck
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Well if he is your boyfriend and truly does love you, then definatley tell him all that you just wrote. Really, thats not too big of a problem, so I'm sure he would understand. Really, for a reason like that, there shouldn't be a problem. Don't expect the worst reaction from him either, like what if he was in your position and you wanted to kiss him...would you not like him if he explained all that to you? Of course not. So I say to tell him what you just wrote and to just wait for later, really, its not what should be a deciding factor for a relationship. Hope that helped and good luck. P.S. - Good things come to those who wait.
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next time you see your boyfriend tell him not to kiss you. explain to him why and he will probably understand. That way it will protect you. Maybe give him a virtual kiss. lol. if you do kiss, chances are that someone WILL find out and be talking to you about it in front of your mom and it just wont end up well...
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